Top 10 Signs Your Latina is Sincere?

[Looking4Wife]

I have learned a lot from the board about red flags to look out for.  Besides the voracious desire for sex, what other positive signs (green flags :-) might there be that this Latina you are seeing MAY be sincere, and worth pursuing an exlcusive relationship with?

It would be great to hear from some married guys, and guys who are currently involved, or have been involved, in exclusive relationships with Latinas...

Gracias

[Hoda]

... in response to Top 10 Signs Your Latina is Sincere?, posted by Looking4Wife on Jan 22, 2005


Y'all know what I'm talking 'bout :-)

Open the car door for her first, allow her to sit then close the door. You, now walk around to the other side. If she reaches over to unlock/open the door you are entering...get in! If she doesn't respond in kind....Pay the driver a 20k peso note & instruct him to take her, wherever she wants to go....

In the words of a veteran poster....LA PROXIMA!

[Pete E]

... in response to First & Foremost....She must pass th..., posted by Hoda on Jan 23, 2005

Howard,
Reminds me of an old Arsenio Hall routine.He is talking about how before a guy  has sex with a woman he is opening cars doors,lots of little niceties.After they are having sex she is standing by the door primping,waiting for him to open it.He is already in the car saying you better come on get your ass in the car.

Pete

[gkdrummer]

... in response to First & Foremost....She must pass th..., posted by Hoda on Jan 23, 2005

Wow - that is a very good way to get a feel for a ladies personality!  Not sure if I would make it a deal-breaker in going further with her, but certainly something that would ping my radar to keep my eyes wide open.  It's the little things that count!

very perceptive observation Hoda!!

[Jamie]

... in response to Top 10 Signs Your Latina is Sincere?, posted by Looking4Wife on Jan 22, 2005

“How does she introduce you to her friends and parents?”
That is a strong indicator. We had one girl tell our translator to pretend he is with you when she saw her friends approaching. An early invitation to the home is a good sign as well as a desire to introduce you to her best friend.

Asking for anything during the dating stage should be suspect. Say no to a request and see if you like her reaction.

“How willing is she spend your money? That is does she pick low price places to eat? or does she go for the gusto from day one? Does she suggests taking a bus or walking to save money? Or does she want to take a taxi for a 5 block ride?”
I don’t believe this has any bearing. When you ask people to select what they want from the menu or pick a restaurant you should not have any qualms over what they choose otherwise don’t ask or qualify your boundaries.

“Some men think this is a red flag if a woman ask for cab fare on the first meeting.”
It should be the other way around a red flag for the woman for any man that does not volunteer to pay her transportation.

She should want to hold your hand and be affectionate on her own.

She should say that you are on her mind.

She should demonstrate that she is very happy to see or hear from you.

She should want do things with you even if it is the mundane.

She should say she misses you over time.

She should do small things for you without you having to ask.

She should maintain eye contact with you at all times.

She should look like she is enjoying herself through laughter.

Later in the relationship she should talk about looking forward to having your baby and can’t wait to be with you for all time.

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[Onephd]

... in response to Re: Top 10 Signs Your Latina is Sincere?, posted by Jamie on Jan 22, 2005

“How willing is she spend your money? That is does she pick low price places to eat? or does she go for the gusto from day one? Does she suggests taking a bus or walking to save money? Or does she want to take a taxi for a 5 block ride?”

"I don’t believe this has any bearing. When you ask people to select what they want from the menu or pick a restaurant you should not have any qualms over what they choose otherwise don’t ask or qualify your boundaries."

Hey, Jamie I think we are saying the same thing (at least I hope I made that clear in my last post).  I agree with your statment about when you ask someone to order what they want etc., then you open the door for just that.

However, I was referring to when you just meet someone and decide to have lunch for while you chat and the lady suggests a 5 star restaruant right off the top rather than something practical since you two don't know if you even like each other yet.   Granted, this is a not a hardcore red flag (whatever that is), but for me, is somewhat of a turnoff.  I would be much happer if the woman selected something pracitical.  

As I said in my post, its all relative to the individual.  

And yes I too think a man should pay for transportation.

[Onephd]

... in response to Top 10 Signs Your Latina is Sincere?, posted by Looking4Wife on Jan 22, 2005

Just use some common sense.

For example:

How does she introduce you to her friends and parents?

How does she explain your relationship to them?

Requests for large amounts money should regarded as strange and suspect(large is relative for each man).  Now the trick is if yo profess your love and admiration etc. as well as how you going to give her the world, then don't be surprised if she ask for money or gifts.  

How willing is she spend your money?  That is does she pick low price places to eat? or does she go for the gusto from day one?  Does she suggests taking a bus or walking to save money?  Or does she want to take a taxi for a 5 block ride?

The thing is there are really no clear cut red flags.  Its all relative to each man.  I don't have a problem if a women is coming to meet me and needs cab fare as I think that the man should pay the cab fare.  I continue to do so when in a relationship with a woman.  Some men think this is a red flag if a woman ask for cab fare on the first meeting.  Each man is different.  

If you have dated in the US, then you know how to spot a bad woman.  The same rules apply in LA.  You just have to stop drooling long enough to pick up on them.  

As I said, just use common sense.   For example, when I went out to eat with my current lady, she suggested, Crepes and Waffales.  I asked is she wanted to go to a real reataurant, and she replied it would be more practical to go the C&W since it was our first date.  Now I remember one other lady I met on my first trip to Bogota suggested we go to Restaurant Trumonti on our first date.  This is probably the best place to go to in Bogota for sheer beauty and view.  Expensive by their standard, but no more than Applebees or TGIF's here in the US.  

Just use your common sense.  Learn from the horror stories, but also remember, red flags can be relatiive.  Some are more clear cut and obvious and hindsight is always 20/20.....