A sexy 10 or a nice 8

[Pete E]

... in response to A sexy  10    or  a nice  8  , posted by cabocancun on Feb 4, 2005

Let me adjust your numbers to reality then answer.
There are no 10's.Thats a theoretical maximum,a composite of all the best attributes a girl could have.
So your hot girl is 9 max.I have never seen over  a 9 here,but I rate tough.But she is still trouble unless you are an 9 yourself,and if you were you wouldn't have gotten around to looking here you would be too busy at home.
So go for the 7-8  girl if you are taking her back,still very good looking,but find one who loves you.Then she won't be on a plane the first  snowfall,or going for the first good looking gringo to pay attention to her,or trading you in for the guy with more money than you.
There is what you can get and what you can keep.Not knowing the difference puts you in for a big fall,not fun at all.But I have seen guys say hey,it was worth it.One of our posters here says that about his super hot ex.

Pete

[Bubba]

... in response to A sexy  10    or  a nice  8  , posted by cabocancun on Feb 4, 2005

People have different views but for a woman to be a 10 with me she would have to have a LOT of special qualities that are more than looks.  If I rated a woman a 10 then I would NEVER have ANY doubts about her wanting to leave later on. If I had one I though that about she would be a 4.

[Mazu]

... in response to Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice  8  , posted by Bubba on Feb 4, 2005

I am on Bubba with this one. I don't rate based just on looks. Yes. I say a girl is a 10 but if she is a 10 in looks and 10 in personality of course I would choose her. The girl I am seeing now is an 8 in the face, 9.5 in the body and 9 in personality. How can I look elsewhere. For that 10, 10, 10. That is just stupid.

[cabocancun]

... in response to Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice  8  , posted by Bubba on Feb 4, 2005

I am just talking about looks at this point.
For Pete's sake,I will say 9.5.
As you know 50% of marriages end in divorce.
I am wondering if a more beautiful woman is more likely to stray or if the benefits are worth the additional risk,if any.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice  8  , posted by Bubba on Feb 4, 2005

We are talking looks in the 10 point rating system.Other qualities,although very important and effect overall desirability are seperate.So the good person 4 does not become a 10,the snake of a 9.5 does not become a 4.

Pete

[cabocancun]

... in response to Re: Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice  8  , posted by Pete E on Feb 4, 2005

Pete,

Your right. I am talking about looks.
O.K.,let's say physically she is flawless,but let's be conservative and say she is a 9.5.
Would you agree that a younger,more beautiful Colombiana has more options when she gets here?
Is it worth the risk?

[Chris F]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice  8 ..., posted by cabocancun on Feb 4, 2005

Just a few comments to your post.

"O.K.,let's say physically she is flawless"

Sorry.....there is no such thing..you can always find flaws with somebody physically...no matter how small...this goes for women and men......

"Would you agree that a younger,more beautiful Colombiana has more options when she gets here?"

The younger she is....the more risky it is once you get her here......if she is 21..she is still in many ways a girl, not a woman....she still needs to "mature" and become a woman.  Guys who bring "girls" over here as wives are in a high risk of failure category. And if you are under the belief that a South American women who is 21 is more "mature" then a 21 year old here in the states, you are wrong. They are still 21 and growing up no matter what country they are from.

[soltero]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice  8 ..., posted by cabocancun on Feb 4, 2005

You have to be real and agree with Pete. Unless you are a 9.5 as well, she will more than likely stray. It won't be her looks anyway that will make her stray, they just give her more of an opportunity. If she is a good person, she will remain a good person. Finding that out takes time. I would say keep them both until you no longer have to ask.

[Looking4Wife]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: A sexy  10    or  a nice..., posted by soltero on Feb 4, 2005


My comments were phrased differently, but you captured the gist of what I said.  Had I read your post first, it might have saved me some time :-)

[soltero]

... in response to I think we're on the same page... again ..., posted by Looking4Wife on Feb 4, 2005

We do tend to agree, but your perspective included some things I left out. I guess we have to both start reading each other's posts before we put our two cents in if we are going to be "posting twins" (smile)...