dont slander a guy for trying.

[Paul S]

7 trips, 8 trips, 9 trips ??  

I know of a guy that went to Ukraine 8 times in a preiod of a year and a half.  Everytime, he would meet with the Women he liked the most from the last trip, plus some new Ladies as well,  Was he trying to find the prefect Lady ? Was he maybe trying to find himself ??
I dont know the answer to that,  But evidently he does, as he has been happily married now to a wonderfull Women, for over a year now.

Life is a Journey,,  dont falt the Guy who is altleast moving, as it is better than the guy who has given up, and is just standing still.

[DE]

... in response to dont slander a guy for trying., posted by Paul S on Feb 2, 2002

Those that fault someone for how they pursue their destiney only reveal how miserable their own lives truly are.  It's easy to elevate in their own mind how much better they are by justifying to themselves that others are the lusers because they do not see the world as they do, nor have justified their failures as they have.  The problem with their false beliefs are that they are short lived when they have those rare lucid moments and discover that they are not a winner themselves and possibly even a greater luser.  Like an addict addicted to drugs, they seek the quick fix by attempting to re-elevate themselves in their own mind by attacking others as the real lusers.  This is far much easier then changing their behavior.  Unfortunately this behavior pattern is what keeps some of these trolls re-appearing.  Like an addict attempting to disquise their addiction, they re-appear as a "new" poster.  But also like an addict, they are only fooling themselves since everyone else sees through the feeble attempts to hide their addiction.   They seek out one tiny piece of truism, and use that small fragment to justify their addiction.

Clearly, anyone that is happily married to an AW or AM (or in a relationship with one) with a healthy mental state would not have a need to post personal attacks on this board.  Blizzard or not.  Out of the millions of AM or AW in a relationship with their American counterparts, only a few ever present themselves here.  Why?  Because it is not a forum that is relevant to any AW or AM with a healthy relaionship with their American counterpart.  Unfortunately 99% of those that do come here and post as if they are the foremost experts in this subject area and attack those that are here for legitimate reasons.  Certainly an abnormal psychosocial behavior.