Deal with children, you GET children.

[BrianN]

I don't think it matters where she came from, what agency or whatever.  I'd never deal with anyone that young.  It just makes no sense to have a "chick" as opposed to a real "woman".

While you've got all the "young girls" available to you here, then why go THERE to find one?  What's the difference?  Even the ones here don't suit you hockey brain right?  (Please don't think that I'm trying to stab you in the back, I'm not, I've done it before too).

I've "dated", (for lack of a better term), down to 16 years my junior, and most of them are in "that" (20 yo nuclear charged child with a hair trigger) frame of mind.  A completely different set of morals, maturity, and values, with lots of upkeep.  While I'm sure that there are MANY guys that have had success going this route, I'm definitely not one of them, and to take the risk, just because I can bring a young babe like that over here just doesn't make sense to me.  I'd rather have a woman that is experienced, had to deal with a lot of CRAP in her life, like most of us have, and are looking for a soft, loving man and a more relaxed situation in life, instead of just a way out or a good time (at my emotional and financial expense) down the road.

The young beautiful women there have too many options to choose from imo.  Not unlike the young beautiful ones that are here in the usa.  I wouldn't blame anything on the M's agency, or any other agency for that matter, as one is dealing with the independent thoughts of a kid with a million different choices.  Unfortunately, because of the situation, I'd like to think that she went from "honest", to becoming a scammer because of the trend that is so prevalent to take advantage of an american guy that is interested in her.  Quite an easy thing to do when $$$$$ is involved.

Best solution?  Find a woman you hate and give her your house.

Or... (GOD I HATE THIS PHRASE).. think with your BIG head.

Good luck man...
Brian.

PS: This is NOT an indictment to anyone that has married outside their years, (as you guys that have done it and have succeeded are quite the lucky ones imo), but rather just some words intended to convey some common sense.  After all... I'd rather have a ferocious 40 yo hottie in my bed than a 20 yo wanna be - (that's always thinking about what it would be like with someone her own age).  

Yeah, I'm standing by for the depth charges now on this post...

[Mike]

... in response to Deal with children, you GET children., posted by BrianN on Feb 7, 2002

Brian, you got my vote! Umm if I'm qualified to vote?? I married one 10 yrs younger, but still has lived life's ups and downs and is not a hot little wild child.

It is our (man) nature to have sex with young fertile women, but I know from the past that it doesn't take long for the desire to find another little hotty for sex enters your mind, and then you look at the simple minded hotty your with and think " what the hell am I doing? " Here beside me is a hotty to some, but to me she is a pain! The desires for her are gone and you're left with a liability by your side.

Now if she is of the same mind and body as you ( or close ) the sex is not what makes your world turn,but instead you have a partner which I see as an asset in life. ( and the sex is the same, or better! )
Mike

[thesearch]

... in response to Deal with children, you GET children., posted by BrianN on Feb 7, 2002

wait until I am sixty to do this. That way a woman 20 years younger is forty. )))))))

[hockeybrain]

... in response to Deal with children, you GET children., posted by BrianN on Feb 7, 2002

Point well taken.  Ill shoot for between 25 and 30 next time.

[micha1]

... in response to Re: Deal with children, you GET children..., posted by hockeybrain on Feb 7, 2002

Hello  Monsieur Hockeybrain,  we have a saying in french,  it says that it is at thirty that women are beautiful.
Before they are thirty it is natural to be pretty, after they are thirty if they are still pretty it depends of them.
It is a very loose translation, mine.  Hoping you will get what I am trying to say.
When the big 30 is on the horizon, women are beginning to see their respite, they start thinking differently and also, not the least,  hopefully they will have learn how to take care of themselves and of a man.

[BrianN]

... in response to Deal with children, you GET children., posted by BrianN on Feb 7, 2002

Had to resubmit my password because I cleared the cookies and it ended up on it's own tree...