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Title: We all got sad stories. Need some advice Post by: Surigao Ken on December 10, 2002, 05:00:00 AM We all experience pain. To make a long story short, my wife's cousin from the P.I. married a loser who arranged a quick civil marriage, took her virginity, promised to come back with the full blown Catholic ceremony, and then dumped her. His reason? She didn't speak English good enough. She speaks excellent english by the way. Well, I'm trying to do something about this. Any ideas? Thanks Title: Re: We all got sad stories. Need some advice Post by: Frank2002 on December 12, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to We all got sad stories. Need some advice, posted by Surigao Ken on Dec 10, 2002
which part of Canada does he live? Meaning city, address, basement apartment #,and Postal code Title: Re: Re: We all got sad stories. Need some advice Post by: Surigao Ken on December 12, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: We all got sad stories. Need some ad..., posted by Frank2002 on Dec 12, 2002
Not sure. I'm only doing this to help my cousin and get him to pay for the divorce. His profile is on Cherry Blossums if you want to look at my eariler post. Take care, Title: Thanks for the advice Post by: Surigao Ken on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to We all got sad stories. Need some advice, posted by Surigao Ken on Dec 10, 2002
Hey guys, On my little problem I have sent some emails to the Philippine Bureau of Immigration and Deportation and one to Cherry Blossoms about this loser who preys on unsuspecting women. Take care all! Surigao Ken Title: Re: We all got sad stories. Need some advice Post by: Mita on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to We all got sad stories. Need some advice, posted by Surigao Ken on Dec 10, 2002
First of all, report him to the BID. There must be some law that will ban him from ever returning to the country and fooling another Filipina. Can't the Canadian embassy help in suing the guy and making him pay for what he did? She can also go to Sen. Loren Legarda for help in seeing that the guy is made to pay. All Philippine senators' email are available online. Title: Re: Re: We all got sad stories. Need some advice Post by: Surigao Ken on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: We all got sad stories. Need some ad..., posted by Mita on Dec 11, 2002
Thanks, My wife told her cousin about the Senator and i have emailed the BID. Thanks, Title: This experience is another fodder for Loren.... Post by: Carr on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: We all got sad stories. Need some ad..., posted by Mita on Dec 11, 2002
...to make her case against MOB agencies. Title: And.... Post by: Dave H on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to This experience is another fodder for Lo..., posted by Carr on Dec 11, 2002
Hi C, Right you are! I'm sure Loren will want to take it out on Kanos in general. Did you ever wonder if Bill Clinton sexually harassed GMA in college? Dave H. Title: Re: This experience is fodder for Loren.... Post by: Patrick on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to This experience is another fodder for Lo..., posted by Carr on Dec 11, 2002
I wouldn't say this is a poor reflection on agencies. They simply gather clients from both sides who are interested in meeting and marrying. There are good people and bad people everywhere, including those who use agencies. We all have to make judgements about those we get involved with and expecting an agency to determine someone's character for us is not realistic IMHO. I do think it's the women rather than the men who are taking the biggest risk though. Being a forum primarily for men, this place tends to dwell on the risks for the men much more than for the women. It's the women who tend to be younger and more naive. It's tough to have good judgement when you're inexperienced. Title: True But.... Post by: Humabdos on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: This experience is fodder for Loren...., posted by Patrick on Dec 11, 2002
A lot of these "young women" are trained by expert green card con artist in the Philippines who are very experienced in deception and swindling money out of their Penpals. It is very very well known information in the Philippines even to an 18 year old with dollar signs in her eyes. But lets not forget like Shadow said and I have seen myself their seems to be a very large number of strange bizarre American men going to the Philippines looking to buy a wife. So both are really taking a big risk. Take a look on Maganak at the recent case over there! WOW!!!! Hum Title: Re: We all got sad stories. Need some advice Post by: outwest77 on December 10, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to We all got sad stories. Need some advice, posted by Surigao Ken on Dec 10, 2002
Do you need an annulment if you are not married by the church in the phils, i would think annulment would not be that difficult on the basis of fraud on his part, but i know absolutely nothing about marriage in the phils. Title: annulment. This guy is a creep! Post by: Surigao Ken on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: We all got sad stories. Need some ad..., posted by outwest77 on Dec 10, 2002
I too don't know much about this process. But the creep that married my wife's cousin wants her to pay for the annulmnet claiming he doesn't have the money. Tkae care, Title: My GOD! Post by: Howard on December 10, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to We all got sad stories. Need some advice, posted by Surigao Ken on Dec 10, 2002
Ken, That's awful! What can we do??? H Title: Re: My GOD! Post by: Surigao Ken on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to My GOD!, posted by Howard on Dec 10, 2002
How about we saddle up and pay this guy a little visit. Take care, Title: Re: Re: My GOD! Post by: GregF on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: My GOD!, posted by Surigao Ken on Dec 11, 2002
Well you always could seal him in a 55 Gal drum filled with concreat and deposit him somewhere off the continental shelf Just a though Title: Mmmmmm Post by: Surigao Ken on December 11, 2002, 05:00:00 AM ... in response to Re: Re: My GOD!, posted by GregF on Dec 11, 2002
Interesting! But won't that polute the ocean?
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