Whoops, I got engaged!

[Ramblin]

... in response to Re: Re:  P.S.Small breasts et al, posted by Quasimoto on May 29, 2002

of course she will have her concerns about me too.

[Quasimoto]

... in response to true and yes I thought of that, posted by Ramblin on May 30, 2002

All this concern about boobs! Notice Ms. Russia was rather small busted compared to many others?? has left me forgetting to congratulate you. Contratulations! I just hope that you don't feel there is insufficient woman between you and her soul!

Steve

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: Re:  P.S.Small breasts et al, posted by Quasimoto on May 29, 2002

"How many women with a slender figure have big breasts? Get real, what are the odds? "

Absolute fact = it is not a common combination. However, the lady that I went to see twice from Ukraine was exactly this way. When I decided that she was not the right woman for me I knew that most likely I would see something like that again.

Being that way does have its problems. She could never buy a full outfit. The top would always be too small if she got a dress or pant to fit her body.  Man you should have seen that lady in a swim suit.

[Philb]

... in response to Re: Re:  P.S.Small breasts et al, posted by Quasimoto on May 29, 2002

I had not realized you had gotten married.  Best wishes to the two of you.

[RW]

... in response to Re: Re:  P.S.Small breasts et al, posted by Quasimoto on May 29, 2002

Steve,

congratulations!!!!

Is she and her little boy already here? How is the adjustment? What she thinks of the US?

Please let us know how things are going.

Very happy for you,

Russian Wife

[Quasimoto]

... in response to congrats, posted by RW on May 29, 2002

Hi RW,

No she is not here yet. I tried to file for a K-3 direct consular filing. Tanya went to ZAGS and asked for specific directions regarding paper work. They gave her a list. We complied, then I went over with the papers, and we went to ZAGS to schedule our wedding. They looked at the paper work, and only requested a copy of my VISA attached. I complied, and then we went to the US Consulate to get my papers stamped and sworn. The US Consulate told me that ZAGS would not OK them, or the Foreign Ministry, because they were not notarized by my state Secretary of State, and US Secretary of State, Colin Powell's office. So two hours before the ZAGS wedding, I had to go home and tell Tanya the bad news. She bought a wedding dress and shoes that morning. Now we had no option but to simply get married in her church. Which we did on the 26th of April. Now we will talk next week to decide if I will go back with corrected paper work, or if I will file for a K-1 VISA. I want the K-3 because it gives her so many more imediate priveleges, and I can get her mother over here faster for a visit, or visa versa. We will see. But I am happy! Where is Zink?

STeve

[RW]

... in response to Re: congrats, posted by Quasimoto on May 29, 2002

Good for you. K3 probably will be faster, but I am not aware of all the details of the process.

Zink is in Vladivostok I am sure he will share details when he comes back,

RW

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: Small breasts and other such things, posted by Quasimoto on May 29, 2002

Thanks for sharing that. I am not surprised at the result.

[Quasimoto]

... in response to Re: Re: Small breasts and other such thi..., posted by thesearch on May 29, 2002

Your welcome!

[KenC]

... in response to Whoops, I got engaged!, posted by Ramblin on May 29, 2002

Ramblin,
Don't kid yourself, EVERYONE should have some doubts when they get married.  The only one's that don't, are not being realistic.  Marriage like any relationship is filled with many unknowns and is wrought with risks.  It is the love that you feel for each other that makes the risks worth taking.
You will have your hands full with American guys once your beauty is here.  If she is attracting the attention in Ukraine as you say, AM will not be able to take their eyes off of her.  I have witnessed it first hand.  Guys (with or without their mates) will sneak a look at her as you pass by.  Most will be subtle about it, but some will not.  Try and take their glances as compliments to your good taste in women.  I have handled most of it well.  I have a difficult time occasionally when the "looker" is rude.  I have asked a few to back off and close their open mouth.  LOL.  Ahh, but this is the burden you must carry when you marry a beautiful woman.  The important thing is to have trust in her.  Without trust, this problem will eat you alive.  Best of luck to you.
KenC

[Rags]

... in response to Who doesn't have doubts?, posted by KenC on May 29, 2002

Without that unquestionable trust the doubts will eat you up. It is quite humerous sometimes to watch these guys make fools of themselves.

The first time that I took my wife to Walmart a stockboy ran right into an end display gawking at her. Another time in Safeway this guy ran the cart right into his wifes fat @ss when she stopped in front of him while he was checking out V (he got a severe chewin' out right then and there).

You do have to have restraint with the jerks sometimes though. I've wanted to pop a couple of the more insistant ones but when V reminded me that I was the only one for her I realized that it just wasn't worth the trouble.

[KenC]

... in response to Well put..., posted by Rags on May 30, 2002

Rags,
I have stories about guys knocking down endcap displays in grocery stores too!  Once while having a Sunday breakfast with friends at a nice family restaurant, a guy became fixed on Lena.  Casual looking is fine, but this guy stared at her through the entire time there.  He even creeped out my friend's son as the boy thought the guy was staring at him.  As we left, the guy couldn't stop staring with his mouth open.  I turned back and went to his table.  I asked him if he might like a photo of my wife so that he could continue to look at her from the privacy of his own home and not make such a fool of himself in public.  He was speechless.  I am sure he had an interesting conversation with his wife and children after we left.  LOL.
KenC

[dexion]

... in response to Whoops, I got engaged!, posted by Ramblin on May 29, 2002

Let me be the first to congratulate you. Well, done. From my interaction with fsu women, I think you made the best choice of you life. Be well.
dex

[dexion]

... in response to Re: Whoops, I got engaged!, posted by dexion on May 29, 2002

How long did you correspond and how long did you visit in person before you popped the question. I am asking for curiosity not to dump on you...
dex