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Hey I just had to share this with someone.  From a dating site I like to browse.  Here is what she desires in a mate.  Pay attention to the last line.  At least she is honest.  (and this was one of the better ones I might add).. Lesson Get on the Plane!!!

What are you looking for in a partner?
I'm looking for that special man that makes my eyes light up everytime I see him. I looking for a man that has a heart of gold. A man that stands on his beliefs and does not fall for anything. A man that knows what's in front of him and recognize it. He must be in order and has his plans at hand. Believing in God and family is very important to me. I love a leader and I embrace him with all that I have. I would like a man that can dazzle me with his love.I don't look for a certain class of a man but the quaility in the man. I like a man that has handsome features, round about 6"0 to 6"3 great body and beautiful teeth must love to smile and smell good. He must be well educated and top of the line in personality. I am a petite and small frame women that likes to be pampered. On a scale of 1-10 he must be a 10 because I'm a 10 myself. A turn on for me is a man that has money. I love turning him on with my fantasy's.

... in response to AW Don't want Much-(snicker snicker), posted by Onephd on Apr 4, 2005

Unbelieveable. Having been married to a AW and now to a Colombiana, it's a mystery to me why any AM marries an AW. Of course you can tell 'em but you can't tell 'em much. There is a certain lack of adventure and willingness to take a risk on the part of most AM so I guess they deserve what they get.

... in response to AW Don't want Much-(snicker snicker), posted by Onephd on Apr 4, 2005

She's a 5 looking for a 10.But she might land a 7 because he has no better choice if he doesn't head south.
She is the reason we do head south,those of us who have figured it out.
Reminds me of a woman I worked with who was very successfull but only a little above average in looks.She wanted a guy who not only looked good but was more successfull than her.Good luck.She finally settled for  a short bald guy who made less money than her.She got tired of waiting for the prince who was never goung to show.
Hmm,wonder what she could have found in Colombia?A guy who would leave her lots faster than the average chica.And she would have had to totally forget successfull.AND,GUYS can't fake sex!It doesn't work!

Pete

... in response to AW Don't want Much-(snicker snicker), posted by Onephd on Apr 4, 2005

"I don't look for a certain class of a man but the quaility in the man."

And then she goes on to say...

"A turn on for me is a man that has money."

Who does she think she's kidding?

... in response to AW Don't want Much-(snicker snicker), posted by Onephd on Apr 4, 2005

This is what most women think.  However there are a few who look for love first and money second.  

S.A. Just has a greater selection of women who know how to treat you.  But all women look for security.  I.e. money.

And no man wants to marry a ugly women.  Just the way it is in this world.

... in response to A turn on for me is a man that has money..., posted by Heat on Apr 4, 2005

I hear you and I agree that that’s a nice way to generalize relationships but there is more to it than that.  

First of there is a lot of ground between a Rich and having no money and an ugly woman and a beauty queen. I think most people want a combination of of some sort.

Second, I agree that this is how things are in the USA (and other places as well) but that's because we have designed it that way.  Now that brings me to a discussion that I would rather not have here and now so I won't go there.

Finally, just because that’s the way things are here doesn't mean that a man or a woman has to settle for just that.  In my opinion, any man or woman that strictly follows that thought process  is doomed to repeat the vicious cycle endless failure in relationships, not to mention never finding or being found by love. [I'm not saying or thinking that you actually meant to imply that either]

In fact most women (Latin or otherwise) want a handsome guy.  Belief in anything else is criminal.  Now North American men are exotic to them just as much as they are exotic to us.  Additionally, they (women) don't place as high of emphasis on looks as men do.

... in response to Re: A turn on for me is a man that has m..., posted by Onephd on Apr 4, 2005

Thank God they don't put as much emphasis on looks as we do, or most of us(myself included) would be out of luck!  
But, I guess the trick is finding the balance.  I wish I knew what that was.  I used to think I did, before I went through the Big D, (and I don't mean Dallas).

                               OkieMan