A good friend of mine went to Cebu 3 years ago to try and find a good women that he may marry well he met one after 3 month"s they got engaged he came back to the USA. my wife from Cebu new this girls family and she found out she had a bf there and was pregnant so i told him about it the marriage was off.he went back 4 months ago to meet some women his driver new there where 9 of them he fell in love again and got married this time to a 29 yo women the driver introduced him to the drivers name is jarred if you ever go there.well he rented a apartment and planned to stay there untill her papers are ready he left all money matters up to her (his wife) he has a monthly income of $4,500 US a month in the meantime his brother in law died her in the us he went to use his ATM card for tickets guess what no money in his account now his apartment was paid for in advance for 1 year all she had to pay for was their food when he asked where $9,000 dollars went she would not answer, then he tells me she gets calls from men all over the country she says they are friends only (YEA RIGHT)also she goes to the e-mail cafe efery day.
It gets better,they have a small apartment her mother moves in her brother moves in and the mother is bringing 5to 9 girls at a time to cebu from other islands to find a job guess where they stay.
he tells his wive to kick them out never happend,he finally gets her passport and she tells him to take it back she not comeing here but if she has to it will only be to go to vegas disney land and the falls then back to cebu.
well he got back here last night he only has $30.00 to his name and will spend that to get a annulment
tneal

... in response to A true story, posted by nealt on Jan 13, 2004

Is your friend retarded or just a little slow?
Hum

... in response to Re: Re: A true story, posted by nealt on Jan 14, 2004

Retarded, slow AND dumb? Face it - some of the gene pool is simply prey. No getting around it.

- Jeff

... in response to Re: Re: Re: A true story, posted by Humabdos on Jan 14, 2004

I knew that you would finally figure that out some day Hum (LOL)

Maybe it’s like the principle of Supply and Demand. If there is a demand for gold diggers, then there is going to be a supply to meet that demand. Here’s a good example from the “other furum”:

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Fiancee's family and my money

Can anyone suggest the best way of handling her family taking advantage of her? I send her about 1000$ a month but her mother and family seem to always need it. She did not have any left for her phone card. I know how filipinas are taught to help and do what their mothers say but it is getting harder for me to keep my mouth shut!! Any suggestions thanks...
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Ray

... in response to Supply and demand, posted by Humabdos on Jan 15, 2004

Government jobs? Hmmmmm? You may be on to something there Hum! :-)

Ray

... in response to Stupid Kano !!!!!!!, posted by don2222 on Jan 15, 2004

Yep!

I suggested that he cut them off completely for a few months just to see what happens. He said he couldn't do that because then she wouldn't be able to make her car payment or finish building the new house or pay for the tuition to send her and her 2 sisters through medical school. So I suggested that he start sending her $2,000/month. ROFLMAO!

This guy isn’t even married yet! Oh well, some people will never learn…

Ray

... in response to Re: Stupid Kano !!!!!!!, posted by Ray on Jan 16, 2004

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I can introduce him to plenty of filipinas that won't ask for anything, then he only needs to send me $500 a month, for now, for my services....

... in response to A true story, posted by nealt on Jan 13, 2004

can happen to any Fool. Tneal why didn't you and your wife try lining up some good Women in RP for him to choose from? After all, he suppose to be your friend.