... in response to Adoption in Ukraine, posted by James B on Mar 30, 2003It can be quite complicated, and I strongly suggest you consult an adoption lawyer. Despite all the fiancee/AOS/INS paperwork I've handled myself over the years (fairly straight-forward), I could never have done this without the lawyer.
If your wife is a widow, it will be simpler than if the father is alive (but still not simple enough). Communication with the father will need to take place, through court/lawyer, and his parental rights severed before you can adopt. An interview of your immediate family is required by someone either appointed or licensed by the state (more than likely with some follow-ups), although you do not need to follow the home-study program as with overseas adoption. There is a lot of info out there about adoption, but I never found any on the subject of in-state step adoptions. Generally speaking it will cost you $2000-$3000 with a lawyer, but it's the best way. Note that the moment the adoption is approved, the child/children become US citizens. Best to complete adoption before child's 16th birthday.