Did this Cali girl really love ?

[Pappasito]

... in response to Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

Wake up,gringo!! Yo aren`t getting this woman deported anywhere,anytime... BCIS doesn`t work like that..They are supposed to,but they don`t.... Basically,once they`re in,they`re in...

[Cali vet]

... in response to Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

.

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

I hate to tell you this but you do have this but wake up. At least with
my wife we were in bed, we kissed ect ect. She felt sad? over what dude
you never did nothing but kiss. She used you plain and simple. One last
thing get her deported at least my wife stuck around until she got her
papers and then it was me that got tired of her crap.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by Fuzzyone on Jan 19, 2004

should be appaulled at this guys actions or at least his story. He tried to use the promise of a green card to get this girl in bed ,plain and simple. The only reason he is sorry now is because she couldn't go through with it.

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Fuzzyone, you of all people....., posted by Calipro on Jan 19, 2004

Actually I was not even going to reponsed to this guy until he start
talking about at least he did not waste money on a ticket to go to S.A.  
Honestly if you think about it she kind of sounds like a female Calipro. I
would like to hear her side of the story too.... I think it would be
interesting story do you think?

[garster7]

... in response to Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by Fuzzyone on Jan 19, 2004

right what I am saying is that noone seems to hear is that  I ENDED IT SHE DIDNT I KNOW IF I STUCK AROUND I DEFINTLY WOULD HAVE GOT LAID. I definilty regret that. i was protecting my feelings. So I got played back to Colombia she goes.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

HAVE YOU EVER GOTTEN LAID ? !!!!!!!!!!

And why would you wish her any harm (like getting deported)?

She tried to use you for a green card and you tried to blackmail her into having sex with you.

Sounds fair to me.

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to I have a question and it's kind of perso..., posted by Calipro on Jan 19, 2004

Trying to enforce the laws is not wishing someone harm.  It's being a responsible citizen (if the law is just, and here I think it is).  She violated the law.  She should be deported.  Granted, he was an accopmlice (if this whole smelly story is true).

Blackmail implies a threat of something bad.  I may have missed a post here, but I never saw him threaten her with anything.  If he said "I'll do this if you'll do that", that's not blackmail.

Steve

[garster7]

... in response to I have a question and it's kind of perso..., posted by Calipro on Jan 19, 2004

That is bullsh&t I didnt black mail her for anything otherwise i would have said i will only get married if we sleep together first but I didnt. I agreed to get married to her just as friends, she knew I liked her more then she liked me, she gave me a few times to backout if I wanted, I said no. BUt emotionally I couldnt stand to be around her and not be the one in her life I was too attracted to her my heart couldnt take it anymore. Eventhough she started to show affection towards me at the end I didnt believe it was genuine so I got out. I am not the kind of person to beg for it, and I have gotten laid by the way a lot.But she I wanted more then anyone I ever knew or been with before. Afterwords i felt that I made a mistake. Too late. End of story. I am moving on and trying to forget her, I have no other choice. I made it easy for her to take advantage of me so she did, but it didnt havet to be that way.

[roadken]

... in response to Re: I have a question and it's kind of p..., posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

Garster,what you offered was a felony.You offered an arranged marriage.For whatever reasons,it is a serious violation.For the rest of us who go through the immense pain of bringing our ladies here legally,I for one find it offensive.Save your rational for other a**holes like you.
Grow up and act like a man and you might find a woman who
will respect you.Guy's like you make the world harder for the real men in the world.Letting women abuse you reinforces the behavior we are rejecting when we travel south for a spouse.You get NO sympathy from me.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: I have a question and it's kind ..., posted by roadken on Jan 20, 2004

You are right! This guy got everything he deserved. He married a women that he knew did not love him or was even attracted to him for the sole purpose of trying to get in her pants. I have never seen such an extreme case of desperation in my life. The guy is a pathetic excuss for a man.

[NW Jim]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

I'd be a little careful. First, it's not that easy to get somebody deported. BCIS focuses on removing illegal aliens who have committed felonies as their first priority. Even guys whose wive's have filed false domestic violence police reports haven't had much luck with deportation, see Travis on the Russian forum. Secondly, you married her with the intent to assist with immigration fraud. That's a crime, occasionally people get prosecuted for it. Cut your losses and remember the lessons you've learned the hard way.

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

This is what I do not understand how do you think you were going to get
laid if she would not even kiss you??? If you were going to marry a
amercian woman and she would not want to kiss you would you have
gone all the way and said I do? I don't think so. What you did was got
played in your own back yard. Some of us got played at least in their
country where they could be on their best

[garster7]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by Fuzzyone on Jan 19, 2004

You are absolutly right, I would have NEVER married a girl from the us without getting laid first and knowing her really well, never thought about it that way. I am not a flamer this is real. My relatiosnhips with girls before was if I didnt get laid almost right away i would move on I guess i got tired of that thought I would try something different, always had short relationships before just sex, instead I had a short almost non-existent relaionship with no sex, not much better. Thought being from latin america she was more traditional, she was very shy. MY MISTAKE I SHOULD HAVE CHECKED THINGS OUT BEFORE. I let her beauty intrance me I learned my lesson.   It costs less then a few thousand to fly to Colombia? Didnt know.

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: cali girl really love, posted by garster7 on Jan 19, 2004

garster

You wrote:

"I ENDED IT SHE DIDNT I KNOW IF I STUCK AROUND I DEFINTLY WOULD HAVE GOT LAID."

Garster, this is a period (.).  It's not like the one your ex-wife had.  Use it to end a sentence.

The reason we didn't hear that is because you didn't say it.  If you had said it some of us might have been gullible enough to believe it.

You want me to say that you are not desperate and she had the hots for you?  Ok, I'll say it.  I guess you'll believe that, too.

Steve

PS (to the list):  Is this one of the trolls from the blog board?  I thought they would compose better flames.  This one really rambles.