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Author Topic: Ouch! Should have listened...?!  (Read 1767 times)
Streetwise
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« on: June 03, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

Well, my relationship with the young lady from Latvia has finally come to an end. Yes, it's the same one who had a strange attitude to money, when I posted all those months ago! The plan was, she would come and stay with me, but not to just sit at home "like a monkey" as she put it, I was suppposed to find her a job (of course I would have taken care of her but she was very much set on having her own financial independence, following some past experiences.) But my
business is based on a small Greek island, which is great for loafing around on rhe beach but does not offer opportunities for careers in graphic design (there is plenty of unskilled work here in the tourist business during summer but no way this girl would want that.) And no, she didn't want to work in my office either (thought I was just creating a job for her.)

I was still trying to find a solution when she seemed to start cooling off on the phone, and the messages became fewer. Finally it came out, that her job situation back home has improved, she has found a new set of interesting friends there, soon she will have her own apartment instead of living with mum etc etc. And of course, after 6 months I still hadn't found her that job over here.  

So all you guys who warned me off her back then, can now say "I told you so!" and tell me to change my handle!

But before you do, consider this... last time I went to Riga to see her, I hired a car, and while she was tied up for a couple of hours with work, I drove a couple of blocks down the road (literally less than half a mile) to see if another girl I once met, whilst she worked as a dancer in a Greek night club, was still there. She was, and she looked great; I said I was there on business, had a quick cup of tea, then made my excuses so I could get back to the other girl's apartment at the agreed time (promising to return to Riga soon on business!)

So guess where I will be going in a couple of weeks? Maybe while I'm with No.2 we'll bump into No.1 (that would be a gas.)

Cover your ass, that's what I say.    


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Pordzhik
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« Reply #1 on: June 04, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Ouch! Should have listened...?!, posted by Streetwise on Jun 3, 2003

[This message has been edited by Pordzhik]

Not about how much money you can spend on her, nor about what opportunities you can offer to advance her career?

This one has wasted enough of your time and money.

Good luck with this other lady, you'll let us all know what happens won't you?

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thesearch
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« Reply #2 on: June 03, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Ouch! Should have listened...?!, posted by Streetwise on Jun 3, 2003

Did I get that right? You are turning your attention to a dancer in a club?
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Streetwise
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« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: Ouch! Should have listened...?!, posted by thesearch on Jun 3, 2003

It sounds worse than it is... she stopped that particular line of work 3 years ago. When I first met her, we went out a couple of times and she never expected anything from me; she was (and I guess still is) a mild-mannered, polite and gentle type. Much of what she earned went back to her parents to pay the rent etc. I remember that she actually wanted to go back to college and complete her education, and she was already fluent in English, Russian and Latvian, and conversational in Greek. The more I travel, the more careful I become about judging a book by its cover!!

I also get on pretty well with her folks (using my "pidgin" Russian,) I've met them all and they were very friendly even if their situation is not so great. I just hope I don't get roped into a drinking spree with her brother when I go over there.

Now she's unemployed, and actually that's a good thing from my angle since she has no hang-ups about leaving Latvia and giving up a career (difficult to find over there) to take her chances with me! I'm not expecting too much but let's see what happens.

She's also very beautiful, but if we make a go of things I suppose I'll have to live with that!

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KenC
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« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Ouch! Should have listened...?!, posted by Streetwise on Jun 3, 2003

Streetwise,
You have been told about your handle before!!!  LOL.  Seriously, you did nothing wrong.  You played your hand out and didn't win the pot.  So what?  The true crime would be not to try at all.  Best of luck next time.
KenC
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