My story in support of JimmySt

[Buck]

Hi All-Most of you won't remember me.I posted for a while but a couple of bad eggs & the fact that my novia doesn't like her life on here has pretty much kept me from posting.I went the same route as Jimmy.I started writing to several ladies then quickly went to one.Went to Peru to see her in Feb. 2001.She has made 3 trips here.Planned on being married by now but some things came up that interfered.We hope for her to be here in 3 weeks.I will agree that you can not be 100% sure until you meet.But I was fairly sure before I met her.I wasn't wrong.But I also think that Jimmy is proper in not PLANNING on seeing anyone else while there.If he wants to give his investment a chance he will want all his time for the young lady.He needs to get to know her fast & he needs time to do that.If it ever fails(now or later)he can take a walk over to Matching Sys.But if he does nothing else he will visit a great city.He will see lots of beautiful ladies.I wish him all the luck in the world.He will need it as do all of us that look overseas for our true love.Tom

[Patrick]

... in response to My story in support of JimmySt, posted by Buck on Nov 3, 2003

Everyone needs to use the approach they feel most comfortable with.  You, Jimmy, and myself follow the same method.  It worked for me.  It worked for you.  It can work for Jimmy.

I do think it's a good idea not to expect too much though until you've spent some face time together.