Conclusions on my 5th trip to Colombia

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th trip to Co..., posted by latincirfer on Jun 4, 2005

again

I was only trying to let the poster know that this is a problem with women with children and it has nothing to do with the fathers wanting to be with there children, it has to do with CONTROL.

There are some good fathers i am sure, but most woman with children do not have much contact with the fathers that i have spoken with

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th trip to Co..., posted by latincirfer on Jun 4, 2005

again

I was only trying to let the poster know that this is a problem with women with children and it has nothing to do with the fathers wanting to be with there children, it has to do with CONTROL.

There are some good fathers i am sure, but most woman with children do not have much contact with the fathers hhat i have spoken with

[Red Clay]

... in response to Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th trip to Co..., posted by latincirfer on Jun 4, 2005

I have never known ANYONE in South America who would do ANYTHING to stop ANY member of their family from being able to have a life in the USA, regardless of the circumstances/relationship. I suppose there may be a few people who would, but I have never met one.

[Jake]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th trip t..., posted by Red Clay on Jun 4, 2005

I had met a nice lady in Cali with a boy . And when her x found out about it he wanted 10 grand to sign the papers for the child to leave the country ......
Jake

[Red Clay]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th tr..., posted by Jake on Jun 4, 2005

Yes, many Colombian "fathers" would be the exception.

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th tr..., posted by Jake on Jun 4, 2005

ESOOOOO !!!

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th trip to Co..., posted by latincirfer on Jun 4, 2005

I am with you on this and i have a daughter i would never let this happen either, BUTTTTT

this is another country with another culture and most of the fathers are not involved in there childs life and only will not sign the papers to control the woman and situation and not really care if they see the child or not. Its very common in colombia that the fathers have little or no interest in the children. SAD BUT TRUE, BUT I WOULD NOT LET MY CHILD LEAVE WITH ANOTHER MAN EITHER, BUT ITS A DIFFERENT WAY OF THINKING THERE

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Conclusions on my 5th trip t..., posted by Kiltboy1 on Jun 4, 2005

In my case, the children's father was dead. All we needed was his death certificate.

[Pete E]

... in response to I guess I lucked out, posted by utopiacowboy on Jun 4, 2005

I heard that one as a Colombianas scheme,but the guy was not dead YET.

Pete

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: I guess I lucked out, posted by Pete E on Jun 4, 2005

Sounds like the old Monty Python routine - was the guy hollering "But I'm not dead yet!"?

[Pete E]

... in response to You're too funny, Pete!, posted by utopiacowboy on Jun 4, 2005

Yes,
But this chica was serious.However it did not come to that, yet.Sounded like she  was going to do it anyway just for the hell of it.

Pete