To sincere gentlemen that READ the board...

[Dr Aaron]

If you're a newbie, and considering to visit a marriage agency to look for a wife, becareful with the crowd of fellas you bump into during your search.

It's ok if you want to marry a woman that is good looking and/or maybe a little younger. That's fine.

As a warning, just keep in mind that some guys and girls have lost their commonsense during their search; and probably could do nothing but lead a decent, but new person astray. This goes for both men and women.

I don't want to sound self-rightous. That's not my intent. I just want to tell the truth because I've always been an upfront person all my life.

Aaron

[A1A]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

Spewing his Dr. Phil bulls@it.  It is nice to know that your knowledge of Colombian women and all the agencies is so extensive. You must have been to Colombia many, many times.
When is your next trip?  Or are you going to go back to school to become a real doctor?

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: To Dr. Aasswipe, posted by A1A on Feb 27, 2005

I think he needs to check up on that time share he bought he heard a rumor
there might be some whoring around going down at the pool he is is to talk all
the men down.

[wizard]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

one thing Aaron, you're consistent... Same song, different day...

I also give you about 3 weeks before you insult someones novia / esposa AGAIN and you have your sorry ass banned AGAIN...

PS: You still celibate??? There is a cure for that you know...

[chicagojohn]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

[This message has been edited by chicagojohn]

You are not fooling anyone. You are really a feminazi in disguise.  We all know it. Loser.

[Heat]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

Or thinks like one anyway.  A true fem-i-nazi mindset.
God forbid men should chase skirts and have fun.

Remember....you are not allowed tohave fun........

Just be happy with your short haired fat bitch...

And do not come to Colombia.. the women are ugly!!!

[Malandro]

... in response to Sincere gentlemen.. Aron is an American ..., posted by Heat on Feb 26, 2005

Darla Sue weigh near 250 I reckin.   she come over and git neked for me an my brothers.  we puts ol motor oil all over her and go to town.  heck, it is like wrestlin a greased hog in a mud puddel.  Skeeter my brother say it even better.  whiles my other brother Lil Skeeter say he got no prefrince.  

yall try and grab som of that fat and yell squeel piggy!!  and she duz too!!  she make more noise than skinnin a live wildcat with a chane saw.

yall see that movie Deliverince?  first time I seen it I thought it waz one of thos dockumentries bout North Georgea. all my kin is in that movie.  Heck, those fancy Holywood folk just tell us to be ourselfs.  we didt know we supose to git paid for a movie.  

[Locii]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

Based on your post, you might want to fall back and regroup in your thinking, because:

"It's ok if you want to marry a woman that is good looking and/or maybe a little younger. That's fine."
Ok, good, I'm glad you cleared that up for us.  Perhaps you could make a list of accaeptable and unnacceptable behavior, since most of us here have no sense of such things.

"I don't want to sound self-rightous."
You are being so...

"That's not my intent."
Great, so you are sub-consciously self-righteous,  I think thats actually worse.

"I just want to tell the truth because I've always been an upfront person all my life."
Thats even more self-righteous, since your truth (and preferences) speak only for you.

The truth is most men, encountering available and pleasant (what a concept!) foreign females, will embark on some skirt-chasing.  The extent of this is variable...and it seems that divorced men are the worst (best!) at it.  Nothing like a few years of solitary confinement to make you appreciate the sunshine.

If you really want to be a shepherd, you might find goats more  predictable than 'newbies'.  Goats also have a higher spot price in the market than 'newbie pelts'.

Ciao

[doombug]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

The Peruvian Andes might be a suitable starting place for your own bride search.  You seem already naturally acclimatized to such altitudes, judging by the lofty manner in which you hand down advice to the lurking newbs.

[Serenade]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

Doc,

I must admit that I agree with you somewhat. I have only been to Colombia once last Sept. in Baq, and I saw a few of the guys jumping the gun, but to each his own. I went down there with the plan to meet several women, narrow it down to a handful I felt the most chemistry and compatibility with, and go from there. I ended up keeping in contact with four, but after a few weeks I decided to focus on one (Zayne), and we have been getting to know each other through emails and phone calls. I am going back March 22nd to see her and meet her family, and then we'll see where this leads. We are both excited about seeing each other again but realize we have only been together in person for a couple of days back in Sept., so we have much to learn.

I would like to know your story, or part of it anyway - I think that is how you could be most helpful to this board, relating your own experiences to help us understand why you feel the way you do about certain things. It seems as if you have rubbed some guys the wrong way, but that doesn't bother me - I find your posts more interesting than another ad nauseam post about misspelled words (yawn).

[Dr Aaron]

... in response to Re: To sincere gentlemen that READ the b..., posted by Serenade on Feb 26, 2005

No need to call me Doc.. Just use Aaron. I hope everything works out with your lady friend.

I found out on my first trip the nature of this process. From my experience, a guy or gal can never be too cautious, too private, and show too much self-respect when courting someone. Also, a big mistake a person can make is to listen to outside chatter from other people. If you want and have a girlfriend, focus on her totally and completely. No one else. There's no need to invite other people into your own business, or listen to what other's are doing. This is a very good approach when searching in the agencies, and it really is how many sincere latinas approach their relationships.

Aaron

[Neil]

... in response to Thanks Serenade..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 27, 2005

"No need to call me Doc.. Just use Aaron"

Then why do you call yourself Doc?  Are you in the clinic?

[Brandon2253]

... in response to To sincere gentlemen that READ the board..., posted by Dr Aaron on Feb 25, 2005

I really think people should stop taking everything so personal.  If you think someone is arrogant, or someone is this or that, I think that should be kept to yourself.  All this bickering amoung people really takes away from the point of this website.  To people new to this website, they come and see these pointless messages, and will never look here again.  Nothing of substance is posted when people are insulting one another.  

Maybe I will get criticized for this post?  I guess I will wait and see.  I believe that if someone acts like an idiot here, the best thing to do is ignore them.

Just my two cents.

Brandon

[soltero]

... in response to THIS IS DUMB, posted by Brandon2253 on Feb 25, 2005

Brandon, this is not a criticism, but there are varying levels of posters here. It makes perfect sense that while some are asking questions and looking for answers, there are others that may be a little further along that have other things to discuss while still enjoying the comaraderie of a select few who have traveled (or are still travelling) the same or a similar path. You don't need a forum for newbies...all you need is a FAQ or an email address for online support at Latinas R'Us...A forum is by design an area for discussion, and when discussions are presented, so to are opinions, and everyone has one. What may seem dumb to you may have made perfect sense to the person who posted it, and others wil respond to it for their own reasons as well. What do you expect the people who have been doing this for years to do while patiently waiting to answer your questions? Whatever they want within the confines of the rules and regulations of the forum. "Can't we all just get along?" sounds great, but if we did all the time, there wouldn't be many people here answering those "newbie" questions, (because that would be pretty boring) now would there? Part of the release of tension of waiting for wives and girlfriends to get here is in some of those seemingly silly arguments...

[Brandon2253]

... in response to Re: THIS IS DUMB, posted by soltero on Feb 25, 2005

Yes, I guess you could say I am a newbie.  But I am an atypical newbie.  I will be in Medellin y Manizales March 17- March 27 and I will post reports if that is what people desire.  I just think that some of the arguments are ridiculously ridiculous (Im a little borracho at the moment).  Anyways, I cant wait for my trip, and I have posted a few questions and I thank people for their replies.  I just seems like lately people have gotten really far from the point of this board.  Thanks to everyone!
Brandon