Upcoming trip

[gringuitonto]

Next week I leave for my 6th trip to C. A couple days in Cartagena
to see the national beauty contest , than Cali for 8-10 days or so.  
Last year  I  went there four times to be with a woman I was in
love with.  She  came here on a K1, lasted  three weeks and
went back to Cali.  After a long rebound  I am back to square one,
starting the search, evaluate, conclude and screw it up again.
Just kidding, I did all my best previously  but was not enough.  
Live and learn. I am not overly optimistic about this but sure it
beats  what  I can  have here. Ever since my first trip to Cali two
years ago I am not interested dating AW.  Not that there is no
good AW are around here, but  in terms of feminity,  
attractiveness, sensuality and sweetness let's just say they can
not be compared with colombian women.  Oh well .... I just wish I
know  what to do with Her  when/if she gets here. Whoever she
will be.  Anyhow,  if some of you guys  will be there and want to
have a beer and hang out together  email me please:
gringitonto@caliescali.com

[Kiltboy1]

... in response to Upcoming trip, posted by gringuitonto on Oct 29, 2003

Good luck to you on your trip. Sorry to hear about the failed K1 . Please do no feel bad. You could have married her before and brought her to the states and then found out it would not work. I speak fom experiance, and i did all the right things as well ,IE , travel 4 times to be with her , constant contact , asked all the tough questions , ECT. You just never know about how it will work out, and this is it with any woman. Only difference is that with a local woman, you do not have plane fare tied up into it all.It takes a very special and dedicated and responsable woman to make the ajustment to the US. Most woman only see things on TV and think this is how it will be in America. In reality, we live a very fast paced way of life compared to LA. We also have a need to be puntual in our lives here. Our jobs and our social connections depends on it. That is a huge ajustment for most woman in LA , and while it seems trival to us, it is a big deal to them and sometimes is seen as MACHISTA , when you stress the importance of it.Just forget about what happened before and me sure you do not sugercoat what life is like here and what will be expected of them if they come here. You may get less dates when you are brutaly honest with them, but you will also have less hassles as well.Remember , any woman can come to America with a visa, but it takes an EXCEPTIONAL WOMAN to stay !

Bueno Suerte

[gringuitonto]

... in response to Re: Upcoming trip, posted by Kiltboy1 on Oct 29, 2003

Well I hope to find that EXCEPTIONAL ONE who wants
to make the adjustments to a new life here.  I did the
same eighteen years ago. ( I am a European gringo)
Thanks for wishing me good luck.