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[svanos1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Word to the Wise, posted by Bobby Orr on Apr 15, 2003

I have tried to talk to her about it, twice. And she turns the tables on me as if there is something 'wrong' with me because I am so curious and don't believe her.  But, she was only out of the country 2 times, and not anything like what some of you have described.  I think she is embarrassed that something didn't work out and just doesn't want me to know.

[Bobby Orr]

... in response to Re: Word to the Wise, posted by svanos1 on Apr 15, 2003

I only have the information you presented to this board.  You will have major situations to handle together when you are married.  If you find her behavior acceptable today then do not sweat it.  If it was me in your shoes, I would have a very hard time with a woman who tries to turn the tables on me as if there is something wrong with me, when she is the one who was caught in a lie and then refuses to come clean.

[svanos1]

... in response to What if you were married?, posted by Bobby Orr on Apr 15, 2003

Well, we are married, and I'm NUTS about her!  And she is a very nice woman unless I'm being TOTALLY fooled.  But, she sure as heck won't tell me the truth about Jan 2002-July2002.  Something way out of the ordinary happened in her life during that time and she is lip sealed.  btw, she will be here in USA the night of 18th! day after tomorrow!

[Alfred]

... in response to Re: What if you were married?, posted by svanos1 on Apr 15, 2003

"she sure as heck won't tell me the truth"

This sure sounds like a recipe for disaster to me.  I'm all for giving someone a chance, but how do you deal with someone who won't tell you the truth?  Why would you want to?

I just ended a relationship with someone who wasn't telling me the truth.  Have you considered doing the same thing here? I mean you just can't trust her!

[svanos1]

... in response to Re: Re: What if you were married?, posted by Alfred on Apr 15, 2003

the thing that is so strange is that some of the first photos she sent me (during 1st week or 2 we started emailing everyday) were ones made in Cyprus.  She even included a little sentence on some of them saying 'in Cyprus May 2002'.  So she definitely wasn't trying to keep the fact that she went there or to Egypt a secret.  She also sent me a scanned photo of her foreign passport very early on, and it was only issued in Oct of 2001, but this happens to be just after she put her photo on 1russian lady.  Hmmmm....  I still just think she met someone she thought there was potential with (like she did with me) and he chose Egypt and Cyprus and she went along with it, and then he dumped her.  You see, she did admit to me that she had a relationship with a guy in Jan-Feb of 2002 and that he 'fooled her' - but she said it was a local guy and that it was fairly brief.  I believe that this was her way of telling me 'sort of' the truth, but keeping secret that he was a foreigner who she really met in Cyprus or Egypt.  I'm almost to the point that it isn't important anymore.  The guy who met her might even be reading these emails.

[Bobby Orr]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: What if you were married?, posted by svanos1 on Apr 15, 2003

Well, I hope we helped you solidify whatever you were thinking is the best course of action for you to take.  I assume you will drop the whole issue and start your marriage on a good note, letting the past just be the past. Good luck with your marriage.

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Re: Why ?, posted by svanos1 on Apr 14, 2003

Just kidding man. Seriously those are some red flags there. Enough for a Chinese Communist party parade. What is REALLY bad considering you said she appears to be pretty genuine so far is the fact that she has had to lie about it. Then again...I had my Marina show up on web pages she didn't put herself on. However in your case it was prior right? That throws a twist into things.