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What in generall, do y'all think is the best way to really approach Latin Women when using an introduction service. Do you feel that being upfront and stating exactly what you are looking for within the first meeting ( For example: I am looking for a wife, approximate between....)and seperating those who do not come close to the criteria. Or is taking a longer term approach by going out several times with one or two potentials in attempt to feel them out better?

While the answer is probably a mixture of both (know definately what you want, but put the time and effort forth to see if what they present to you really represent who they are), there is a problem. The first approach assumes that the women will be honest in their answers and that you will be able to correctly judge their character within the first meeting (I don't want to start with the # of times I have been fooled).

The second  approach ,while more natural and probably more comfortable to both parties, requires a serious investment of time and money. This can lead to major frustration especially when you have gone through several that just did'nt pan out. Also, I think it might lead to some serious serial dating where you just keep going though potentials because it would easier than developing a long term relationship.

Anyway, this has gone on too long, What works for y'all?

... in response to The best approach?( probably too long), posted by BigLou on Jan 1, 2004

Big Lou

I thought you asked a good question, but that's what happens when you get sandwiched between 2 Burbuja posts and there's a major flame war going on below.  So I'll try to help.  

I would definitely favor "attempt to feel them out better".  ;-)

Steve

... in response to The best approach?( probably too long), posted by BigLou on Jan 1, 2004

Your post was too long.  Please attempt to be a bit more concise and employ economy of language in the future.  To address the substantive issues in your post, ...I dunno.