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Author Topic: What my wife doesn't like about me  (Read 43266 times)
Red Clay
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« Reply #45 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: What my wife doesn't like about me, posted by zack on Dec 17, 2003

Agree with zack. Wondering also about why other guys give her gifts and why you allow her to accept them, or why she wants to accept them.
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DallasSteve2
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« Reply #46 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: What my wife doesn't like about ..., posted by Red Clay on Dec 17, 2003

I don't know all the circumstances of the gifts.  One that I am familiar with is a friend of her friend's husband.  Her friend (a young Mexican woman) wants to split us up.  I think they pitched her to a co-worker and he started sending her gifts through her friend.  We're talking perfumes, flowers, even jewelry (not all from the same guy).

Why her friend wants to split us up would be another good thread: Latina Friends.  My wife has told me enough to be interesting and I watched what happened with my ex.  When the board slows down again I'll throw that out.

I haven't been very concerned because I believe she's not seeing anyone on the side.  They're just lovesick and lonely.  There just aren't enough slender women with long hair here in Dallas to satisfy the demand.

Still, I agree that there is a large double-standard here and I'm working on resolving that.  As I say, I think if she was working it would take her mind off of the jealousy a great deal.

Steve
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Kiltboy1
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« Reply #47 on: December 18, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to The gifts, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

Steve

Watch those Mexican guys. Read my post to your original Post. The Mexican guys are really a lot of trouble.

Andy
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zack
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« Reply #48 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to The gifts, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

Steve,

If I were you I would throw her accusations right back in her face and say:

"If anyone in this relationship should be suspicious, it should be me. You don't see me accepting gifts from some lady. You are a young, beautiful lady and almost any man would jump you in a minute. I don't have as many temptations. So why are you the one in this relationship who is obcessed with finding ME guilty of infidelity?"

I'm not saying she's unfaithful, but I think she needs a wake up call and a taste of her own medicine. All things considered, she is way out of line to be so jealous and full of accusations.

Zack
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Bueller
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« Reply #49 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: What my wife doesn't like about ..., posted by Red Clay on Dec 17, 2003

Even without all the crazy-jealous behavior from her, this one is baffling: other guys buy her gifts??? And she ACCEPTS them??? Amazing the double standard here, just amazing.
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Cali vet
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« Reply #50 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: Re: What my wife doesn't like ab..., posted by Bueller on Dec 17, 2003

That's beyond the pale. Those gifts should go straight into the garbage and let her bellyache if she wants.
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DallasSteve2
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« Reply #51 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Oh oh!, posted by Cali vet on Dec 17, 2003

Some guy sent her flowers this week.  I threw them in the dumpster and she "belly ached".  

However, I haven't tossed all the other gifts.  We did send back a pair of panties which were not very sexy.  True story.  Please guys, if you send her underwear make it some sexy thongs.  We bought a pair recently that have a chain on the back strap.  Very nice touch.

Steve
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zack
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« Reply #52 on: December 18, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Now that you mention it, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

You mean, she actually belly-ached over that? The nerve of her.

And one man actually sent her panties that she would have kept if they were sexy. And SHE is the one obcessed with jealousy and accusations??

This is starting to sound like something that belongs on the Jerry Springer show.

Zack
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roadken
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« Reply #53 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Now that you mention it, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

Steve,You seem like a good guy but you are letting her walk all over you.I fear you have another heartache in your future.
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jim c
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« Reply #54 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Oh oh!, posted by Cali vet on Dec 17, 2003

For sure and kick that mex biche in the culo
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DallasSteve2
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« Reply #55 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Oh oh!, posted by jim c on Dec 17, 2003

That's a good one!
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jim c
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« Reply #56 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to ROTFLMAO, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

Buy some new clothes and cologne and have them delivered to the house from Maria or Luz and see if she likes it. Then explain whats good for the goose is good for the gander. jim
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DallasSteve2
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« Reply #57 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: ROTFLMAO, posted by jim c on Dec 17, 2003

To my house or the house of the Mexican friend?  Both would probably be interesting.

Steve
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Locii
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« Reply #58 on: December 18, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: ROTFLMAO, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

Steve,

I don't know you at all.  But I think you are in serious need of some perspective on all this.  As far as her jealousy is concerned; my (AW) exwife was often quite jealous...and it baffled me for a long time, until I had a psychological epiphany...she was jealous primarily because of HER ABILITY TO CONSIDER INFIDELITY.  In other words, who is the most suspicious person, unable to trust anyone or anything?  The conman.

...but as far as strange men sending her almost any gift (to say nothing of intimate ones) is positively insane.  Simply put, you are her man, her caretaker...allowing her to (solicit? inspire? accept?) gifts from men essentially sends the message that she is willing to consider other offers.  As a single man, thats how I see it at any rate.

Not trying to cause trouble.  In fact it seems like you are trying to be a reasonable person...maybe trying too hard?

Ciao
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Jamie
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« Reply #59 on: December 17, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »
... in response to What my wife doesn't like about me, posted by DallasSteve2 on Dec 17, 2003

I’ve got about 80% of your same issues. Very jealous. I use to be an avid Salsa dancer but she scared off all my dance partners. And your right about the love making, most guys would wonder how one can complain about this. In Colombia when I was romancing her, two or three times a day is part of the vacation experience. But, I work a 12 hour plus day almost every day and I don’t have such time. This was a problem in the beginning but she is now happy with once a day and so am I.
As for the affection, if I don’t tell her I love her many times during the day she will say, “what’s wrong you don’t love me anymore.” Anyway, I can live with these “problems” Smiley
You know she does not need a green card to work once you apply for adjustments of status you can pay (under $200) and apply for her to start working.
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