Hoda and the "putabuscas"

[El Diablo]

... in response to Re: Hoda and the "putabuscas", posted by Kenfer8 on Dec 22, 2001

Yes I wish we had more female members to represent things from their perspective.  I'm curious how guys would feel if women posted photos of the guys they thought were scammers.  A visit to the prostitute house before their date might constitute this description for a lot of gals.  

El Diablo

[JunFan]

... in response to Re: Re: Hoda and the "putabuscas&qu..., posted by El Diablo on Dec 23, 2001

Exactly!

That's why some people on this board are 'Vets' of this deal, and probably always will be...

Mike

[Raptor]

... in response to Hoda and the "putabuscas", posted by Cali vet on Dec 21, 2001

However attempts to brow beat others into towing the line of any individual on this board would be the greatest offence of all. "

Great thought however he has elected himself the final arborator of justice here.

He called me a racist for a statement that he did'nt like.

Which is sick and stupid.

I find him part of the victim class.

[Hoda]

... in response to Re: Hoda and the "putabuscas", posted by Raptor on Dec 22, 2001


excuse for a human. I never called you a racist. I called you something else, BUT NEVER A RACIST. You have me mixed up with Happy. This isn't even about you. It is something that you know about...LOL! Electing myself? I elect you KING S.O.S. Victim Class? You're the one, with the trail of victims.... So how did your trip to BQ go?

GOT MILK?

[Hoda]

... in response to Hoda and the "putabuscas", posted by Cali vet on Dec 21, 2001


I'M NOT ON A CRUSADE....

If a guy wants to visit Whore houses that's his business!
Trying to use this board as conduit for info or recruitment for guys to make excursions for the purpose of visiting these houses...WILL BE MY BUSINESS!!! Men (honest ones anyway) from this board are going south to search & be found by love...NOT WAR!!! Comparing WAR to our quest is offensive, to those that have to go to war & to those in the search for a lifemate! Your Latin Internet friends who visited these houses during your stay are hypocrites in the worst way. They claim to be looking for love, but their going out for azz on the side. That's BS BIG TIME VET!!! If any man can justify getting some azz on the side, while searching for a sincere, loving lifemate....DOESN'T DESERVE ONE!!!!

There is no moral equivalent to justify HO-STROLLING while searching & hoping to be found by love.

THERE WAS NO NEED WHATSOEVER TO PUT MY NAME IN THE SUBJECT HEADING....

[Raptor]

... in response to Cali Vet and the WHORE HOUSES...., posted by Hoda on Dec 22, 2001

...WILL BE MY BUSINESS!!! Men (honest ones anyway) from this board are going south to search & be found by love..."

Just who elected you King?

[Cali vet]

... in response to Cali Vet and the WHORE HOUSES...., posted by Hoda on Dec 22, 2001

LIKE I SAID BEFORE NOBODY HOLDS THE MORAL HIGH GROUND AND THAT INCLUDES YOU WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. YOU CAN'T MAKE UP RULES FOR OTHER PEOPLE TO LIVE BY. THE WORLD JUST ISN'T THAT SMALL. You can hammer away in upper case all you want but it won't change that. One of the guys in the group I mentioned has been happily married now for a couple of years to a girl he met later during his stay at Latin-Internet. The point is a diverse group of people go to Colombia and many succede in finding a happy marriage whether they share your particular set of values or not. I will and have expressed my opinions freely on this board but I know better than to try to DICTATE (in the sense of domineeringly impose) my values to other mature, independent thinking adults. MY WAY OR NO WAY? uh uh kiddo.

[Aaron]

... in response to Es mas, posted by Cali vet on Dec 22, 2001

Cali-Vet,

Basically, I use to get upset about some of the games other guys play with the ladies in Cali, as well with the games the women play, but now I've reach the point that I don't care what other people do.

If a guy wants to travel to Cali, look for a wife, but screw with prostitutes on the side, then let him go. In my opinion, any man that has to pay for azz is desperate, classes, and morally bankrupt. Any woman that sells her azz for whatever is the same. And I will not denegrate myself to that level, and I wouldn't even want to talk to such people, or be in their presence. I feel that I'm above that.

If the guy wants to screw with prostitutes, and unknowingly catch a disease, but then marry another decent and faithful woman, then what? He'll pass the disease to his partner. And all the "so-called good intentions" he had in finding a wife can be thrown out the window then because both of them will die within a few years because of his misguided sexual practicies.

Really, in my opinion guys screwing around with prostitutes shouldn't be going to Colombia in the first place. And if you had any genuine respect for Colombia, its culture, and Colombian people, you yourself wouldn't like it when gringos travel there to screw around. They're doing nothing but capitalizing on the social turmoil the country is in.

But hey, what goes around, comes around. And every dog has its day.

Aaron

[pack]

... in response to I agree with Howard on this one...and wi..., posted by Aaron on Dec 23, 2001

thats all fine and dandy aaron....but i think you are missing cali-vets point...he is not preaching to anyone or even arguing . what he is simply saying is...to each their own, everyone is different in this world ...whats steak to one man is poison to another. no one has the right to demand that another person do as they do , think as they think, eat as they eat, pray as they pray, etc. give vet a break he makes since.

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: I agree with Howard on this one...an..., posted by pack on Dec 25, 2001

Cali-Vet is making sense.

I totally agree with him. Anyone can do what they want to, but remember we all have to pay the consequences for our actions, and some will be paying a high price.

Also, let me just add this for all those gringos reading.

DON'T TRAVEL TO COLOMBIA, MEET DECENT COLOMBIAN PEOPLE, BRAG HOW MUCH YOU LOVE COLOMBIA AND IT'S PEOPLE, THEN TURN AROUND AND RUN TO THE WHORE HOUSES TO SCREW WITH PROSTITUTES. IF PEOPLE HAD GENUINE RESPECT FOR COLOMBIA, IT'S PEOPLE, AND CULTURE, THEY WOULDN'T BE USING CALI, CARTAGENA, OR ANY OTHER CITY AS SEX TOURIST DESTINATIONS.
IT WOULD BE HARD FOR ME TO SCREW AROUND WITH A PROSTITUTE THEN LOOK AT MY FIANCEE, HER MOTHER, AND HER FATHER IN THE FACE. A PERSON THAT DOES THIS IS A HYPOCRITE, AND IS DOING NOTHING BUT TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE SOCIAL TURMOIL THE COUNTRY IS IN.

Aaron

[Cali vet]

... in response to I think..., posted by Aaron on Dec 25, 2001

Well I don't think that loving Colombia and visiting a prostitute are mutualy exclusive but me personaly I've never been with one or gone to a casa de citas. The only one I've met in Colombia is married to a friend of mine there (European) and she quit puteando when they met three years ago. He takes good care of her and her twelve year old. You mention Cartagena and you are right. Unfortunately because of the tourism there is major prostitution including very young girls like twelve years old, so I have read. The govt. tries to clamp down on teenage prostitution and those who draw them into it but it's Colombia and resources are limited.

[pack]

... in response to I think..., posted by Aaron on Dec 25, 2001

arron got to your room...you are ranting!

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: I think..., posted by pack on Dec 25, 2001

...

[pack]

... in response to Pack, have fun on your next trip. Wear a..., posted by Aaron on Dec 26, 2001

you win aaron...i just cant figure you out...you are enough to drive a guy to drinking! bye

[El Diablo]

... in response to Es mas, posted by Cali vet on Dec 22, 2001


I don't believe HODA is saying he's better than anyone on this board or that he is more moral.  What I believe he is saying is that trafficing in the young women for sex trade is bad for the health of a relationship just as trafficing in drugs is bad for the health of your body. I can think of a hundred reasons why visiting prostitutes causes harm to the person visiting, the prostitutes themselves and to all the families back at home.  

It's perfectly legitimate to discuss prostitution.  I personally think it's a MAJOR red flag and I would warn women to avoid guys who traffic in it.  This board has always talked about behavior, red flags and a variety of topics that may not be politically correct.   If you think HODA and I are going to roll over and not comment on things we believe are ''red flags'' just because you think it is legitimate behavior,  you're just kidding yourself.  If you can make a case for  prostitution as a healthy thing then great, I'm listening, make it!!

El Diablo