Question to Zack & others regarding Women

[roadken]

... in response to Re: Not to be a Monday morning quarterba..., posted by Michael B on Nov 9, 2003

Do not feel alone.I have been through two girlfriends and one fiancee,all of which exhibited red flags.Some sooner than others.It is difficult to start over and i have felt that pain and disgust but it is necessary.The whole reason we go south is for a woman who appreciate us( and look great) and not behave like AW.Dust yourself off,take a deep breath and go catch another one.The supply is endless.

[surfscum]

... in response to Re: Not to be a Monday morning quarterba..., posted by Michael B on Nov 9, 2003

I got a good chuckle out of that one. BTW, if you care, it's "a propos". And people complain about english spelling?

[surfscum]

... in response to part 1 of a major screw up!!, posted by Fuzzyone on Nov 9, 2003

I'm not laughing either; I've made my share of mistakes, too. Thanks for your honesty.

You say you are looking again: are you returning to Peru? Or has the experience totally turned you off to the country?

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: part 1 of a major screw up!!, posted by surfscum on Nov 9, 2003

Actually I am looking in Mexico right now. Not that I would not go back
to Peru but right now its just south of the border. I have several girls I
am writing to right now that are pretty nice. But slow is the word for it as
right now. I am sure not going to get screwed like I did the last time.
When I was in Peru what amazed me the most was there was beautiful
woman running all over the place, but I will tell you one thing learn
spanish you will need it down there.

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to part 1 of a major screw up!!, posted by Fuzzyone on Nov 9, 2003

Sorry, but that beats my train wreck of a marriage to my ex-Colombiana.  Although I was whipped, and whipped good, if I had gotten her out of my life and out of this country for 8 months there is absolutely no way I would have ever brought her back.

What did I learn from your post???  If a guy is hung up enough on a girl there is no limit to what she can do and he will still take her back.

Steve

[Calipro]

... in response to part 1 of a major screw up!!, posted by Fuzzyone on Nov 9, 2003

Your ex had no respect for you plain and simple. You gotta have respect before anything else. I can't imagine putting up with all that trouble from a 30 year old. You didn't mention anything about your intimate relationship with her. That bad, huh?

Well no wonder you're a little bitter.

Part 1 was a real tear jerker. I don't know if I can handle a part 2.

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Unbelievable!!!, posted by Calipro on Nov 9, 2003

Well part 2 will really be just a wrap up and several things I missed that
will be hard to believe but it happened. Think of it this way you think you
found that one woman who will be yours forever but in the end you find
you built your own personnel hell now figure a way out if you can.

[cancunhound]

... in response to part 1 of a major screw up!!, posted by Fuzzyone on Nov 9, 2003

No I'm not laughing nor going to bring up the "fool" word.  Thanks for sharing that info & I hope your scenario improves - I can certainly understand the bitterness.  A great sailing lesson can be learned here - any guy in the same boat should take it slowly, don't raise that spinaker after a couple of weeks of smooth sailing.  Now should a relationship require a  monitoring of emails - man overboard!!!

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Ouch!!, posted by cancunhound on Nov 9, 2003

It happens... Believe me I am in the process of looking now and it is
going to be slow going this time. No reason to rush and when I see the
red flags this time it will be see ya don't want to be ya! One last thing I
didn't lose anything to her so I guess I was lucky in that respect!

[JSlo]

... in response to Re: Ouch!!, posted by Fuzzyone on Nov 9, 2003

I admire your inner strength to share your account about the ex. Is she still in USA? I would just advise you to use that same inner strength to tell any woman to walk immediately if not sooner, if there is a suspicion of another man. Beauty can be blinding if you are not accustomed to having it around. That is why although I am not a Cali(needs-to-grow)Pro fan, I do appreciate his attitude on good looking women. This way, you are not selling your soul to keep her around if she is a stunner. More than anything, you are on the right track by getting up, dusting yourself off, and getting back on the saddle. Things will work out if you don't give up. Wishing you the best.
JSlo

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Re: Re: Ouch!!, posted by JSlo on Nov 9, 2003

Thanks

   The only thing I hope for is that anybody new here will read the stories
from guys like me that failed and will not make the same mistake. I was
pretty depressed in the beginning but you know what helped me out?
Guys like Pete printing their stories so I knew if other guys here could
get up and start over in their search I should be able to.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Ouch!!, posted by Fuzzyone on Nov 9, 2003

Plus we showed other guys  how not to do it! Some peoples only purpose seems to be to serve as a bad example(Just kidding).
We can't change the past.We did what we did.All we can do is learn from it.
Good luck in moving forward.

Pete