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Title: A Better Option for Brazil
Post by: MarkInTx on February 17, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
For those of you who haven't bought tickets to Colombia yet...

I found yet another agency in Brazil

Everyone knows about BrazilGirls -- great site if all you want to do is look at pictures and stare.... not so hot if you are wanting to actually MEET someone, though.

BrazilRomance is a better site... but a very small selection of ladies. I wanted to have them help me set up some appointments while I was there, and they wanted $50 per date, even if I provided the lady's contact information. In Russia, they'll do it for $15 per meeting. Cali is what... $100 a day, something like that? So, $50 for a simple meeting seemed really high.

I ran into a new site: www.firepassion.com

They have a pretty good selection of ladies, but better yet they have been very good about answering questions and trying to asssist me on my trip. And, they have an "office" in Sao Paulo. (BrazilGirls has an "office" in Miami... and they can't do you anything more than simply sell you addresses.)

So far, so good. I will let you know what my final experience is with Fire & Passion, but so far they have been very forthright, and I am optimistic...



Title: Forget it... they're just as bad
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to A Better Option for Brazil, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 17, 2002

Well, I was hoping to report that I had finally found a good agency in Brazil.

No such luck.

I will say this again one time:

NO ONE IN BRAZIL HAS A CLUE ABOUT HOW TO RUN A GOOD AGENCY!

And they don't want to learn, either. I have never met such a group of proud and arrogant "agency owners" who weren't willing to help AT ALL! BrazilianRomance wants $100 PER MEETING to set up meetings with a lady. You would think, then, that their women were supermodels or something...but no such thing. Look at their site!!! Just TRY and find THREE women who you would want to meet.  AAARRRGH!

Can you tell I am frustrated?

Now I know why everyone goes to Colombia...

OK... Looks like here's the deal:

You go to BrazilGrils. They are a lousy agency, but a good catalog. Just know what you're getting.

Buy 100 names. At least they give quantity discounts.

Write the ones that are in the geographic area you are interested in. Narrow it down, and go. You're on your own. There is no agency to help you.

Good news: It's actually pretty cheap. Even with the purchase of 100 names, you're not paying much. No agency fees on top of it. And, American has direct flights there from DFW (which for me is great!)

Bad news, you need to plan in advance. It takes a few weeks to get a letter to Brazil and back. Also, as I mentioned before, the ladies get LOTS of letters.

My good news: I have a lady who I am so interested in, I would go down there just to meet her, anyway. To he!l with the agencies!

Oh... she was listed on BrazilGirls, in case anyone was interested.

If I were in a hurry, and I didn't have my trip paid for me, I think I would skip Brazil.

I just can't believe that NO ONE has set up a good agency there yet.

If I do marry a Brazilian, I think I'll finance someone in her family to start one....



Title: $100 A POP??????????
Post by: Hoda on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Forget it... they're just as bad, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 18, 2002


They're crazier than all of out doors!!!! There must be a $90 rebate included. Check the ity bity fine print! It's gotta be there....(LOL)


Title: Rebate... yeah... probably...
Post by: MarkInTx on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to $100 A POP??????????, posted by Hoda on Feb 19, 2002

$90 rebate? Sure...

But the lady probaby gets it. Or maybe they split it 50/50... who knows?

I'm not making it up. Go to their website. They're so proud of that price that THEY POST IT!

Funny thing... Solange... the person who runs the agency, thought that by referencing that figure, I would come to my senses. Because they were offering me the "deal" of doing it for $50 per meeting.

Amazing...

I told them that if they can get $100 per meeting to go right ahead. But they won't get it from me.

What kills me is... no one is paying that.... right? I mean... please tell me that no man is stupid enough to do that...

If not... you would think that they would change their pricing... but, hey, that's just me...



Title: If someone is paying....
Post by: Hoda on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Rebate... yeah... probably..., posted by MarkInTx on Feb 19, 2002


$100 bucks FOR A INTRO!!!!! They deserve a "BEAT-DOWN" with a "HEY-STUPID-STICK"....(LMAO)! But seriously Bro, have they found "anyone" willing to pay that kind of dough, for the err, ahem.....beauties on their site? Some people got more money than brains....


Title: Re: If someone is paying....
Post by: Michael B on February 22, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to If someone is paying...., posted by Hoda on Feb 19, 2002

Yesterday, on one of the free sites, in response to a profile that said I was looking for a "mature, educated, latina, perfer a triguena" I got an email from a 22yo Russian woman, complete with white skin and yellow hair, pictures included....biggest set of ... well, let's just say they were both about to fall out of that night gown she's almost wearing. She had "carefully studied my profile" and she just KNEW that we would be a very good match etc. etc.....anyway, she wanted to get real serious, real fast and guess what? She actualy PERFERS men my age (I'm 51)....yeah, what ever....oh, only one minor problem, you have to PAY $64 to join her agency before you can answer her email. (The poor little thing doesn't have her own computer and has to have them send and receive all her email, so she says.)

Say, what you bet if I forward her pics and intro letter to some guys on the Russian board that she might get some takers?



Title: I don't know of any
Post by: MarkInTx on February 20, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to If someone is paying...., posted by Hoda on Feb 19, 2002

I can't imagine anyone paying $100 per meeting. Especially since they make it clear that they are only doing the introductions. The lady might not even stay for Dinner!!!

I get the sense that no one really is trying in Brazil.

I don't know why... But there is a vacuum there that SOMEONE ought to fill...



Title: There're guys trying.....
Post by: Hoda on February 20, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to I don't know of any, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 20, 2002


there just not using these so-called agencies. I know a crew of guys, who are in Brazil right now. They're spending some time in Rio for carnival, in addition to visiting a few other cities in Brazil. The SOB's are having so much fun, they almost forgot to report what's happening...(LOL).
From their early reports....CARNIVAL IS OFF THE HOOK!!!!

They report that the women are fine, with skin, eye & hair combinations for all taste. The quest is completely different in Brazil, as opposed to Colombia. In Brazil, you're pretty much on your own. No check that "YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN". "Abrutha" who post here & who has visited Brazil a number of times, has posted his observations on the social scene there. ANYONE going to Brazil should definitely read his post, before going.



Title: Yep
Post by: MarkInTx on February 21, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to There're guys trying....., posted by Hoda on Feb 20, 2002

Yep,

That's pretty much it.

From what I have gathered:

On the plus side:

Brazilian women are freindly, and approachable.

On the minus side:

They need to be, cause no one is gonna introduce you

I'll post my trip report when I get back... Promise.

I also promise that there is no way possible that I will be on the computer posting reports when I am in Brazil :-)



Title: Re: A Better Option for Brazil
Post by: Pete E on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to A Better Option for Brazil, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 17, 2002

I think the owners of Fire and Passion,Brian and Chrissy,live in southern California.I don't know how often they are in Brazil or who staffs the Sao Paulo office.It seems like a very part time operation.I have never heard any feedback from anyone who has actuially used them.

Pete



Title: And you won't from me, either
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: A Better Option for Brazil, posted by Pete E on Feb 18, 2002

Read my other post.

They are just like the rest of them...



Title: Re: Where would be the best place to go in Brasil?
Post by: deatchef on February 17, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to A Better Option for Brazil, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 17, 2002

Porto Alegre, Rio de janeiro, Sao Paulo, Salvador, Belo Horizonte....
or more North?


Title: Opinion's Vary -- what're you interested in?
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Where would be the best place to go ..., posted by deatchef on Feb 17, 2002

From what little I know...

Sao Paulo is "New York" in Brazil, so the women there have a tendency to be more educated, and have better access to the internet, etc, etc. They also have adopted a more "modern" approach to life in general...

North, the women will probably not speak English as much, but they will be more "traditional", and will have seen fewer Gringos.

The lady I am going to see in Sao Paulo laughed when I told her that I would stick out in Brazil. She told me: "Not until you talk. In Sao Paulo it is a melting pot. In Brasilia, you would stick out."

So, it is all, really a matter of taste.

If you wish to have a letter-writing correspondance followed by a trip to meet "just one" -- but at the same time, have very little competition... then Northern Brazil is probably your best bet.

If you like to have a lot of exchanges via email... then you need to stick near the major cities, as a rule.

BTW, the guys at firepassion.com got a huge kick out of my question: "How far is too far?" when trying to decide what women to write to.

Their response was: "You're going to travel 7000 miles to meet a woman, and then worry if one of them is too far? WHat is too far when you've already travelled 7000 miles?"

They have a valid point...



Title: Re: Opinion's Vary -- what're you interested in?
Post by: deatchef on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Opinion's Vary -- what're you interested..., posted by MarkInTx on Feb 18, 2002

I would like to correspond with a few ladies (preferably in the same area) and then meet them. I understand that i would have a better chance at meeting a less materialistic, woman that would be more willing to leave the country to start a life of better quality for her and her children in the North Eastern Part of Brasil, but the selection seems slim...
I would rather have more selection because I'm sure out of 20-30 picks it would only narrow down to 2-3. Are these women of Sao Paulo, and Porto Alegre who have good lives and caerers, willing to leave there beautiful country?
If i were less interested in DarkerColored Women would I be better of South?


Title: Who knows?
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Opinion's Vary -- what're you intere..., posted by deatchef on Feb 18, 2002

Are the women with good careers willing to leave them?

Who knows? I don't think they know.

My impression is that the women of Brazil are much less "desperate" and will only be willing to leave for the right guy.

That is part of what attracts me to them.

They do, however, still dream of a romantic man. The theme (from the women who are on the agencys) seems to be she wants a man who is not so in love with his own machismo, and who will love her and treat her with respect...

For the approach you want to take (which is very similar to the one I would take) stick with a major city and write several, then go over to meet them.

South Brazil is going to have all kinds of women.

If you decide to go the BrazilGirls.com route, then go through the catalog, and buy 100 names. Of those maybe 20 will be from the areas you want. (No, they don't list the areas before you buy the names!)

Write to these and from 100 to start with, you'll probably only have 6-8 in the end.

Be aware though that the pretty ones are flooded with letters. The one lady that I am going to see tells me that every day she gets 10-15 letters. So, be prepared to wait for your initial responses.

Firepassion.com is running a tour/social in April I think. You might consider that.

BTW, if you want to, you can let me know what your parameters are, and if I already have addresses that match, I can send them to you.



Title: Re: Who knows?
Post by: deatchef on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Who knows?, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 18, 2002

I am still unsure of the area to focus on, but I think I may want to just take a trip with no expectations to S.Brasil. (I'm thinking Porto alegre). It would be nice to have some communication with a few ladies before i go. If you have any from that area that you could send me I would be very grateful. I'm 32 and am searching for 20-28.
If there are some gems out of that area, you could send them too and maybe I'll switch my vacation plans.
Please let me know if I can send you some money to cover the addresses. I surely appreciate it!
John               j.deatchef@verizon.net


Title: You have mail
Post by: MarkInTx on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Who knows?, posted by deatchef on Feb 19, 2002

But I had no clue what that account at Verizon was... so I sent it to your hotmail account



Title: Re: Who knows?
Post by: stefang on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Who knows?, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 18, 2002

It seems that the Brazilian women tend to be very skeptical in the beginning also. I was always asked do I have a girlfriend. I had one tell me that most women think that  Brazilian men are beautiful but they just don't want to settle down or have family. She told me that she lived with one guy for five years and he would maybe stay one night then he would go see another woman. She says a lot of women are sick of them but they also don't see that their friendliness causes the men to play around. I don't think they are in a hurry to leave their country and cold weather is not something they want to relocate to, but if you can sweep one off her feet than anything is possible. If some of these women have friends who are happily married in America then more may be willing to give it a try. The northern regions tend to be poorer and more women may be willing to leave.


Title: Re: Re: Who knows?
Post by: stefang on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Who knows?, posted by stefang on Feb 18, 2002

Brazils economy has had problems the last few years and some women may be wanting to leave. Also while exploring the internet for info on Brazil I found some info on Rio. Be very careful of women who seem to have that perfect body. It seems that a lot of men have had sex changes to become women. Most are prostitutes but you never know when one might decide to find a foreign husband. So those taller women with perfect breast may not be what your looking for. A few posts down I commented about the traditional latina in Cali not having plastic surgery like Californians thinking of the traditional women. Thanks to the guys who mentioned that their are many women who have had surgery in Cali. I am still more intersted in Brazilians but it seems much harder than heading to Colombia, but I am pretty patient.


Title: Re: Re: Re: Who knows?
Post by: Bueller on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by stefang on Feb 18, 2002

I took a look through the fire&passion site after Mark mentioned it above. There is at least one, and possibly two, women who don´t look like they were born female.


Title: that's friggin scary N/T
Post by: deatchef on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by Bueller on Feb 19, 2002

N/T


Title: OH NO YOU DIDN'T SAY THAT.......ROTFLMAO!!!!!!
Post by: Hoda on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by Bueller on Feb 19, 2002


Still LMAO.....

That's cold bro (even if it's true...heheh)! They do have a few gorilla biscuits on their site, that would make one request to see their (original) birth certificates!!!! I'm quite sure they have nice personalities...BUT DAYYUM!!!!



Title: "Gorilla Biscuits"?......now I´m ROTFLMAO!!!!!!
Post by: Bueller on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to OH NO YOU DIDN'T SAY THAT.......ROTFLMAO..., posted by Hoda on Feb 19, 2002

I´ve learned a few good ones from you, Hoda.:-)


Title: Re: Re: Re: Who knows?
Post by: Cali vet on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by stefang on Feb 18, 2002

I read that worldwide, the largest number of breast reduction surgeries are carried out in Brazil. A tragic waste in my opinion.


Title: Re: Re: Re: Re: Who knows?
Post by: Tai on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by Cali vet on Feb 18, 2002

Go to the Latineuro site and look in the "Brazil girls" category page b152. -Sandra; B1666...she may be a reduction candidate pretty soon, and I doubt anyone would blame her.


Title: No wonder she bending over.....lol
Post by: Hoda on February 19, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by Tai on Feb 18, 2002


Sorry Tai, I couldn't resist...lmao! I had to go through several pages before I got to your friend. Lawd have mercy, if someone was to set-up a "Proper" agency in Brazil. If even a third of the women on the site were serious about leaving Brazil for the right man. We'd be reading about some success stories here. From most of the accounts that I have read & from friends going to Brazil. The easiest part is meeting the ladies. The HARD PART IS GETTING THEM TO LEAVE WITH/FOR YOU!!!! I'm engaged, NOT DEAD!! Brazil HAS TALENT, NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!!! I wasthisclose to visiting Brazil with a board bro, back in Nov of 99. I backed out, because of my lack of Portugese.....

Later...



Title: I may understand it though
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by Cali vet on Feb 18, 2002

I have seen some pictures of women and think... good lord, I honestly don't know if I can handle all of that..

Mind you... I would be game to try!

I mean... you look at them, and usually breasts like those are on women who are A) Really, really fat or B) have used silicone to get them there... but the Brazilian women are C) none of the above.
Amazing... truly...



Title: Brazil vs. Cali
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Re: Who knows?, posted by stefang on Feb 18, 2002

I agree with you.

In my case, of course, my trip to Brazil is being paid for, which makes it even better.

The two things about Cali that it has in its favor (without discussin which has better women... lol.. since that is an argument with no winners!)

1. Better agencies to assist you
2. Spanish

If you have to learn another language, Portuguese only helps you in Brazil. Spanish seems to have more applicability.

That being said, there's just something about the Brazilian women that DOES keep me interested...



Title: Re: Brazil vs. Cali
Post by: stefang on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Brazil vs. Cali, posted by MarkInTx on Feb 18, 2002

I haven't spoken to any Colombians but the Brazilians on the phone always want kisses. They get angry if you don't kiss them. It is funny if you don't give them enough they ask what is wrong you don't like me. I do believe if you find your love you will be very happy with a Brazilian. The bad thing is they will want to call their mothers all the time the phone bill will get expensive.


Title: Kissing...? Ha...
Post by: MarkInTx on February 18, 2002, 05:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Brazil vs. Cali, posted by stefang on Feb 18, 2002


I have heard from all sorts of sources about the Brazilian affections.

I have not yet experienced it first hand... but in a few weeks, I'll have something to report.

Of course... if it's REALLY good... I probably won't report anything!!!

So, if I go away... you'll know to suspect the best!