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here is (abbreviated) the conversation i had with a lady that i met thru cherryblossoms (this is our SECOND conversation, she is using a webcam, suggestively touching her hair):

cathy_cruz2001: hello
cathy_cruz2001: missing you so much
painslayer: now i can see you much better than yesterday
painslayer: it is nice looking at you... but... tell me something interesting
cathy_cruz2001: no
painslayer: at least smile
painslayer: that is it!
painslayer: you seem much happier today. true?
cathy_cruz2001: thanks
cathy_cruz2001: i like your name don’t you know
painslayer: i made it up when i became a citizen of the united states. before i had a long name that nobody could say.
cathy_cruz2001: yahjhhhhhhh
painslayer: translate please
cathy_cruz2001: yaah
painslayer: still do not understand. people are supposed to use words not sounds
painslayer: stop being so serious. come on. relax.
cathy_cruz2001: its just my expression hon
painslayer: thanx for hon, hon. call me dear, better
cathy_cruz2001: wow
painslayer: wow
cathy_cruz2001: i like that dear
painslayer: no problem, hon
cathy_cruz2001: whatever you wish i well
painslayer: are you sure? whatever i want? are you like totally submissive?
cathy_cruz2001: hhahhaaaaaaaaaaaaahhaha
painslayer: how was your day, dear?
cathy_cruz2001: i love coz you are her
painslayer: you did not answer my question. remember? you are supposed to follow my wishes (at least for now)
cathy_cruz2001: yes
cathy_cruz2001: ok
painslayer: how was your day?
cathy_cruz2001: its ok
cathy_cruz2001: dear can i ask you something?
painslayer: yes
cathy_cruz2001: are you interested in me
painslayer: i do not know yet, as i said i need to get to know you better but you are not helping me here
cathy_cruz2001: im willing to help you
cathy_cruz2001: dear i well go to buy some food im hungry i well be back in a min.
painslayer: sure
BUZZ!!!
painslayer: YES?
cathy_cruz2001: how are you im back
painslayer: what did you eat?
cathy_cruz2001: i eat cake
cathy_cruz2001: and finish it
cathy_cruz2001: then drink cook in can
painslayer: cake? you are going to get fat!
cathy_cruz2001: i wish i can eat w you
painslayer: we can arrange this
cathy_cruz2001: hahhahahha
cathy_cruz2001: ok why dear did you hate fat
cathy_cruz2001: well im not fat im sexy
cathy_cruz2001: do you want to see
painslayer: what is sexy to you?
painslayer: yes, i want to see...
cathy_cruz2001: i can show you in private lol
cathy_cruz2001: my hips
painslayer: ok, i am not a hips person. i usually look at other parts
cathy_cruz2001: in private and my big boobs
cathy_cruz2001: ok maybe my big boobs
painslayer: wow. i would definitely like that! you are not shy, as i can see
cathy_cruz2001: yaah that’s right do you like that
cathy_cruz2001: but you must show your cock too
painslayer: wow. as soon as i get my cam up and running
cathy_cruz2001: plssssssssssss tell me if you don’t like when im talking sexy words i well stop
painslayer: i will let you know if i do not like something
cathy_cruz2001: ok i like that dear
cathy_cruz2001: but i can only do that to if you are going to pay the room for us
cathy_cruz2001: to get neck
painslayer: to get neck, what do you mean?
cathy_cruz2001: i mean how can i show you my boobs if im only in public place like this
painslayer: ok, how can i pay for the private room?
cathy_cruz2001: if im in the cafe only i cant show you
cathy_cruz2001: you have to send that
painslayer: details, please
cathy_cruz2001: but if you cant do that its ok dear as long us you still there for me
cathy_cruz2001: i can still wait for the day to come
cathy_cruz2001: to get private
painslayer: details, please
painslayer: where and how much
painslayer: i have my credit card (and cock) ready
cathy_cruz2001: ahahhaahhaaha
cathy_cruz2001: i think tru western union
cathy_cruz2001: is the best way
painslayer: ok, i need to go to sleep, give me details
painslayer: how much, number, how to do it
cathy_cruz2001: you just need my name and address to send that her
cathy_cruz2001: for the room
cathy_cruz2001: are you leaving there
cathy_cruz2001: like what ive said
painslayer: are you sure, i never used it, i do not need an account number?
painslayer: ok, i will try using your name and address
cathy_cruz2001: don’t force yourself to do that thing
painslayer: ok, then i will not do it
painslayer: you see, every time i spend money, i have to force myself
cathy_cruz2001: the important thing is not that private you are the one that important in me ok
cathy_cruz2001: ok
cathy_cruz2001: dear don’t do
painslayer: ok, i get it. but i am all excited now. i think i want to do it.
cathy_cruz2001: its not important
painslayer: yes, i am positive. i want to see those beauties of yours
cathy_cruz2001: the important thing is that you well stay w/ me
painslayer: how much is the room?
cathy_cruz2001: i want to show you
painslayer: why do you want to show me?
cathy_cruz2001: but like what I’ve said i cant pay the room i only pay for the cafe
cathy_cruz2001: the room here is expensive
painslayer: how much?
cathy_cruz2001: i just want to give you the best thing that can made you happy
painslayer: the best thing is not something you can give me over internet, you know...
cathy_cruz2001: yes i know
cathy_cruz2001: i don’t know dear the price
cathy_cruz2001: but if you can give the rent for the room i well budget the money
cathy_cruz2001: that’s why i like you
painslayer: if you cant tell me how much, how can i send you money? does not make sense
cathy_cruz2001: i just wanted to make you happy
painslayer: another thing. how can i be sure that after i give you the money, i will actually see the "goods"
cathy_cruz2001: its up to you dear i have some money too
cathy_cruz2001: i think i can add my money and your money to pay for the room
painslayer: great. Tell me how much you need. Of course, I will have to verify this directly with the cafe
painslayer: give me the phone number of the cafe. i will arrange things directly with them
cathy_cruz2001: of course you well see me
cathy_cruz2001: coz if im not true w my promised nobody could trust me
cathy_cruz2001: they well not be able too talk to me
painslayer: sorry, i did not understand the last sentence
painslayer: can i talk directly to the cafe people?
cathy_cruz2001: coz when you send me that money you well know my name and after you well know my name
cathy_cruz2001: and address
cathy_cruz2001: maybe you well tell to the police
painslayer: yeh and ...
cathy_cruz2001: ok
cathy_cruz2001: i well try
painslayer: i am ready to go to bed, dear. just tell me how much and the phone number of the cafe.
cathy_cruz2001: but dear this is not the cafe that have private the other cafe
painslayer: what other cafe, dear?
cathy_cruz2001: i need to go there and ask how much can you wait me i well be back
painslayer: ok, i will be here
cathy_cruz2001: i well go there and ask them how much
cathy_cruz2001: ok bye for now
painslayer: bye
cathy_cruz2001: i well go to the other cafe and ask how much

... in response to another scammer, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

This little number sounds like she has the idea that Western men think with the little head and have too much cash for their own good.
She's selling and someone should be buying or she would have stopped.
:o)

... in response to Re: another scammer, posted by Mita on Apr 29, 2003

"Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing has happened." – Winston Churchill

Hi Mita

I thought the board could use this on the last word on scamming.  LOL

... in response to another scammer, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

[This message has been edited by SteveG]

Painslayer,
 I think you will be money ahead to stay clear of chat rooms to meet Filipinas.   It's fast and easy therefore this type woman is going to be much more representative of what you will meet.   Yeah, you went along with her but like you said, she brought it up.  Even the wilder Filipinas(the 'Liberated Women' as they say) that I have known would never talk like that to someone they have only had one previous conversation with.  

 Just ignore the name calling here.  You will be labeled a "Troll" by some anytime you say something unpopular no matter what your motives were for posting it.  Who cares what they think?  LOL  I sure don't.

                               SteveG

... in response to Re: another scammer, posted by SteveG on Apr 28, 2003

Thank you Steve for your kind response and for having a sense of humor. My impression was the similar: girls that use chat rooms are out for a "fast catch." Many are with children. Some are simply old. What do you think of those "tours" that purport to introduce you to country women? Is it worth the money? painslayer

... in response to Re: Re: another scammer, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

Pain,

Those introduction tours are illegal under Philippine law. I would recommend staying away from them.

Ray

... in response to another scammer, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

Sounds like you are more interested in beating your meat than finding a wife.  Scammed?  What? She was gonna charge you too much to show you her tits?

... in response to What a pervert, posted by lswote on Apr 28, 2003

come on, guys. take it easy on me. although beating my meat may be fun from time to time, the reason i posted this exchange was to warn others about this woman. i must admit i did play along to see where she would take me. i think that aside from actually meeting the person, testing her (going along with her) is a good way to see if the person is seious. i must agree with others that you guys are way too harsh on each other. this probably prevents a lot of good people from posting important information regarding PH girls. your loss. by the way, she did return later to tell me that it would cost me $50 to  see the goodies. well, i can go to a local nudy bar and get this (live!) for 6 bucks. so, rest assured, the deal is off. thank you for your support...

... in response to another scammer, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

I don't know... Sounds like some pervert trying for some cyber sex. What, you want it for free?

Ray

... in response to Another Troll?, posted by Ray on Apr 28, 2003

you totally missed the point here, ray. i do not NEED it (free or otherwise). what i need is to check the person out so that i do not waste my time chatting with her every night. "playing along" (if you read the exchange carefully, you would see that she was the one to initiate this whole thing with boobs, i only followed) is a sure way to probe the "real" person. why, you would rather cut her off and talk about how much you love her (which would not be true anyway)? ok, you do it -- spend time and money only to find yourself in a foreign country with a gf pregnant from somebody else (see the new message above mine). why can't you be nice to people on this forum? where does all this aggression come from? really, try to be kind. if we are to exchange messages freely (without being bashed all the time), we need to tone down a bit, i think. God bless you all...

... in response to Re: Another Troll?, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

Sorry bud, but you started the exchange when you asked her:

"painslayer: are you sure? whatever i want? are you like totally submissive?"

Then you go on to say:

"painslayer: you did not answer my question. remember? you are supposed to follow my wishes (at least for now)"

You are a real low life.  Go away and don't come back.

... in response to Disgusting, posted by lswote on Apr 28, 2003

it was not meant to be scrutinized. if you can't have a good laugh without being mean, you are a boring idiot. and a rude one too. no wonder you have all these troubles.

... in response to Re: Disgusting, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

Oh, so this was for a laugh?  Not to warn of us of a scam but to make us laugh. I see ... well it wasn't funny.  When you accuse someone of something I think it does deserve to be scrutinized.  And I wasn't aware I had any troubles.  When did I ever post any?  Or is that a line you learned to say to people picking on you?

... in response to Re: Re: Disgusting, posted by lswote on Apr 29, 2003

You exude bad energy, mister. This IS the trouble.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Disgusting, posted by painslayer on Apr 29, 2003

Apparently not ENOUGH bad energy, because you keep coming back.

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Disgusting, posted by lswote on Apr 30, 2003

at least you admit being an ***hole...

... in response to Re: Another Troll?, posted by painslayer on Apr 28, 2003

No, I didn’t miss the point at all. From your little chat transcript, it was obvious that YOU were the one pushing the sex thing. You were soliciting her. You can call it “playing along” if you want, but to me and probably to her also, you simply sounded like some pervert trying to get your jollies. From here it sure sounds like she was only “playing along” with you. When she tried to drop the subject, you kept pushing it.

Personally, I really don’t care to hear about your cock and your credit card. This is NOT an example of a typical scam that guys should watch out for. If you expect people here to be kind and nice to you, may I suggest that you introduce yourself properly and start over again. We don’t know anything about you except that you credit card and your cock are ready... ROFLMAO!

Peace,

Ray

... in response to Re: Re: Another Troll?, posted by Ray on Apr 28, 2003

Hey Ray

I glad your holding back and not telling him what you really rhink LOL

I laughted so much I was crying.

I had a bad day today, after reading this post the day wansn't so bad after all.