... in response to working wives, posted by chevy on Dec 31, 2002

I think that it depends a lot on her background in Colombia.
My fiance has a graduate degree in Finance and worked as a bank manager in Medellin until the bank was blown up after a failed extortion attempt by the rebels. When we visited my office she sat at my desk and cried because she missed her office and her job. I will have no trouble supporting her but she made it clear that she wants to continue her career. But she is Paisa and couldn't be talked out of working. Of course we have no plans to have children, but even if we did I expect that she would want to at least work out of our home. I agree with the previous statements that english is a VERY big obstacle. My fiance is currently taking 20 hours a week of english instruction at a local community center. This fall sahe will be enrolling at a local university to familiarize herself with US business practices. All this is her idea and she was ecstatic when I told her it was fine with me. I don't expect her to start working for at least a year. On the other hand we have gringo/colombiana couple friends where the exact opposite is true. I think the most important thing is to discuss the subject and come to an agreement early in the relationship.
Good Luck

... in response to working wives, posted by chevy on Dec 31, 2002

I think that what you earn should be enough to provide for your household including your wife and children if any. She may not be able to adapt and land a job as fast as you think. Having her working may improve your (you and your wife) life quality and personally I would like to see my wife working full time. Of course there are other issues to consider such as raising children etc.