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Title: Sad News
Post by: Bear on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
Honey miscarried today.  She is so depressed.  I guess me too.  I know its not all that bad cause there will always be others but it sure would have been nice knowing it would be sooner instead of later.

Bear and Honey



Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: SingleDad318 on May 29, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Peace be with you during these troubling times.


Title: sorry to hear that
Post by: Peaches on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

n/ t


Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Jay on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Hi Bear and Honey,

Very sad to hear. Just hold each other a little closer and be strong in your faith.

Jay



Title: Very sad
Post by: Jimbo on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Bear, we know your love will give her good comfort and support in her time of grief, and we look forward to hearing a happier story in the future.

Jim and Sally



Title: Hang in there big guy,
Post by: Jeff S on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

... and give Honey lots of love. Best wishes for many future blessings.

-- Jeff S.



Title: God Works in Mystery Ways...
Post by: greg on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

God has a blessing in store for You Both. God Bless, greg and gregory


Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Windmill Boy on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Bear and  Honey

I'm   sorry  to  hear  about  your  recent  loss  may  god be with  ytou  during  these trying  times  and  even  bring  you  closere  together.

Windmill Boy



Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Febtember on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Hi Bear and Honey,
I'm so sorry.I lost my mind when I read about Honey's miscarriage.It made me cry coz I remember my recent miscarriage.It's been real hard to cope up with that situation.It made me feel more depressed.I know I never fully recover yet.There are times that I feel depressed and never care about myself.I feel like I want to kill myself.I feel so terrible and keep crying.I been crying many nights and everytime I open my mail and recieved from baby center e-mail telling me about how big is my baby this week.Good that I was able to unsubcribe those page.Not only those but lot's of things remind me.
My O/B say that 15 to 25 percent in first pregnancy end up to normal miscarriage but sometimes I  ask myself  why their were lot's of woman whom got pregnant try all their best just to abort the baby but the baby survive and why mom who care so much for her baby they loss them.
Honey give your self time to grief it's normal.Pray a lot and make yourself busy.It's not easy to lost an angel.It made us upset,and very angry.
Raquel


Title: Re: Re: Sad News
Post by: Dave H on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sad News, posted by Febtember on May 28, 2002

Hi Raquel,

We are sorry that things are still very difficult for you. What Stefang wrote below was very beautiful. I have also heard that when a child is lost, they often come back to you as a new baby. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dave and Marife H.



Title: For Honey and Febtember
Post by: stefang on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Sad News, posted by Febtember on May 28, 2002

Remember that God works in ways that we cannot understand. I think God needs Angels in Heaven so he takes babies from true believers with big hearts. Feb and Honey you now both have Angels watching over you and God will bless you both with many future children.
Febtember he has felt your suffering and when you cry he cries. This is maybe why you have recieved so much rain because the heavens cry for you. You need to start to feel better so the sun will shine and he can bless you with another child. It is none of your fault for you gave love to your future children but God had a more important job for them. Hopefully you both will start to heal and feel better.  Same for the husbands who also feel the grief of the loss.


Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Kreeger on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Sorry about your loss. Hang tough and stay strong.


Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Howard on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Oh guys,

I am so sorry to hear this.  I know you'll be able to put everything is perspective, but I feel so bad for the two of you!

If there's anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask!

Keep the Faith

H



Title: Our Condolences and Prayers
Post by: Dave H on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Hi Honey and Bear,

We are very sad to here this news. As Don said, it is very common with the first pregnancy. I know that it doesn't make it any easier, but Marife's two cousins both miscarried about a year ago and now have babies. It won't be long before you are holding your "bundles" of joy. Marife says that Honey will have 10 kids. ;o) I don't know where she got that? You are in our prayers.

Dave and Marife H.



Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: may10 on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

God grants our wishes and prayers at the RIGHT TIME.

Sometimes we think what we really really want is finally in front of us.  And then....we find out,  it is not meant to be.  Only HE knows the reasons why.

Think of it this way,  imagine how more special and precious your little one will be when the right time finally comes.  *s*

Give Honey a hug for me and here's another for you, Bear.



Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: SteveB on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Sorry to hear this bear and honey,,you will be in our prayers,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

steveb and julietb



Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: outwest77 on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

condolences to you bear, im sure she is very upset,
it may not be the same as losing a child , mentally, but
its almost the same in many womens mind.


Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: The Walker on May 28, 2002, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Sad News, posted by Bear on May 28, 2002

Sorry to hear it. Press on. Have her checked thoroughly by an OB/GYN. This seems to happen to Filipinas a lot who come to America, from what I have read off and on. Usually it takes two or three tries, but after the first successful one, they usually have no more trouble.

-Don and VICKY