Withdrawal Symptoms

[OkieMan]

... in response to Problem with "Reality" shows, posted by Pete E on Feb 14, 2005

Pete,
You had a lot of good points.  There are many ways to handle that, but I must admit; I hate most of these so-called "reality" shows too!  They are very phoney.  However, since we are all into the latinas, I just thought it would be better than looking at the ditsy AW! Besides, it would be a great way to make some big bucks and get to go the the award shows and say things like: "I want to thank my producer, my director, my kindergarten teacher, blah, blah, blah"! ha ha

                             OkieMan

[doombug]

... in response to Re: Withdrawal Symptoms, posted by utopiacowboy on Feb 13, 2005

"And the craziest thing about all of it is, if you try to tell these guys what you've experienced, they just don't seem to be interested. I don't know what it is."

I've tried to be persuasive about the subject at my work with my male colleagues, but they don't get it.  They have a look of utter ambivalence.  It's as if they've already been thoroughly brainwashed to hold out hope for the AW, to have faith that their obesity, materialism and feminism is something that'll soon pass.

It's a shame.  A lot of these guys seemed to have given up.  It's as if they could care less that they'll remain on this earth isolated from romance, committed to nothing more than their work, family, or friends.  I swear, if they'd spend just one day in one of these LA cities, they'd experience a rebirth of hormones.  The vitality is a vacation in itself.  

Within a few minutes or hours of debarking from the plane, the primal urge to pursue a woman is one of the first things to return.  And the freedom to do so, without the nagging ethos of the feminists weighing you down, is LIBERATING!  The sense can be equated to that of leaving the military after serving your contract, or I suspect that which a convict feels after finally leaving prison, or your last day of high school, or first bicycle ride.

In the mind of many AW's is this belief that most of us go to foreign countries to find a woman because we are luckless, lacking, or losers.  But what working man could simply not hire a hooker if he wanted to satisfy a simple need?  It is more than just a PHYSICAL thing; it is a desire to feel appreciated and loved, and a desire to return it in equal amounts to someone who is genuine.  The AW feminists--having lost their faith in love (except maybe that which they ascribe to their family or work) and replaced it with bitterness--view our desire for love as artificial or insignificant.    

It's a funny irony to be among a group of revolutionaries  (who could deny what we are revolting against?) who are so underestimated.  The AW feminists think we do it out of desperation or perversion, when it is they who have wrought this desire, this urge to go abroad, to find women greater than them in nearly every respect.  Oprah and Dr. Phil can feed their egos, while "Desperate House Wives" and "Sex in the City" fill their fantasies, but it is the right of every male to not just sit by and pass the popcorn.  

While they feed their fantasy, go get your reality!

Peace out!

[Hoda]

... in response to They're still wallowing in feminist quic..., posted by doombug on Feb 13, 2005


from the PL congregation....Halelujah!!!!!

[Looking4Wife]

... in response to They're still wallowing in feminist quic..., posted by doombug on Feb 13, 2005

"It is more than just a PHYSICAL thing; it is a desire to feel appreciated and loved, and a desire to return it in equal amounts to someone who is genuine."

I usually don't read most of the "Anti AW" posts, but I'm glad I read this one.  Your post was riddled with so many well-said and/or hilarious quotes, that I had to highlight at least one :-)

I actually dated a beautiful AW recently who made me feel appreciated, loved, affectionate, and we enjoyed each other's company immensely.  Only one problem... she was literally tormented by her own insecurity and insane jealousy... to the point of being psycho.  I still miss her, at least one of her personalities... :-)

The other AW's (all gorgeous) I've dated recently had the unproductive combination of being self-absorbed and/or financially oportunistic.  Yet people are telling me not to go to LA because the women are financially oportunistic...

One more thing...   Now I'm not Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington, but I have been blessed that a certain percentage of gorgeous women do find me extremely attractive... the larger percentage maybe not so much :-)  
I have a close friend who is 20 years old.  This guy REALLY is like a Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington, although he is very modest.  I have been out looking for girls with him and seen women react (virtually flock) to him in several settings.  Yet he has almost the same IDENTICAL complaints about relationships that I do.  He says most women wouldn't know love if it hit them in the head.

[OkieMan]

... in response to Amen, brother :-), posted by Looking4Wife on Feb 14, 2005

Looking4Wife,
Also excellent post.  Just to show those crazy AW, I think I will get some major plastic surgery so I can look like Brad Pitt.   That way, I can get married and then divorced from a horse faced, flat-chested AW like Ms. Aniston!   Then, I will go to all the beaches in LA and let all of the latinas chase me, have unbridled passion, father 50 illigetimate children, and die with a smile on my face!  Uh-oh, looks like I turned into a pyscho too!  ha ha

                                OkieMan

[pablo]

... in response to They're still wallowing in feminist quic..., posted by doombug on Feb 13, 2005

I said n/t.

[pablo]

... in response to Re: Withdrawal Symptoms, posted by utopiacowboy on Feb 13, 2005


Cowboy,

I think some of the guys that feign disinterest are in fact jealous.  One good friend seemed to be irritated with me being in Colombia.  He is turned off by the available women here and has almost resigned himself to the single life rather than pursue one of the many beautiful Latinas in SA.  He was happy as a clam in a past relationship with an AW but when that relationship failed he became even more set in his cynical bachelor ways.  One the other hand, I showed a few photos to another buddy and he can't wait to visit me later this year in Colombia.

[OkieMan]

... in response to Re: Re: Withdrawal Symptoms, posted by pablo on Feb 13, 2005

Pablo,
 A picture says a thousand words, etc, etc.

                          OkieMan

[OkieMan]

... in response to Withdrawal Symptoms, posted by pablo on Feb 13, 2005

Pablo,
I don't want to butt into your personal business, but it is obvious that you did not want to come back to the good ole US of A. So, did this trip have something to do with your visa requirements?  It is my understanding that you guys who live down there, have to come up for air, ever now and then, right?  Hopefully, you have some family members that you can visit with as well.  At any rate, are you already back in latina land, or not?  Any updates on the young ladies that you told me about?  We all love a good story.  It keeps me sane until I can travel to Colombia myself.

                             OkieMan

[pablo]

... in response to Re: Withdrawal Symptoms, posted by OkieMan on Feb 13, 2005


Hey OM,

I'm definitely not in paradise at the moment.  Yep, had to come back for a short while to take care of some matters.  One being trying to obtain a different type of visa other than the tourist one I was using.  The maximum amount of time allowed is six months (two upon arrival, with up to four-one month extensions through DAS).  Securing a resident visa will give me greater flexibility and the ability to stay as long as I want.  A number of posters living in Colombia have these permanent visas...a much better option.

There are many nice things about the US, many that I used to take granted for, but a plethora of babes unfortunately isn't one of them.

No new news to share on the novia front other than now I'm having to keep in touch via email, web cam or the occasional telephone call, very poor substitutes for actually being there.

BTW, some unsolicited advice regarding your upcoming trip to Cali, since you haven't met the lady you are communicating with now it might be a good idea to contact a few other ladies just in case it doesn't work out as you hope.  It will also give you an opportunity and provide you with more choices.  I hope you decide to do a detour from Cali to check out the lovely Paisas.  It would be nice meeting up with you.

Pablo