Did this Cali girl really love ?

[garster7]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Whatever, posted by surfscum on Jan 19, 2004

Your advice was the best. Thank you

[Ken2]

... in response to Re: Re: Whatever, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

I think your missing the whole point here.  It is not an easy task finding a sincere latina.  However, it is not impossible either. I ask myself repeatedly, how can a wowan justify using a man just for her citizenship just because she is poor or uneducated.  You almost have to move to their country in order to keep them from being corrupted by our culture.
I broke off a relationship with a gal after a year.  Some times you just know its the right thing to do.  
You have to think logically sometimes and leave your emotions out of it.
You better stay out of Latin America until you start thinking logically.  When you do check out Cali.

KP

[John O]

... in response to Re: Re: Whatever, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

Thanks for your posts. They're entertaining, in a soap-opera-ish kind of way, and make us all feel better about the goofy mistakes we've made around women at one time or another.

Consider it a relatively inexpensive lesson. If you've learned something important about yourself (or about women), then you've got some value out of the experience. Hopefully in the future, you'll be able to tell the story over beers & laughter.

Yes, there are countless Latinas roaming around this City of Angels. But the vast majority are Mexican & Central American. And for my money (or heart), these ladies can't compare with Colombianas in looks (Caleñas in particular), education or vivaciousness. Plus, all Latinas seem to become a little more picky once they've arrived here in Gringolandia.

(BTW, it isn't possible for an illegal to get her papers by marrying a U.S. citizen, is it?)

The trick is to find an honest, good-hearted lady who is still "unspoiled." And to do that, you may have to head down south like many of the rest of us.

Welcome to the board.

[mar33]

... in response to Life Lessons, posted by John O on Jan 19, 2004

John O,
   "All latinas(foreign women)sem to become a little bit more picky once they've arrived here in gringoland. That is true.
  "The trick is to find an honest "GOOD HEARTED" lady who is still unspoiled" Great advice!!!.
    It takes a smart man to really know the difference between a sincere good hearted woman,and one who is coniving and plays the "game". Any sign of a red flag should not be ignored. But I suspect there are men out there like garster 7 that really takes whatever a beautiful latin woman tells him at face value and ignore red flags such as lies,lack of sexual affection, greed ect. Bad attitudes they would not have tolorated had she been an AW.

[Wasp]

... in response to Re: Life Lessons...amen, posted by mar33 on Jan 19, 2004

This is so f...ed up it has to be real.

Don't ever go to Colombia. It costs $10,000 a plane ticket, and it is very, very dangerous. You'd probably be kidnapped right at the airport.

[HeyNow]

... in response to Re: Re: Life Lessons...amen, posted by Wasp on Jan 19, 2004

Wasp, I think it is more like $20,000 a ticket.  Are you listening garsten?

[garster7]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Life Lessons...amen, posted by HeyNow on Jan 20, 2004

Hey Now,

You have not managed to spell my handle correctly yet, its garster79, not airster or mester.  Zack thanks for the follow up I didnt turn my tale and run I had things to do today then I had work late into the night. And for the 100th time everyone I am NOT A TROLL. I did get married to her she was illegal and anyone can do it. I went to vegas, went to the city office to get the certificate on the application they ask if your not a citizen then check which visa you have, I told her to check that she was here on a work visa. They never asked to see it I payed the 80 dollars then we went to a chapel and got married. Her aunt was upset because she assumed it would be a civil wedding, when the preach went on about the "death do you part" etc we both felt very uncomfortable. (me and the pretend wife that is) But I thought it would play better later once we were being interviewed at the immigration office, which never happened.   Then of course later we found out there was no way I could petitiion her as my spouse since she was here illegally. She was also using a fake social security number, just one she made up, to get work. Another thing once she told me(after we were married) that she had a kid in Colombia which I didnt take very well but then the next day she said she was just kidding and had said that to test me. Very strange girl. I really dont think she thought about the consequences of her actions to clearly. Also I had a small birthday party with my friends and she was very shy and barley spoke a word to anyone, but was always self-expressive around me. Bye for now its 4:20 am and I need to get to sleep (no reference to any thing drug related met by that time, its just the time it is)Thanks and Pardon any grammer errors.

[HeyNow]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Life Lessons...to heynow..., posted by garster7 on Jan 21, 2004

If this IS true (lotta lyin goin on here) won't you be looking at jail time later.

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: Re: Life Lessons...amen, posted by Wasp on Jan 19, 2004

I would think on the airplane myself.....