Westerngirl; a tragedy in the making

[Ray]

... in response to You're not only dumb...., posted by Carrisse on Jan 26, 2001

You're killing me!

ROTFLMAO!

Ray

[shadow]

... in response to Re: I agree, posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

And probably never will, because you refuse to open your eyes and mind. A large percentage of the girls in Asia have seen more of lifes hardship by the time they turn 20 than you are liable to see for many years to come, if ever. They cannot AFFORD to go out and have fun. They have their famlies to take care of. Many of them have already supported their father for years, do you  think they can afford to send their father to paris? Could you support your parents and siblings in Toronto where the economy is 10X better? What they are in search of is stability and someone to show them mutual respect and love. Us "yucky" 40 YO guys have had our fun and are searching for the same thing, unfortunately, AW are not a good option. If this really bothers you so much, go to the philippines and see for yourself what it is like, you will come away a different person, and the much better for it. Until then, you will NEVER understand, and will continue in your ignorance. If ignorance is bliss, you've been in heaven your whole life. Larry.

[Art]

... in response to Re: I agree, posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

Why is having fun and material things so important?  Since when did family become so unimportant and something that can be "put off".  At least my attitude when i was your age was have kids while i'm young so when i'm older I can do more things and have more fun with them and my Grandkids.  I'm glad i did too because i had to start over with the selfish wife I had.  Now I have a chance to have a better family life where if I had waited then i would be very depressed right now.

Family has to be the most important thing.  Not wealth and material things.  Plus you have to learn to depend on each other in a relationship.  All your post talk about total independence and material things.  None of those will comfort you when you are sick or hold you when you are lonely.

Take a look at the effects of the "lack of love" that occurred in Poland while it was controlled by the communist governemnt.  They'd take the kids away from the parents an put them in orphanages.  The kids are unmotivated or inclined to what ever decrepit thing that comes up because they do not know love or respect others.

Family must always be first and it has nothing to do with presents, eating out and trips to Europe.

Bear

[Westerngrrl]

... in response to Re: Re: I agree, posted by Art on Jan 26, 2001

If I thought that family was not important, then I wouldn't be going home twice a month nor would I marry a man that my family approves of.  You think the women you're writing to aren't materialists? If they weren't then they wouldn't even be writing!

[FL]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: I agree, posted by Westerngrrl on Jan 26, 2001

Your here doing a study? Seems like biased research!!!!!!!!!!! I'll say it again "It's all about you, isn't it?"

[yogi57]

... in response to Westerngirl; a tragedy in the making, posted by Jim (Dipolog) on Jan 25, 2001

Your right Jim.I have most of things AW's want.But I choose to be alone or look else where for a nice lady.Thank God there's other places to look.Rob

[Mars]

... in response to Re: Westerngirl; a tragedy in the making, posted by yogi57 on Jan 25, 2001

What you said......