pinay scam

[Febtember]

Hi Everyone,
I talk to my brother this morning on the phone and he mention about his nieghbor wife who have american penpal keep sending her 500 to 1000 bucks everymonth.The wife and the husband even meet his penpal in Davao  and introduce his husband as her brother.Poor penpal,he don't have any idea until now that his pinay already married and he even meet her husband.The bad thing the husband never say anything because the money which her wife  get  from her penpal all goes to him.The husband keep drinking everyday as what my brother tell me,of course because they found fortune.Everytime the wife penpal visit philippines the wife spend with her penpal in Manila for 1 or 2 months then go back to his husband when the american head back here in U.S .I wish this gal be thrown in jail.By the way my brother and the gal I'm talking about live in Mangagoy, Bislig Surigao del Sur.

Another scamm.
We have nieghbor in Bohol and I know her personally.She is my high school schoolmate.She met her fiancee in the internet.He visit her last year.I talk to her netpals many times after returning from his visit in my island.One day I ask him about my nieghbor schoolmate and he say they already over.He found out that his fiancee or netpals have pinoy boyfriend.And the bad thing,he send money to his fiancee for paperworks and you know what she do with the money,she buy a new motorcycle for her boyfriend.I feel really bad about it because I never thought she would do it her penpal.
I don't understand why some pinay do such thing.If pinay have penpal or netpal they should treat them as thier boyfriend not a benefactor or a dollar sign.And should stick to one boyfriend only. Some pinay like this motto  "select and colect and dump the reject:) at the end the pinoy become the reject because she will surely dump him and marry the american.Ms Feb

[Alvin1]

... in response to pinay scam, posted by Febtember on May 1, 2003

The husband is a pimp or an opportunist.  This type of activity is to be expected.  The man is buying the woman and would be better off just going to a bar and picking up someone.

Americans exploit the Filipinas much more than they would ever exploit Americans.  This American is justing learning a life lesson from which he will recover with just a little less money.

What about the Filipina that fall for an American and starts to devote her daily life to him and eventually give up her virginity that she has guarded for so long for her future husband and then is dump once this is done.  She can never recover from this.

My sympathy is on the part of the Filipinas that are routinely exploited by old fat sloppy ignorant Americans who promise young unsuspecting good Filipina that they are going to marry them and then once they have loss their virginity, they are gone without saying good bye.  These beautiful young ladies have hopes and aspirations of marrying and living a good and productive life with a family.  Thier virginity cannot be restored but more importantly their self respect and family standing cannot be restored but this means nothing to the arrogant American who just leaves without a word.

I have no sympathy for American who marry Filipinas young enough to be their granddaughter. This type of marriage fails freq'ly and then they wonder why.

I have no sympathy for American who marry Filipinas becasue they are beautiful.  They end up living a miserable life just to have a good looking Filipina go to church with them on Sunday and then they will sit far away from them.  Their totaly relationship is one of obligation and there is no love or satisfaction in the relationship. Freq'ly these men have trophies that can only be observed for a short period of time and they are not allowed to touch them.

Do not have pity for this type of American.  They do the something here in the US.  They have such low self esteen that they think that they can buy someone and they feel that they are better than the Filipina and that the Filipina can be purchased like a motorcycle.  The Filipina is merely giving him what he is paying for.  The old saying, "buyer be ware" is appropriate.

Cheers

[don2222]

... in response to pinay scam, posted by Febtember on May 1, 2003

The more time I spend in the Phils, the more evidence I see of how love and attention starved so many men are.
If a guy would spend the time to truly get to know the woman, AND stop giving away lots of money for a little attention, there would be fewer stories like this.
Most of the Filipinas that I have met have been sending me text messages of "I luv you!, I miss u!"
All this, after only a brief first meeting.
I think for many Filipinas their definition of "I Love You", is only that they care about you, or your money.
All any person has to do is spend some time here, or especially in the internet cafes, to see how easily and quickly, many Filipinas give out the I love you, and i miss you.
So, before you guys chatting think you are so special, and so loved, just slow down and spend a little time getting to know the woman.  Trust me on this,  most of the filipinas in the internet cafes in the Phils are saying the same exact thing to so many different men.
How to know if she is sincere?  Time !!,  time is your best friend.  

Don

[Alvin1]

... in response to Stupid Americans, or a Fool and his Mone..., posted by don2222 on May 2, 2003

I guess they have the motto: SWSWSW
ie: some will, some won't, so what

Don, you are giving very practical advise.  Maybe along the way someone will understand this very basic but necessary concept.

Good luck with your search or should I say "party time "

Cheers
Alvin1

[don2222]

... in response to Stupid Americans, or a Fool and his Mone..., posted by don2222 on May 2, 2003

[This message has been edited by don2222]

While many Filipinas are chatting with their Foreign penpals they are also talking with me and showing me the letters and chats with their chatmates.  That's right, I get to read what a lot of guys are writing, and it is pretty embarassing.  Either guys are professing undying love for a woman they have never even met, or they are sending nude webcam photos of themselves.  Come on guys, what do you think happens with the nude photos some of you are sending?
Well, the laughter in here is almost deafening......

[Nathan]

... in response to Also..., posted by don2222 on May 2, 2003

Don,

    The kind of foolishness you mention had me cutting
a wide track around most western visitors in the RP.

Nathan

[outwest77]

... in response to pinay scam, posted by Febtember on May 1, 2003

It is the guys fault for sending money to his GF, then there is no way for the guy to tell if the gf wants him or his money, too easy to get scammed

[greg]

... in response to pinay scam, posted by Febtember on May 1, 2003

about Pinays with Husbands and Boyfriends using Kanos is very much common in RP.  Many Guys with wifes, GF here in USA are also preying on Innocent unmarried Pinays there in the Philippines. Sooooo it goes both ways..Say Hi to Matthew )

[Esiang]

... in response to pinay scam, posted by Febtember on May 1, 2003

Wow a married woman from Mangangoy spending time with the kano(the dollar man) and her pinoy husband...

If they're really processing fiancee visa I bet her secret will reveal unless she's just a bedtime lady of this millionaire kano visiting phils for 1 to 2 months....

My sister's motto "Collect and Collect and then Select",
unfortunately she selected the worst man on earth he..he..
Good thing right now she had awaken finally......

Some pinay like this motto "select and colect and dump the reject:) at the end the pinoy become the reject because she will surely dump him and marry the american.Ms Feb

I think Feb it's the kano who get's rejected at the end co'z pinay girls will mostly chose the handsome pinoy guy who is so good pretending to be true he..he..he....

After the pinay gets preggy the pinoy will say bye...bye...bye.....