... in response to Cuba information, posted by Jefferson on Dec 19, 2002Well, I have visited Cuba 5 times, and I will try to give the reasons why I would not marry a Cubana.
1) They are accustomed to doing anything to be able to get by. The laws are so crazy that just about everyone there is a lawbreaker. It is even against the law for a Cubana to eat lobster or shrimp, everything caught must be exported for Castro to be able to get richer.
2)It is a crazy country where a woman can get arrested just for talking to a foreigner. If you want to have some sort of relationship with a Cubana, you have to resort to sneaking around, and hiding from the police.
3) Cubanas do not age very well. After age 25 most of them look to be about 10-20 years older than they really are.
I was constantly shocked at how old the people there my age (39) looked. I do not know if it is the sun or the food or what.
4)Cuba is very popular with Canadians, you will meet dozens of Canadians that will give you horror stories of marrying a Cubana. All of them will advise you to go to Cuba for fun, not for marriage.
5) Also, due to the very restrictive laws, Cubans must lie just to survive. Their oppressive government puts them in the position of needing to lie about about almost anything.
6) If you are an American, it will be difficult for you to travel there.
7) Very few of them speak any English. You would need to be fluent in their very unique form of Spanish. I travelled there with a Puerto Rican, and even he had a difficult time with their Spanish.
The food is horrible. Those were the only vacations I took where I actually lost weight. The hotels are not well maintained, and Cubans are not allowed in the hotels.
That's right, you can even have a Cuban fiance, and she is not allowed to visit you in your hotel.
9) As an American you will be asked to pay astronomical fees for any paperwork that is needed. Many times the foreigner price for anything can be 10 or even 100 times the local price.
Why did I go there 5 times? Because it is a very inexpensive place to visit. The culture and music is incredible, and it can be a fun place for a single guy to visit. Most of the people that I met there were very, very nice to me. They were just victums of their oppressive country.
Good Luck, and as always, these are just my opinions
Don