Ever surprised your girlfriend in Colombia?

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Terrible Experience at LE, posted by OkieMan on Feb 8, 2005

I don't know how you could call that a scam. The family was being up front and honest.

Give me a thousand bucks or you won't see my daugther.

Never break rule #1 and even if you are getting it on a regular basis don't be a chump. A thousand buck a month should get you a super model quality woman in Cali not something you are normally going to find in a marriage agency.

[Margareth Mayor]

... in response to If ANY doubt,check her out, posted by Pete E on Feb 6, 2005

Hi,
It's very sad to know how good and honest older men are deceived by young ladies.  What I want to say is that it's not because they are Colombian it's just a natural law that youth attracts youth.  In Colombia there is a big porcentage of irresponsible paternity and the women grow up unconciously looking for a father's figure in their lives, that is the reason why some older men find young beautiful ladies but of course it's not always the same case.  Some young ladies take advantage of older men to get all the money they want and to live like queens enjoying their money with handsome young Colombian guys,
I know they are liers but mature men should be wise (and realistic) enough to know that a young beautiful 19 year old is not going to be serious with somebody that could be her own father.
I don't mean to hurt somebody's feelings but I guess somebody has to say the truth in this particular case,
Margareth

[OkieMan]

... in response to Hello my friends, posted by Margareth Mayor on Feb 8, 2005

Hi Margareth,
I know that it is somewhat of an issue, concerning the fact that some older american men like me (51) are chasing after girls that are in their late teens or early 20's.  Speaking for myself, I am wanting a real relationship, not just a fling.  I am also a realist.  Even though I might could impress a young girl for a short time; at least enough time to have sex with her.  But, I realize that she and I would have no solid future.  Besides that, I have three grown sons. My sons know that I am looking for a latina wife.  But, they would flip out if I tried to bring home a "teenage" bride, or someone close to that age.  My youngest son just turned 19.  So, I guess it has to be to each his own, but I choose not to be foolish like that.  I am attempting to start a relationship with a lady that is 35.  She is beautiful, but seems to be mature and stable.  By the way, please continue to give us the benefit of your experience.
                      OkieMan

[jediknight]

... in response to If ANY doubt,check her out, posted by Pete E on Feb 6, 2005

[This message has been edited by jediknight]

pete, you wrote.."But I had a REAL clever one who fooled me for months.Even fooled a very savy Colombiana friend of mine.I still didn't know what to believe,but again the relationship got so bad it didn't matter."

i don't know if you have gone into details in the past about this and if you have maybe you can point me to the post where you explain the situacion, but if you haven't, would you mind telling us what she did to fool you and your savy Colombiana friend? what were the doubts you had about her? how old was she and how did you finally find out? did she trip herself up with lies or did you catch her?

harleyman posted above that.."I found out after over a year that the "little brother" was my ex fiances kid and two years after we split I discovered that the "little sister" was indeed her daughter as well."

so my question to you Pete is, getting back to your situation,did you meet many or only a few family members and were they all in on the lie/deception also? or did she fool everyone?
thanks