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Author Topic: Why would somebody post..........  (Read 10325 times)
Demolitionguy
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« on: May 14, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
Why would somebody post pictures of their girlfriends on the web?  I do not known the guy that does this nor do I care to meet him.  It is one thing to have a picture with your girlfriend in a tasteful manner. but to have 6 or so girls on your bed is another.

Another thing, why would guys on this site be so excited about seeing this garbage.

By the way, I am not a religious nut, I just have class. David

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Jamie
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« Reply #1 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Why would somebody post.........., posted by Demolitionguy on May 14, 2005

David you are on a forum that is not moderated. There is occasional censorship but no moderation. So you not only have men who share their successes, failures, views and experiences but also a pack of classless provokers with limited intelligence, I get to spar with them and to make it a challenge all at once. For some reason they are allowed to use this forum as a playground.

Engage the Exotic – Latin Women
http://International-Introductions.com
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Hoda
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« Reply #2 on: May 16, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Why would somebody post.........., posted by Jamie on May 15, 2005


Occasional censorship, but no moderation?!!! I won't even address the rest of your remarks. But I find them rather pompous & holier than thou....
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Jamie
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« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Gee Jamie, thanks for your support......, posted by Hoda on May 16, 2005

I wasn’t slamming you Frank explained my position.

It could be a full time job to be a true moderator the objective force that filters through every post. People should not be able to make wild charges that they can not support. I believe this forum would be better served by moderators intervening with the discussion tp maintain the clarity, flow and subject focus. I am not one to desire censoring whole threads. True moderation would require stepping in when irrelevant points are brought up or questions are not being answered and so on. Not a pussy moderator like they have on the presidential debates but more in line with university style debates.

Engage the Exotic – Latin Women
http://International-Introductions.com
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Hoda
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« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Hoda, posted by Jamie on May 16, 2005


to pay for this team of moderators :-) Sorry J, but with all of PL's faults...IMO, the good far outweighs the bad! The experiences that shape our existence rarely will allow for total clarity, flow & subject focus...

Peace in the Middle-East & everywhere else....
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Cali James
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« Reply #5 on: May 16, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Gee Jamie, thanks for your support......, posted by Hoda on May 16, 2005

[This message has been edited by Cali James]

Hey Hoda, I didn't read Jaime's comment as a slight against you personally but rather against some of the other guys here.  I've never really thought of PL as a truly moderated forum either.  I think a classicly moderated forum is one where your post goes to the moderator first before it goes public.  The moderator controls the postings much more closely.  Here the forum is for the most part free with the occasional clean up from some of the protracted name calling threads.
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Hoda
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« Reply #6 on: May 16, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Gee Jamie, thanks for your support......, posted by Cali James on May 16, 2005

CJ....

Your description (and possibly Jaime's) of a classicly moderated forum, sounds like one that would contain more censorship, than what this forum offers.

have you danced on any tables lately :-)
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Cali James
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« Reply #7 on: May 16, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to LOL...., posted by Hoda on May 16, 2005

[This message has been edited by Cali James]

Yes, you're right, a classicly moderated forum was a forum where the moderator read the post before it was put on display.  He or she typically had a lot more control on what was posted then what we have here.  I purposely didn't use the word censorship because it has a negative connotation to most people although Jaime used the term.  However the owner of a forum (or his representative), kind of like the owner of a business, can set the rules or price of admission if you will.  I don't see it as censorship if a forum is moderated.  It's not a free speech issue.

Anyway, not trying to dance or even be funny, just trying to see someone's post from an alternative viewpoint.  I personally didn't see his comments as much of an attack on you and if it was, it seemed like more of a wish that you'd control the content of the board more.  His harsher comments were clearly directed at other people who he thinks are playing games here.
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Hoda
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« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: LOL...., posted by Cali James on May 16, 2005


but trying to control content is a "On the Job" thing for me. Like I said before...I've stopped trying to find a perfect balance. Besides, this is a free forum, with free style posting (to an extent...lol). On a positive note, the emails have been 10 (Way to go) to 1 (you suck) in regards to my appointment here on PL.
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doombug
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« Reply #9 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Why would somebody post.........., posted by Jamie on May 15, 2005

"For some reason they are allowed to use this forum as a playground."

At least they're not self-serving.

Some use the forum to draw clients.
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wizard
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« Reply #10 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Re: Why would somebody post............, posted by doombug on May 15, 2005
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Heat
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« Reply #11 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Why would somebody post.........., posted by Jamie on May 15, 2005

So you not only have men who share their successes, failures, views and experiences but also a pack of classless provokers with limited intelligence, I get to spar with them and to make it a challenge all at once. For some reason they are allowed to use this forum as a playground.""

Come on Jamie,  answer the question.  What's a guy who should be in his prime earning years doing chasing a few pesos in BQ? Why are you not making real money in the real world?

If you is so smart why is you so poor?
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Jamie
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« Reply #12 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to If you're so smart why are you not rich?, posted by Heat on May 15, 2005

"Come on Jamie, answer the question."

Heat I’ve answered every one of you lies you have yet to answer one of my questions not one.  It’s a waste of time for me to continue responding to one lie after another they are as fabricated as is your self-worth. A disgruntled, sour ex-cop who is unable to have a committed relationship and needs the ego boast of an elevate pseudo name. How sad.

Continued fortunes with your "real business" since it is an enterprise proudly modeled to make lots of money I don’t know why you refuse to share what it is?
Chao
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Tommy
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« Reply #13 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Your Decline., posted by Jamie on May 15, 2005

I dont know whether you comprehend this but the more you post the more customers you are losing.  I couldnt imagine using your agency, you would probably argue with me the whole time.

Just an observation.  I know you wont take the thinly veiled advice.

Tommy
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Jamie
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« Reply #14 on: May 15, 2005, 04:00:00 AM »
... in response to Re: Your Decline., posted by Tommy on May 15, 2005

Tommy I’ve said this more than once, I am here just like everyone else to learn and speak of my experiences and views. If my intention was to pick up customers I would be kind and nice to everyone regardless of what they say and stay off all of the controversial subjects. Wouldn’t that be the best approach for sales?

But I don’t take that approach because it is not my objective. If you and others believe I am losing customers than that should be of no concern to anyone correct? It affects no one but me. Now if I don’t mind no one else should mind either. If anything I did you favor because now you know not to use me for any services. I appreciate your advice but that is my position you may believe it is a bad position but it is not because I lack comprehension in what I am doing.

Tommy have you noticed no other agency owner post regularly on this board? The reason is they are immediately attacked. The owner of TLC posted no more than one word a few weeks ago and he was abruptly called a name and challenged. I defended the competition did I not? That can’t be good for sales wouldn’t it be better not to say anything when the competition is being attacked?

Even with my good record you have losers spearing me with garbage and lies. While I can defend myself with ease most won’t take the onslaught and their perspective is lost they just don’t come on board. Is this the type of dialogue you want a small pack of jackals flashing their fading bravado commanding attention by using their limited vocabulary as weapons?

It is very easy to say let it go but they are not calling you the names or disparaging your reputation. You had one poster tell me to stop defending myself, yet he defends himself when wrongly attacked. And his reason was oh well the accusations against me were stronger than the accusations against you, so it was ok for him but not for me. Does this make sense, of course not.  

Tommy ask yourself,  if someone on this forum was publicly saying your girlfriend or wife sleeps around and it was not true would you be quiet? I am guessing you would challenge such a person and I would not only defend your action to do so I would back you up. But think about it, its only sex why not just let them say what they want no one is going to think your accusers are right if you keep quite will they?

You know the answer to that they would all think your silence means they were right. If you call one guys wife a whore he may be outraged if you call another man’s wife a whore he may tell you that’s why he married her. I think it is up to you to determine what you should defend don’t you think others should have the same choice?

You had a poster below that was being unfairly attacked and I stepped in because the skepticism was unwarranted. One of the problems with this world is people don’t speak out against wrongs you have to confront evil with a force that is more brutal than what evil can muster or evil will grow. Now this is not to imply that some of the clowns here are evil because I do not believe they are, but the same remedy applies. I don’t just defend Jamie; I defended my competition and many others that I felt were being wrongly persecuted and I will continue to do so.

Engage the Exotic – Latin Women
http://International-Introductions.com
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