Peter:
Man, what the hell!? I am sorry but that Girl is a gold digger....man, I am from Mindanao (Butuan City)..I am also a Bisaya. I have been here in the US for ten years now...and DAMN, she is really taking you for a RIDE!
All that Graduation expenses, and medical needs (180 pesos/day)..is she graduating from a Drug Rehabilitaion Center in Mindanao?...Graduation does not cost that much in the Philippines ( I KNOW THAT FOR SURE )..all that reception food (including 'Snakes' & Cokes...hehehehe...J/K...she probably can catch a snake in thier backyard!).
I tell you what, my sister-in-law in Butuan City is interested in meeting someone (Not for MARRIAGE Right Away), but getting to know. Now, it is really up to my sister-in-law to make that friendship further. I know her Personally, and there's nothing to worry about.
If you are interested let me know and give me your personal info so I can tell her. Joan is 24 years old.