Safe to say my girl was a scammer

[BarryM]

... in response to Re: You should post a scammer report whe..., posted by Bobby Orr on Feb 6, 2002

http://www.planet-love.com/wwwboard/results.php?page=russian&archive=00142&post=61372&bold=blacklist

Also antiscam.net is another good one.

-blm

[Stan B]

... in response to Re: One other thing, posted by Bobby Orr on Feb 6, 2002

how many girls used this type of scam, as it seems the easiest to pull off and 1 of the best paying. Being already engaged they have gained your trust and have you where they want you and after all con is short for confidence.
But you must also look in the mirror and re-evaluate what your looking for and instead of going for some eye-candy 21 yr old hottie, go for a 27-32 yr old beautiful, more mature and realistic lady. I think your long term chances of success will then be greater...aloha

[LP]

... in response to I've always wondered, posted by Stan B on Feb 6, 2002

....lol, I can't let this just go by.

At the time, how was his experience different from yours, other than the age spread?

He also qucikly thought she was the "one", and he took a lot more time than you.

My point: There but for the grace of God.....

[Stan B]

... in response to Sorry Stan,...., posted by LP on Feb 6, 2002

and maybe it was the luck of the draw, but mine has turned out quite well. Not that I expect you to believe me, but maybe after a few years you might concede that I just might have a chance. I'll also assume that you'll still be dating 20 yr olds. So you enjoy what you have, I know that I'm enjoying mine...aloha

[LP]

... in response to big difference, posted by Stan B on Feb 7, 2002

...just yankin your chain a little, ya know me.

I will concede you have a chance, after a few years.
Hell, you've got a chance now.

Your saying it "turned out well" strikes me as a tad odd though. Considering the short time involved, the only thing thats turned out well thus far is the visa process. I'd need more time before I made such a statement.

lol, I'm off the 20 year olds, she is in her early 30s.

[Stan B]

... in response to Hey, I was...., posted by LP on Feb 7, 2002

w/o Yoe around you need someone to do a little friendly sparring with. As for the 'it turned out well', I mean our start. Because until she got here and we started this leg of our relationship, I wasn't absolutely sure how it would turn out. How her and Katya would adapt and how our lives together would mesh. So far I couldn't have expected better. We agree on all the big things and agree to disagree on some of the smaller ones. Katya has called me her daddy since the day of our marriage and Marina has even acquired a taste for american humor and is now a Seinfeld fan (she loves Kramer :-)
Anyway theres no hard feelings, because I'm sure you know my skin is a little thicker than that...aloha

[LP]

... in response to I know, posted by Stan B on Feb 7, 2002

..You meant to say it was "turnING out well". I hope it continues to do so, given the big chance you took.

Still, I'm fascinated at how you perceive your situation was somehow a "big difference" from his. No matter, its a done deal now anyway.

Btw, those 20 year olds? I was not dating them, they were dating me. Its a byproduct of my job (lol, not always as sweet a byproduct as people think), not my prefering them.

Thas all over now anyway as I've been snagged by a good one and have settled down.

At any rate, good luck "Daddy" :-)

[Bobby Orr]

... in response to I've always wondered, posted by Stan B on Feb 6, 2002

Stan, point well taken.