Okey,I never response on Bryan post.My thoughts about marrying an older guy is that most filipina prefer to marry older guy iether  filipino,american and whatever races they wan't to marry.I marry my 39 yrs.old husband when I'm  only 22 because  I prefer much older guy .I value maturity.Although I am much younger compare to my husband I know it's not a problem, it's a plus.It signifies to me stability,consistency,experience,gentleness,prudence and wisdom.I do believe that my older husband have much to teach me and I appreciate the opportunity to learn from him.I know some  younger filipina who marry and those who wants to marry older guy have same thoughts like me.Of course age always matter.We are aware that if we marry older guy there would be posibilities that we can't have any children from them,we know people would thought that we marry them because of money esp.those who married american and that were desperate enough,or be a longtime care taker when husband got sick,widow early too and the most concern is that since we marry older guy do we always remain faithful to them when there's no "heaven"anymore.Of course carnal knowledge play an important role in marriage life.My answer is yes I be always faithful because I (and most filipina) truely value marriage.We marry for life.We beleive in finding a right man and standing by him in good times and bad.Husband come first before career.And the most important is that we beleive that our ultimate destiny is with God and these world is not our home they're just passing through.Raquel