I don't even know

[CaliAdvisor]

... in response to I don't even know, posted by Pete E on Oct 21, 2003

I agree with you buddy. If you don't understand Spanish at a pretty high level, you a shark bait for these kind of predators. And believe me: she is a predator.

With the Spanish you can see how she speaks with her friends, family, associates etc. You can understand her attitude towards the world a lot better and more quickly see the difference between a sweatheart and a manipulator.

[burbuja2]

... in response to I don't even know, posted by Pete E on Oct 21, 2003

Petey, make that Pete E..  You seem to be a very rational person.  You consider options and implications in your decision-making.  I think you may be attributing the same characteristics to your wife, and that may not apply.  A lot of people are dishonest, a lot of people don't have a plan, and a lot of people don't know what they want.  Its clear to me that you need to stop psycho-analyzing your wife's actions at this point.  It serves no purpose and is nothing more than an unhealthy sport for you.  Instead, proceed with extricating yourself from this situation and get on with the business of moving on to a new and better life.  One last thing:  In view of your wife's admission that she never loved you, is there any possibility of annulling the marriage based on fraud?

[Pete E]

... in response to Don't Be Confused, posted by burbuja2 on Oct 21, 2003

I'm trying not to psycoanalize.Its not like me.I just have confusion about who the real she  is.And sometimes,like this morning,I just can't shake my doubts about her.
Off course,as I said,get the hell out is the solution.
She never admitted she never loved me,although I think that is the case.She did admit,February this year that she did not love me.
I think I bought myself an uncontested divorce by coming up with a plan to help her in the transition also.Plus she can't do much with me not here and a pension she can't touch.I think I will just go to a paralegal,or someone sent me imformation on a Nevada Divorce,apparently easy if uncontested.
I don't think there is any advantage in  trying to prove fraud as it seems to be working out,and I think it could be difficult anyway.
But if you will give me your E-mail  address there is something I would like to bounce off of you.

Pete
peiguren@aol.com

[burbuja2]

... in response to Re: Don't Be Confused, posted by Pete E on Oct 21, 2003

Feel free to e-mail me anytime at burbuja2@cox.net.

[CaliAdvisor]

... in response to Don't Be Confused, posted by burbuja2 on Oct 21, 2003

Now your talking. Why dont you get a voice recording of her admission.