Ladies looking for men

[david hagar]

This is for the ladies of South America

There are many women in rural America who are looking for good men to marry them and be their husbands. In this country, it seems that the men are not wanting to live the rural life, as they once did. The women in this regions have began to look abroad for a mate and it is more prevelant than we think. We men, think that we are the only ones looking for brides abroad, but the women are also looking and finding good mail order husbands.  

Beattledog

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Ladies looking for men, posted by david hagar on Nov 9, 2003

I wish them all the luck in the world then.
Just tell them to keep looking eveywhere but where i live. I would not date an american woman if she paid me.

I am very spoiled for latin women.

[Jeff S]

... in response to Ladies looking for men, posted by david hagar on Nov 9, 2003

http://www.mailorderhusbands.net/order/

[cancunhound]

... in response to Just send them here:, posted by Jeff S on Nov 9, 2003

That's a pretty damn funny site!  I wonder if the Hans posted there is our old friend:

http://www.mailorderhusbands.net/soulmate2.html

[Patrick]

... in response to Ladies looking for men, posted by david hagar on Nov 9, 2003

I think women looking overseas have it much rougher than men.  There was one lady on the Asian board who married a Vietnamese man, but he ended up using her for a greeen card.  My thinking is that it's going to be a much more common thing with the foreign men who marry American women.  I think a man is much more likely to be looking for a ticket over than a woman, simply because they're, in general, more aggressive and more likely to be confident enough in their ability to make it here on their own.

[Ralph]

... in response to Re: Ladies looking for men, posted by Patrick on Nov 9, 2003

I frequent a board on living and traveling to the DR. Many women that travel to resorts there, fall head over heels for the smooth operating male resort workers. they are given the nicknames "sankies".

Many times it is brought up that if a woman posts about meeting and falling in love with dominican guy, she si jumped all over and told that the guy will just use her. OTOH, there are many men on the board with Dominican women as novias and esposas. The board members question the double standards.

I know the answer. Both the dominican men and dominican ladies might want to better themselves or meet a foreigner as a means to get to the US. I am sure that can be a reason for many latinas from many countries. There is one MAJOR difference though.

The other reason, and to most of the women I have met, is because EVERY dominican woman I know will complain about how the Dominican men are. Many have sworn off ever being involved with a Dominican guy! For that reason they are veryinterested in meeting foreign men that they perceive to be more faithful and better husbands.

OTOH, I have NEVER heard similar complaints from Dominican man about Dominican women. Quite opposite. They will be sleeping with as many, and going out with as many as they possibly can.

Also many Dominican women prefer dating older men. My novia is 26 and I'm 40. Her 2 previous novios were 39 and 38, so she has always been more attracted to older men as they seem more stable and less likely to be machisto or cheat on them. Dominican guys on the other hand never look for women much older than them. I have never seen a dominican guy with a wife that was 10-15 years older etc.

So if a Dominican woman is interested in an older, foreign man she can give some valid reasons besides, money/residency. The men OTOH, can not.

[NW Jim]

... in response to Ladies looking for men, posted by david hagar on Nov 9, 2003