Sex and Women in Peru

[grant5432]

I was just writing to a few women in Peru who wish to marry an
American man.  When I go to Peru in July, I hope to meet some
of these women, take them out on dates, have them show me
around, etc.   I was just wondering, what are the attitudes of
the majority of women in Peru or S. America regarding sex and
intimacy?  It seems most are catholic, and wonder if they are all
pretty much brought up in a strict catholic upbringing, so most
of them choose to wait to have sexual relations with someone.  

I am not planning on going this far with any of these women
on my first trip, but was wondering what the climate was in
this area compared to dating American women?   Anyone have
any thoughts on this?   Are most of these women sexually
liberal or conservative in these countries?    Thanks for any
help on this.

[Cartagena]

... in response to Sex and Women in Peru, posted by grant5432 on Jun 3, 2003

what are the attitudes of
the majority of women in Peru or S. America regarding sex and
intimacy?

Latinas aren't considered Hot Blooded for nothing.

The stories of Latinas being HOT id dact, not urban legend.

I would'nt go with unrealistic expectations, but if they like you and are atracted you you, well, they'll let you know.

C

[denvermike]

... in response to Sex and Women in Peru, posted by grant5432 on Jun 3, 2003

Hi,

I think it is impossible to generalize about the sexuality of any culture.  It is completely up to the individual person and her beliefs.

Also, I think there may be a bit of game playing at times by certain women who want to make you think they are "good" girls when they are actually far from it.  Your are a gringo, so it is very unlikely you have any local contacts and know her real history. So you have to watch out for that scam a bit. I ran into a girl in Cali who pulled that one on me. Use your head and watch for inconsistencies in her story and her actions.  

In Chile, it is quite interesting. Nearly everyone is Catholic but every woman I have met is quite sexually active.  The Catholic church has a very strong influence on the gonvernment and the laws (example, divorce is still illegal in Chile) but not on the morals. My quote is that the Chileans are Catholic, just not very good ones.

I have found that Latin women in general understand and accept the sexual nature of men.  They know they won't have much of social life with men without sex. That's just the way it is down here.  

Also, be aware that some Latin women are experts at what most AWs have forgotten, you can manipulate a man by using sex.  They have something we want and they know it. In Latin America, it is the only real power women have over men, and some use it to perfection. They will give it and then take it away, until they get what they want. I have known several women like that.  Also, the more attractive the woman the better the game works.  This ploy works really well on gringos fresh in from the great female waste land, also called the USA.

Good luck in Peru, I really like Peruvian women.

take care,
mike

[grant5432]

... in response to Re: Sex and Women in Peru, posted by denvermike on Jun 4, 2003

Thanks for the informative posting!   I love Peruvian women too!  At least  
the ones I've been emailing.  Haven't actually been to S. America before.

-Grant

[beenthere]

... in response to Re: Sex and Women in Peru, posted by denvermike on Jun 4, 2003

Mike,
Great post and great explanation of latin women.  Few gringos understand this.

[wizard]

... in response to Re: Sex and Women in Peru, posted by denvermike on Jun 4, 2003

"This ploy works really well on gringos fresh in from the great female waste land, also called the USA"

Oh, how true... It's nice to be married to a latina who understands and knows what it means to be a woman...

[cancunhound]

... in response to Sex and Women in Peru, posted by grant5432 on Jun 3, 2003

Try this thread here:

http://www.planet-love.com/wwwboard/latin/archives/display.php?archive=000134&id=42104