Tolerate Gifts and Jealous Wife Posts and AW

[NightRaven]

O.K. guys as most of the posters here seem to have hit the high points of your posts I will keep it to specifics.
Gifts- Get this straightened out right now. Ask her if she wants the attention she is getting from these people and make it clear she has to make up her mind right NOW. IF she tells you that she does not want the attentions of these men. Then you deal with them NOW example the 3 men in your apartment bldg. You and she go there together and she tells him in front of you (and maybe a cop, depending on how YOU choose to handle this) that she wants them to BACK OFF!! NOW. If she is encouraging them on then at least they will know something is OFF here. Either way you KNOW what they have been told, if they persist then it is get serious time. Be that by you physically or putting a restraining order on "winky the wonder ****" or getting an annulment.

Jealous wife- It is a simple fact that a lot of people (esp young or unexperienced in life or just ignorant) will accuse you of what they would do given the chance. Think on that. There is NO way I will play the TWO sets of rules insanity with anyone in my life. Be those rules in my favor or thiers. I am amazed that you have let this go on for so long. Every female I have ever known who fit that description had some serious hate issues and EVERY one of them to this day goes out of her way to make his life a living hell. These are the kind of people who will turn your kids against you, use them as weapons against you and spend your child support check on anything but the children and rub your face in it.
I hate to ask this as I work with mental patients. but.  Are you F***ING CRAZY???

American Women- OK item one since my divorce I will never date let alone marry one. People wake up, why do so many "nice" people suddenly turn "different attitude?" Because they can, mainly because American Men will put up with that cra*. The laws are against you and you can vote. Get them changed. (Note: Asian companies put strict limits on the amount of time that thier female employees may work out of an office in America. Why? Think about it. They do not like what they get back)
I have a client that called me to come get her. She has a face and body that you would not believe and it is all genetic. Why did she call me? Well she made the mistake of going into a waffle house at about 2:30am for food to go. The men went "gaga" and basicly refused to let her leave without giving at least some of them a phone number and two wanted to drive her to "their place" yeah not hers theirs. They chased the cab driver OFF. I work personal security most of the time, the mental patients thing is part time. I am 6' 2" 310 lbs, 4 inch thick wrists, I carry concealed (yeah with permit) and I work with 2 American Pitbulls for cra* like that (unless I bring all of them with me LOL). As long as American Men are willing to act like that they (AW) will get thier way every time. OH the FUNNY thing is MY CLIENT IS GAY!!!!!!!!!!! Oh the waffle house owner tried to sue me because the upset drunks started a fight over who's fault I was. They totaled the place. People if you do not control it then someone else does and it is highly unlikely that they have your interests in mind.

[roadken]

... in response to Tolerate Gifts and Jealous Wife Posts an..., posted by NightRaven on Dec 21, 2003

Dude,you said it all.Guys,if you tolerate this kind of sh**,it's your own fault.Men need to act like Men.I hope we cross paths some day.The first beer is on me.

[NightRaven]

... in response to Re: Tolerate Gifts and Jealous Wife Post..., posted by roadken on Dec 22, 2003

Well maybe I said enough, but all? Nope. LOL
I will try to remember the beer if it ever happens. Cross your fingers that I am not drinking Everclear with Bud chasers. I like Everclear straight but the Bud chaser seems to help other people cope with the EC. LOL
Been awhile, I am usually "happy" when buzzed. To many idiots here (where I live now) who fall into the "drink so I will have an excuse to fight (someone who is more drunk, so I might win)" catagory.

Oh just out of curiosity. I am wondering if the posters have considered. "Am I in love, or In love with the idea of being in love?" Never, Never, Never settle for being mistreated because you are afraid of being alone. Alone and happy beats miserable by sleeping with and supporting the enemy ANY DAY OF THE WEEK. People, if your going to put up with that, save the cash and hook up locally. You may be "seperating the problems" for the rest of us but I think its costing you too much.

I dont claim to know what you guys are looking for so maybe you have found it. Me I am looking for a partner I can trust. If she is with me for any reason other than wanting to be with me then I am with the wrong woman.

Just for the record. If my ex-wife heard that someone I was dating treated me like that, she would be in a race with my sisters to "get a piece of the b**ch" first.

Oh sisters. Did I mention I have sisters and lots of female cousins AND I am the family RUNT!! LOL also the most calm and gentle, be warned LOL.

Take Care All