After two months of emailing, the penpal on the net, I am not sure
if you guys remember my whole story, She asked me for money, I said
no, she cried etc, for two days after i said thats all she wanted me
for , a big blowup, etc, then i agreed, but reconsidered again, and
said no again, then the next day she gets "engaged" to another guy
she was talking to behind my back , i did not know about him.
I have since sent her many letters stating, that she was
1)a liar for talking to him behind my back while all the time
professing her undying devotion, and "I am true to you "
2)a User for agreeing to accept money from me, a rather large sum
(my fault for offering), and then 2 days later leaving me for
some chump, who proposes to her sight unseen.
3)The typical example of every mans worst nightmare , the type
of filipina we all try to avoid...
The funny thing is, she made a huge point to respond to every allegation, and accusation, from me, defending herself in every
instance point by point
As to the money, she said, "well , i just frank you about the money,
", (her english is not that good), So in other words its my fault
for offering to send it after she asked for it i guess.
As to the guy, she had told me that she used to have another internet
pal, which was fine, i had several, but when you start calling the
girl, spending hundreds of dollars on phone calls, etc, making plans
to visit, Well at least in my case, I was only corresponding with her
at that point, My mistake i guess. Apparently she was covering her bases well, and knew i would dump her in a second if she told me she
was talking to another guy, so she kept this little piece of info to
herself. By the way, she asked the other guy for money too.
Anyway, At first she was sweet, devoted(or so I thought) etc etc
etc, then the money issue came up, (supposedly she got robbed in a
taxi), then everything went downhill from therre, and her real character was exposed. I am lucky i saw this before i went over to
visit,
I found it very interesting that even though she was a user, a lied
to me constantly, and eventually got engaged to another guy she has
not even met yet, (or maybe not, who knows wat is the truth), and
she admitted to all of the above circumstances even, she is adamant
in her attempts to deny that she did anything wrong, the last letter
she sent,,,she said..."I dont need you anymore"...........that about
hits the nail on the head.
I must say that the last 3 weeks of posts, and my experience with
pinays recently have really opened my eyes.
I think the tragic flaw in the whole mail order bride scenario is.
that the men are trying to hook up with women who are so poor, and
its impossible , or very difficult to tell what the womans motivation
is,,,,I used to think that filipinas really liked americans, the way
we treat them, the way we look etc, but now i dont know what to think.
All I know is, that, I am going to take my time, and find a lady who
does not have 10 brothers and sisters, and who is somewhat educated,
and, who knows, i may give up all together.
