Colombiano boyfriends

[Pete E]

One of my friends went to a major concert recently.A woman who works at a major Cali agency was with him and his girlfriend.She was pointing out a number of Colombianas in the crowd who were engaged to gringos who had Colombiano boyfriends all oved them.Hands on the butt,liplocked.
Not that uncommon.They might know these Colombiajnos are not marriage material but that does not mean they don't like hanging out with them when the gringo novio is not around.
So how do you avoid being the sucker here?My theory is she should be very consistently hot and available for you.And there should be no strange stories about what she is up to.Its not a guarantee but its a good start.And,if a nagging little voice tells you something is not right you might even hire a private dectective if you are not able to just trust your gut feelings and dump her.
There will be NO inconsistent BS with a girl who really cares about you.

Pete

[CaliBound]

... in response to Colombiano boyfriends, posted by Pete E on Aug 25, 2005

Hey Pete, now you have a whole bunch of guys who are living in the states -- while their young Senoritas (or Sardinitas) are in Colombia -- really worried.
Many of us make the mistake of believing that these ladies started living when they met us, but they had a life before we got there. They had boyfriends before you met them - and some will continue having them even after you put the engagement ring on their fingers!

The good thing is that you can still find plenty of good girls in Cali. Not all the girls there behave in the manners you have described. I have met at least 3 girls who were engaged at the time to American men (I didn't know they were). All 3 were members of Latin Encounters when Margareth was the owner (that website was a relief for my daily stress!). I saw these ladies at hotel's lobbies or at the malls. They were very surprised when I said hello to them using their names. I asked them out and all 3 told me that they were happily engaged. All of them were on my 'must meet' list. A week later, I saw the hottest of the 3 with her gringo boyfriend at Simon Parrilla. She invited me to their table. The boyfriend was not exactly a hunk, but she made him feel like one - she was all over him!

The behavior you saw at the concert in Colombia can also be seen at a concert here in the states. Example: you are working the midnite shift while your girlfriend is being entertained by her previous boyfriend. The only difference is that in Colombia even the players or cardsharks are a lot more sweeter than the AW.

My prayer before going to bed every night: "Lord if I am going to be 'used' and 'abused' by a woman, let her be from Colombia! Amen."

- Frank -

[mudd]

... in response to Colombiano boyfriends, posted by Pete E on Aug 25, 2005

and the poor american men who are back home, thinking their hot girlfriend is at home watching TV, yeh right, up to 10pm then, out the door to her boyfriends house.
big hint,when she isnt answering her cell phone, or she has 2 cell phones, something is up. always out with friends, not home much at night, another big hint. always gone on the wekeends, and not with her family, time to get a clue.
nice post Pete

[doombug]

... in response to Re: Colombiano boyfriends, posted by mudd on Aug 25, 2005

"big hint,when she isnt answering her cell phone...always out with friends, not home much at night...always gone on the wekeends, and not with her family, time to get a clue."

Those "clues" worked enough for me.  In fact, I didn't even wait around for comfirmation of infidelity, I just pulled the plug.  Didn't have the time or patience to play detective.

Wasted experience; salvaged future.

[Heat]

... in response to Colombiano boyfriends, posted by Pete E on Aug 25, 2005

Maybe if theses fat, bald jerks who can't speak Spanish who wake up they would see that about half their wives and girlfriends have lovers on the side.

Oh shit....I could be talking about the agency owners too.