Title: typical attitude, comes out Post by: outwest on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM After two months of emailing, the penpal on the net, I am not sure
if you guys remember my whole story, She asked me for money, I said no, she cried etc, for two days after i said thats all she wanted me for , a big blowup, etc, then i agreed, but reconsidered again, and said no again, then the next day she gets "engaged" to another guy she was talking to behind my back , i did not know about him. I have since sent her many letters stating, that she was 1)a liar for talking to him behind my back while all the time 2)a User for agreeing to accept money from me, a rather large sum 3)The typical example of every mans worst nightmare , the type The funny thing is, she made a huge point to respond to every allegation, and accusation, from me, defending herself in every As to the money, she said, "well , i just frank you about the money, As to the guy, she had told me that she used to have another internet Anyway, At first she was sweet, devoted(or so I thought) etc etc I found it very interesting that even though she was a user, a lied I must say that the last 3 weeks of posts, and my experience with I think the tragic flaw in the whole mail order bride scenario is. All I know is, that, I am going to take my time, and find a lady who Title: The MOB route Post by: Carrisse on March 25, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to typical attitude, comes out, posted by outwest on Mar 24, 2001
may not always be the best way. Have a friend introduce you to the ladies. Go to Mag-anak, most of the ladies there are friends of Mag-anakers. PS. I have six bros and a sis....My sis introduced me to my hubby. All six bros chaperoned us on our first date. Imagine one Pinay, one AM and six Pinoys going into a moviehouse, soooooo hilarious! Title: Reminds me of ... Post by: Jeff S on March 26, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to The MOB route, posted by Carrisse on Mar 25, 2001
That scene in "Good Morning Viet Nam" when Robin Wiliams took the whole family to see Beach Blanket Bingo. Title: Re: typical attitude, comes out Post by: cc on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to typical attitude, comes out, posted by outwest on Mar 24, 2001
The nice ones don't ask for money. Period! Don't give up - you will find the "right one" eventually. I now consider "Heart-of-Asia" as the prime resource for addresses: They post 66 new ones every 3 days or so. I just returned from a 2 week trip to Baguio and Dumaguete and met 3 "Heart-of-Asia" penpals whom I had written for a few weeks. Each of these fine women I trust completely and would be willing to marry - it's a personal choice that I want to give it a bit more time and make another trip later this year to get to know each other better. Good luck! Title: Re: typical attitude, comes out......tess Post by: Stephen on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to typical attitude, comes out, posted by outwest on Mar 24, 2001
I agree with Don that 95% of Filipinos does'nt know how to use the internet. I myself haven't tried that ICQ & MIRC chatrooms only the simple email thing. I find it so boring setting down for hours talking to strangers. It's just a waste of time for me. But to those young Filipina Ladies, they find it cool. The best thing for you to do is try another way of meeting Filipinas, maybe through friends. Stephen never had a hard time looking for a good Filipina, look he found me. It took us more than a year before we committed to each other. I know I found a gold in him and he a diamond in me. That makes me a goldigger too (lol) I wish you luck...next time. Tess Title: Re: typical attitude, comes out Post by: Ray on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to typical attitude, comes out, posted by outwest on Mar 24, 2001
outwest, For this woman, my advice is to just let it go. Her attitude isn't necessarily tpical and there are lots of good ones out there. You'll get over it and you sound like you're learning from past mistakes, which is a good sign. Don't give up! You'll find the right one. Nobody ever said this was going to be easy. I wish you luck, Ray Title: Re: typical attitude, comes out Post by: don2222 on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to typical attitude, comes out, posted by outwest on Mar 24, 2001
Hi Outwest, If you do not give up, then my suggestion to you is to hop on a plane and see the Philippines in person. It is a beautiful country, and you can have a great vacation there. The penpal method may work for some, but that is not how I met Vilma. My first trip to the PI was to learn more about the country and its people. It is impossible to learn about the Philippines on the internet. When you arrive in the PI you will see that it is completely different from America. You will learn so much more about Filipinas by meeting them in person. There are many Filipinas out there that will make wonderful wives, and are interested in more than just money. What you need to consider is that 95% of Filipinos do not use the internet. The few that do use the internet are exposed to the possibility of meeting hundreds of men. Go meet the Filipinas in person. Meet the ones that do not have penpals. Meet the ones that have never even thought about marrying a foreigner. Meet the "girl next door" types that are too busy working and going to school to bother with an internet romance. Many of the Filipinas that you meet on the internet are the aggressive ones that will only cause you trouble. Most of the good ones are too shy to persue you, you must go there and find them yourself. Don Title: Good Advice! n/t Post by: Ray on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM Title: Re: typical attitude, comes out Post by: Bear on March 24, 2001, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to typical attitude, comes out, posted by outwest on Mar 24, 2001
I guess its true what I have been hearing for years. I guess you didn't. If they want money - run. Bear |