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[Yeahbaby]

... in response to something doesn't.... does it always, posted by thesearch on Aug 10, 2003

Many people here "make up stories", where have you been??  I don't know or care if he is a troll or not but I do know these people somewhat, being married to one and having had 4 trips there.  These are typically not people who open up quickly.  With strangers they are usually quite aloof and reserved.  For them to have a one minute conversation with a complete stranger about the state of their marriage would be extremely unlikely.

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: something doesn't.... does it always, posted by Yeahbaby on Aug 11, 2003

I have been there also and point well taken about their nature. I experienced the same.

[Mark33]

... in response to something doesn't.... does it always, posted by thesearch on Aug 10, 2003

I certainly believe a woman can open up to a stranger very quickly. She may need to talk to somebody,anybody. I once had a latin girl I met briefly and spoke to for no more than 5 minutes at a coffee shop, tell me she married an American man. When I congradulated her(in my bad Spanish) she quickly let me know she was not planning to stay. I did not stay too long after that. I realize at the time, she may have been looking for a replacement,and a bit too quick in opening up to me. Damsel in distress? I got over the need to play savior a long time ago.
        Mark

[tim360z]

... in response to Agree ........... something doesn't, posted by MtMav on Aug 9, 2003

Really,  beleive whatever you wish.  I don't post junk or make up stories.  Finito.

[KenC]

... in response to Re: Two years ago....True, posted by tim360z on Aug 6, 2003

n/t

[tim360z]

... in response to Tim, where did you see Lena and I?  LOL ..., posted by KenC on Aug 7, 2003

that little episode did give me a little insight.  That some guys involved in this are a bit unrealistic.  What I didn't mention was the guy kept moving the table and re-orienting it until she had only the wall to look at.  He would even walk her 30 feet to the ladies room and stand there until she finished.  Just a little controlling?  

ps: I know from your thoughts and postings alone, that you are a very good "catch"...Tell Lena she is a very lucky woman.

[KenC]

... in response to Nice,  But I know it wasn't you,  but, posted by tim360z on Aug 7, 2003

Tim,
I tell her all the time.  (Not really)  The thing that I see that usually submarines guys involved with this process is lack of skill or experience with women.  There seems to be an unusually high number of guys that just never had a lot of dates with AW.  The guys that did OK with AW, usually do fine in the FSU.  Face it, women are women
KenC

[tim360z]

... in response to Re: Nice,  But I know it wasn't you,  bu..., posted by KenC on Aug 8, 2003

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[LP]

... in response to Re: Two years ago....True, posted by tim360z on Aug 6, 2003

...and well said. In fairness I must admit dealing with the bottom feeders has warped my opinions a bit. Although not actively involved (other than trips to play with non-MOB girls) I had helped a guy get started last fall. Because of that experinece I've since become active in scammer surpression and dealing with the scummy side. (I recently assisted in a sting on a scammer, a gratifying project.) However (as with my previous life in LE) I have found dealing mainly with the negative side tends to leave a bad taste in one's mouth.

I've also learned the notion MOB people are social misfits, losers, trophy hunters (whatever you want to call them), has much more than a ring of truth to it and to say they're a small minority is burying one's head in the sand. Read any MOB board and you'll see what I mean. For example, the idea of moving to the FSU is only one telling sign of how screwed up some of these guys really are. Rebelling against one's own culture is a sign of social withdrawal as old as civilization.

You're right about many agencies too, I have to laugh when I read some of the nonsense they put out. They're pushing a dream to those who are living in a dream world, those who have fled reality. After all, it's easy to sell thimbles of water to people dying of thirst. At least many women have valid reasons for using them...

Then there is this gem sent to me by one of the FSU girls I keep in contact with. She was sent this in the second letter she got from a guy:

"Honey, I need a sexual woman just as much or maybe more. How brave are you?? How sexual are you?? Can you show me more of you to show that you have interest in me? Unbutton your blouse down to your waist and spread your legs apart with no panties. Lean back and say hello to me."

MOB guys at their finest, eh? She told me she gets this kind of crap all the time. (Lol, the guy was a Texan by the way.) Course, I'm speaking in generalities...no one on the world's finest Russian discussion board would ever fit this profile. ;-)

[tim360z]

... in response to All true....., posted by LP on Aug 6, 2003

with the scammers and bottomfeeders can warp anyone.  Ask anyone in LE.

[Stevo]

... in response to All true....., posted by LP on Aug 6, 2003

to find a trophy wife, of course!  If ALL I wanted was a true blue woman who would love and cherish me, and had no ulterior motives, I would have found me an American wife.  There's no shortage of available women.

There's nothing wrong with American women, contrary to what a lot of MOB pursuers state or think.  For me, the ONLY reason to look to the FSU was the young and pretty factor.  Talk about values, culture, blah, blah, blah is just a lot of rubbish.  It's about a bunch of guys trying to justify looking in the FSU w/o admitting why they are REALLY searching that environment.

Hey, at least I KNOW why I went looking there!  Come to Daddy trophy wife!

Stevo

[Mark33]

... in response to Why did I go to Russia?..., posted by Stevo on Aug 6, 2003

Stevo,
   I understand you went to Russia for your trophy wife. Does she have sex with you willingly and often, or do you end up begging for it or having to give gifts to get it?. Not a put down, but a serious question.It seems most guys in search of trophy wives have a trade off.They get to show off a sexy wife to friends, but usually get the cold shoulder when she is alone with him,unless he bends over backwards to keep her happy.
  I don't know, but I would rather find an attractive woman who is a 7-8 and  into me, than get one who thinks she is too good for me. I get turned on when my fiance initiates the kissing and sexual contact and affection. I know she is really into me. I have been with trophies who made me feel I was asking for a favor whenever I wanted sex. Trophy wives cost an awful lot more than they are worth. The novelty of their looks wear off pretty quick.
  Mark

[Stevo]

... in response to Re: Why did I go to Russia?...Trophy wif..., posted by Mark33 on Aug 7, 2003

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pain in the ass when you just want to be left alone.  Hey, when you are over 50, the libido isn't quite what it was when you were 25.  The wife however...well, let's just say that she is in the 'peakin' stage.  And...excuse me, gotta' go!

Stevo

[LP]

... in response to Why did I go to Russia?..., posted by Stevo on Aug 6, 2003

...except I didn't have to leave my back yard the last two times to get the same. From your profile it would seem only one of you in that deal got a trophy, eh? ;-) The procescution rests....

[Stevo]

... in response to My point exactly...., posted by LP on Aug 7, 2003

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Men and women USUALLY have different priorities in a marriage.  Men want young and beautiful, women want security and safety.  This is what allows couples to have such outward disparities.