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Title: Leaving today sending her home tommorow
Post by: Frank O on June 08, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
Well guys another crashes & burns. I didn't heed red flags & have NO ONE to blame but myself. THanks for all the advice & input guys. I pray no one goes through what I went through. By Friday she'll be in Ukraine with her family barring her missing a flight in London Gatwick. At least I can say I DID fight & TRY to make it work but it takes 2 to tango. Thank again guys!!


Title: Re: sending her home tommorow
Post by: Rags on June 09, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Leaving today sending her home tommorow, posted by Frank O on Jun 8, 2005

Sorry that things didn't go as you had hoped. You are a brave guy hanging all that dirty laundry out for all to see but hopefully it will make somebody else stop and think. Good luck in he future as I know that you will ride again someday.



Title: Re: Leaving today sending her home tommorow
Post by: Streetwise on June 09, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Leaving today sending her home tommorow, posted by Frank O on Jun 8, 2005

I'm very sorry to hear it, Frank.

Don't mean to pry, but did you give her the $9000 in the end? I know it's early days yet but do you think could face going the FSU route again in the future?



Title: No to the $9K & yes to going again. NT
Post by: Frank O on June 10, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Re: Leaving today sending her home tommo..., posted by Streetwise on Jun 9, 2005

NT


Title: Glad to hear it!!!!
Post by: Streetwise on June 10, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to No to the $9K & yes to going again. ..., posted by Frank O on Jun 10, 2005

N/T


Title: Re: No to the $9K & yes to going again. NT
Post by: Jwood66 on June 10, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to No to the $9K & yes to going again. ..., posted by Frank O on Jun 10, 2005

Hey Frank.... way to go...success is a state of mind, as long as your able to do it why not.... looking at it as just a trial run is the way to go....I know how you feel.....Good Luck Next Time


Title: Re: Leaving today sending her home tommorow
Post by: lawcom on June 09, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Leaving today sending her home tommorow, posted by Frank O on Jun 8, 2005

Probably would've been a good idea to file for an annulment, have her sign a Waiver, and sign the Decree of Annulment itself before she left.  

In Texas, you could have begun and finalized the entire process in one day.



Title: What hoops did you go through?
Post by: Bobby Orr on June 08, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Leaving today sending her home tommorow, posted by Frank O on Jun 8, 2005

Any details you could share on how you ended up getting rid of your ill intentioned bride?


Title: The ones that got away...
Post by: TwoBitBandit on June 08, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to Leaving today sending her home tommorow, posted by Frank O on Jun 8, 2005

Frank, sorry to hear about how it has worked out.  I know you worked so hard to get her here and now she's leaving.

Perhaps you'd be willing to share the lessons you learned for those of us that are 'uninitiated'?  What are the red flags you think you ignored and what did you learn?



Title: I definately will soon. NT
Post by: Frank O on June 10, 2005, 04:00:00 AM
... in response to The ones that got away..., posted by TwoBitBandit on Jun 8, 2005

NT