19 & a 50+ year old

[outwest77]

... in response to Zoinksssss, posted by Howard on Mar 18, 2003

Nice to see you post haver not heard from you in a while, glad to see you are doing ok now.

[Bubba]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

I say to each his own and if a woman (yes a 19 yr old is a woman) wants to hook up with an older man that's her
business. It's a free world and you can condem him for it but it's not immoral or illegal.

[Jeff S]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

Bryan would probably blow a gasket.

[nealt]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

There is a 22 year diff in my marriage no problems except i buy more viagar
tneal

[Ray]

... in response to Re: 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by nealt on Mar 18, 2003

I wondered where you been hiding. Now I know, standing in line at the drug store trying to refill your Viagra prescription (ROFLMAO!)

Well, at least now we know that you aren't Elliot :-)

Ray

[Intrepid]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

Simer down Bryan!  For the life of me I can't figure out what has you so hot under the collar!  One would think that this gentleman "stole" the object of your affections from you.

19 is a little young for my taste, but a 20+ year age difference is alright with me.  Frankly, I hope they live happily ever after.  Also I hope this gentleman and his dearly beloved continues to post their experiences on this board.

It is one thing to voice your opinion on age differences, especially if you have some experience.  It is quite another to attack someone simply because they are doing something that you personally disagree with.

Take a chill-pill guy, and perhaps post something about YOUR experiences.

[greg]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

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[greg]

... in response to Good Post Mr Bryan, posted by greg on Mar 18, 2003

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[Nathan]

... in response to Good Post Mr Bryan, posted by greg on Mar 18, 2003


  If you know of any man having relations with a child I would strongly advise you to call the police and turn him in! Your local authorities can clearly define statutory rape for you I'm sure. Be aware however, that if you file such a report when in fact no such act has taken place, it is you that may be prosecuted for filing a false police report. Beyond those legal definitions, the cops will tell you that you should mind your own business.
  Beyond that, it is nothing but subjective measurement, and a MYOB situation.
 

[greg]

... in response to crime, posted by Nathan on Mar 18, 2003

Yourself a Comedian job )

[Dave H]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

Hi Bryan,

You must live a very sheltered life! No crime has been committed here by either the 19 or 50+ year old! Did you ever wonder how many people look at you and your wife together and say: "Look at him with that there little brown ferun China woman. That is the most immoral, dispicable, lecherous thing I have ever seen! This guy should be ashamed of himself! I hope she breaks his heart and rakes him over the coals! He certainly deserves it! I wouldnt want to answer to God for that one!" Guess what Dude...they do!!! Black, White, Asian, foreign, disabled, older, younger...I don't have time for that! Why don't we just worry about our own lives? There's too much jealousy and hatred in the world already!

Dave H.

[Jeff S]

... in response to So What! It's Not For You!, posted by Dave H on Mar 17, 2003

.. who keeps one of them little yeller furrin sex slaves at home. Think about the zample it sets for your chilluns! Better be careful now, frogs'll start rainin from the sky, right on your house. "Let my people go!"

- Jeff

[Ray]

... in response to Don't tell me you're one of them thar pr..., posted by Jeff S on Mar 18, 2003

Thanks for posting! I was starting to worry that maybe YOU were Elliot (ROTFLMAO!)

Ray

[Jeff S]

... in response to Hi Jeff!, posted by Ray on Mar 18, 2003

Nope, not me. I'm not that subtle. LOL

- Jeff

[Peter Lee]

... in response to 19 & a 50+ year old, posted by bryan on Mar 17, 2003

Hey Bryan it is me Peter Lee

I am the one who in engaged to a 19 year old soon to be 20. I am not defending my decision to marry the girl that I love.  It was an accident that we met; she was not on the internet.  We met in her Aunts house when I was visiting and we became sweethearts and fell in love.   I had seen and chatted many older women till that time.  My fiancée’s parents are over 30 years apart in age and gave permission to the marriage.  The father's position was that if we really love each other he would not stand in our way.  Both he and her mother signed the papers giving us permission to marry. I could have married her in January or do the fiancé visa route. I had decided to return to marry her in the Philippines in July knowing it would take longer for her to join me here in the US.  But a wedding for us would be important for her and her family.  If you give me your address I can mail you the exact date of the wedding in Cebu.  You are invited to attend to see two people in love marry in a church with God's blessing and ready to share the rest of our lives together. I did not want to rush into this and there are many who think like you.  I have local friends here in Daytona that are also married to Filipinas with over a 30 year gap and happily married 4 years now.  So it is possible and I agree that the risks are great.  I am willing to take those risks and put up with many comments like yours coz I have become a fool for love. I have seen many same age marriages fail in the past so no one has the answer for a perfect marriage.  As far as it being the most immoral, despicable, lecherous thing you have ever heard you gave no detail of what was immoral, despicable or lecherous.  It would be interesting to hear some details on where you received that information.  Certainly not from the Bible LOL.  Yes, she could break my heart and rake me over the coals.  Do I deserve it?   If that is the punishment for falling in love than so be it.  I didn’t create love, I am just a victim.  What would you say later if the marriage  becomes a success and we are still happy years from now?  What would it take to retract your statements?  What if I marry someone close to my age and we divorce a short time later what will you say then?  Oh and thanks for the “good luck” I will need all the good luck I can get coz there are more of you out there.