Novia update

[zack]

[This message has been edited by zack]

My novia and I recently decided to call it quits. It is a long story which I would rather not go into. It was mutual but painful for both of us. But who knows, we both know that we could be back together again down the road. In the meantime we will see other people but still keep in touch. I just thought I'd share this with those of you who are listening.

Zack

[John O]

... in response to Novia update, posted by zack on Dec 9, 2003

Sorry to hear the news. Congratulations, however, on your positive attitude & willingness to get back on the burro, so to speak.

You're a smart guy with lots of interesting experience to share. At some point in the future, if you want to, it would be interesting & beneficial for us to hear more about your relationship & why it didn't work out.

I think I understand your current reluctance to do so, however. After previous break-ups w/Latinas, I've gone for many weeks without posting. Talking about a recently failed relationship feels too much to me like wallowing in failure or complaining, which I'm loathe to do. I'd much rather share good news than bad.

Good luck on the next one!

[surfscum]

... in response to Novia update, posted by zack on Dec 9, 2003

Sorry to hear that. It so hard to do the right thing when it hurts. Hang in there.

[zack]

... in response to Re: Novia update, posted by surfscum on Dec 10, 2003

Thank you for the kind words.

[A1A]

... in response to Novia update, posted by zack on Dec 9, 2003

I feel your pain, I went thru the same ting a couple months back.  Time heals all wounds, take some time, and go for it again.
A1A

[zack]

... in response to Re: Novia update, posted by A1A on Dec 10, 2003

I am a long way from giving up in this endeavor. Thanks for your encouragement.

Zack