Would you try again?

[thesearch]

... in response to Re: {}, posted by Travis on May 3, 2003

Travis,

I do not know that success is the norm as you put it. I am not being negative, just that no one knows the stats on all of this. I would like to think that such is the case but there are those that do not think this correct. The bottom line is those that have their heads on straight and take caution IMHO are the ones who are going to be more likely to say that success is the norm.

It sounds like you have a good outlook and thus when the time is right, you will be ready. You are absolutely correct about not being negative because of past experience.

Good Luck

[MtMav]

... in response to Would you try again?, posted by Travis on May 2, 2003

[This message has been edited by MtMav]

not now ..... not yet! If I understand your current situation correctly, you are not yet divorced. You should not even be thinking about another relationship with any lady (FSU or AW) until you get your legal, financial and emotional situation "cleaned up." Travis, a classic mistake many men make is to jump back into another relationship while on the "rebound." Don't! Your profile states you are 33. You are young enough to put time between this failed relationship and your next attempt. Time will also help reveal other mistakes you may have made but don't yet realise. Remember, "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread." Good luck and thanks for sharing your "less than pleasant" situation.

[Travis]

... in response to Yes, but, posted by MtMav on May 2, 2003

I won't/can't pursue anything for a long time to come, nor do I want to. I have too many things to correct. Actually I'm 36 now, I just haven't updated my profile since I first registered on the board. But my age doesn't have too much to do with my timetable, so long as I don't wait to the point that I'm drawing social security

[RickM]

... in response to Would you try again?, posted by Travis on May 2, 2003

from a good family "outside" city limits (from smaller villages) and you meet her "in" her enviroment and spend some time with her while with her friends and family...You'll know what your getting into beforehand...I'd personally try again if I were attracted to em but I'd do my homework..."NOTHING" in life comes with guarantees...Good luck in whatever you decide...