Colombian women vs. Brasilian women

[Calipro]

I found a web site with 1447 Brasilian babes and 404 Colombianas.

I know it's not a scientific sampling of the women in either country but there are over three times as many Brasilian women as Colombian women. So guys take a good look guys. Where would you look for a wife?

http://www.latinsocialnetwork.com/

[CaliAdvisor]

... in response to Colombian women vs. Brasilian women, posted by Calipro on Oct 24, 2003

Read my explanation below on why doing some internet search is never going to settle this debate. The type of women in Brasil who go on singles networks or marriage agencies are not going to be hot for the simple fact that they have to rely on these types of outlets. The hot ones dont need to advertise. In Colombia, the hot ones do need to advertise because many want out of the country.

[Ralph]

... in response to Re: Colombian women vs. Brasilian women, posted by CaliAdvisor on Oct 24, 2003

If I look on the websites for mexican agencies I might think that there are not many attractive women in mexico. Having been there several times, I know that is not the case.

This "rah rah" cali is number one stuff is getting old. Mye head turned more in brazil than it did in cali, but that can be a personal preference.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Colombian women vs. Brasilian women, posted by CaliAdvisor on Oct 24, 2003

From your post below:

"In the meantime, take it from someone who has been to all three countries: there is a lot going on in Costa Rica and Brasil and on average, the women are hotter in Costa Rica. You might not find as many silicone enhanced beauties in Costa Rica, but in terms of naturally delicious women, you will find plenty. In Brasil you will find it all."

If this is the case, Why do you go to Cali??

I agree with you on one thing. You can find a very different type woman outside of the agency scene in Colombia or probably in Brasil or Costa Rica. One that is not interested in leaving their country at all. They can still be very nice and have a relationship with you but in the end what good are they if they don't want to come here.

The whole thing just makes me want to move down to Colombia but there is no way to make a decent living there and I can't retire for a least another six years. Until then I'm stuck with the women that are motivated to leave their country for what ever reason.

[CaliAdvisor]

... in response to Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Brasilian wo..., posted by Calipro on Oct 24, 2003

"One that is not interested in leaving their country at all. They can still be very nice and have a relationship with you but in the end what good are they if they don't want to come here."

This statement works the other way around too CaliPro. Unless you have a lot a lot of money, you really aren't much use to these women if you don't plan on going back to the USA. Many of them want that green card. I think this is part of the problem that Pete E is going to run into if he moves to Cali. He is gonna lose a lot of his attraction value once these babes find out he isn't going to be bringing them back to the USA because his name is trashed there.

[Locii]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Brasilia..., posted by CaliAdvisor on Oct 24, 2003

I could be way off base here, but it seems to me the threads about female motivation (LW or otherwise) is always a bit off base in one essential way.  Women do not think like men do...that is, all of the 'goal oriented' thought patterns described here: wanting to get to USA, wanting a better lifestyle, wanting a better man, etc...are somewhat counter to the feminine intuitive thought process I have encountered my entire life.

How many times I walk down the street (I live in Key West but am a displaced yankee) and I see one woman after another mismatched with some guy (in *MY* opinion of course).  If you talk with most of these women about why they are with who they are with...it almost invariably comes down to what I could call 'backwardian thinking'.  Reactive thinking...emotive thinking.

This is best illustrated in contrast to my own, and I think most men's, thinking.  When I meet a woman, I am very interested in her breasts.  I am not suggesting I stare at them, or ask her about them; in fact I make a point of doing the inverse and being egalitarian and polite (probably to a fault, actually).  But, my point is this...if I don't like a woman's proportions; forget it...I can't make it last (a physical or other relationship).  I have tried to make myself like(love?) great women who are very nice or intelligent or sweet, but who do not truly fire my rocket, and it is a lost cause.

Women, generally I think, respond to a man in an intuitive way.  "I like the way he speaks to me, and smells, and talks to his mother..." and various other bizarre combinations of thought and response which, unfortunately, in cases like PeteE's, are so very often fleeting.  I am not suggesting it is bad, but it is typically inscrutable to me.  I find women love me when I least expect it, and hate me when I least expect it (and really want to take a nap?!)...the threads about 'make sure she loves you..."; well good luck to the one who can figure that out.  I would really say, make sure that she respects you; because in a moment of sadness, anger, need, or misunderstanding, respect is key.

So, I think to suggest that a woman thinks "I want to go to the USA" (period), or "I want more money" (period), or whatever, is generally misguided.  Most women want to stay near friends and family, and need constant communication with them regardless of distance.  In SA, there is no shortage of attractive women...there is rather a shortage of  1)responsible and 2)upwardly mobile men; finding that is a natural goal of most women.  This is great since most of us get up every day with those thoughts and goals in mind, and have been minimalized by AW for whatever reasons.

Caio

[david hagar]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Bras..., posted by Locii on Oct 25, 2003

right on

beatledog

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Bras..., posted by Locii on Oct 25, 2003

[This message has been edited by Calipro]

There is no telling what is going on inside a woman's head. And you don't want to know even if you could. You know my first caleña wife told me after we were married that she was thinking about dumping me after our second date because I wore cowboy boots and a western belt buckle!! She hated it.

I have broke and trained American Quarter Horses most of my life and I wear cowboy boots sometimes. Big deal!!
Only a women would think like that.

[CaliAdvisor]

... in response to You are so right !!!, posted by Calipro on Oct 25, 2003

I have to say that this is a pretty obvios no no. It is like if your Colombian girlfriend shows up to a date with you in the USA in indigenous clothing with the little black hat, grass skirt and face paint. It is completely out of place thing to do in our country.  

People don't like overly pretentios gringos in Cali. Strutting around like Clint Eastwood isn't going to get you many points with the oposite sex.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: You are so right !!!, posted by CaliAdvisor on Oct 27, 2003

But, you have to realize these things are not second nature to me. I'm not a metro-sexual!  LOL!!

[beenthere]

... in response to You are probably right., posted by Calipro on Oct 28, 2003

You don't have to be a metro-sexual to dress with class.  It just takes common sense!!!  Common sense, Calipro?  Can anyone say oil & water???

[Bueller]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Bras..., posted by Locii on Oct 25, 2003

"...the threads about 'make sure she loves you..."; well good luck to the one who can figure that out. I would really say, make sure that she respects you; because in a moment of sadness, anger, need, or misunderstanding, respect is key."    

 Or as Machiavelli said, it is better to be feared than loved, because men love you at their convenience, but they fear you at your convenience." Or words to that effect. Insert "women", "respect", etc. of course.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Brasilia..., posted by CaliAdvisor on Oct 24, 2003

I think you must be talking about women at the agencies and that would be true. You would lose a lot of your appeal to the women in the agencies if they found out you had no intentions of returning to the U.S. But, with the women who are not in the agencies nor interested in leaving colombia, I think you are handicapped but the fact that you are not going to stay in colombia.

I don't think Pete will have this problem if he goes to Cali. because he said he wasn't interested in doing the agency thing again.

I have met quite a few very attractive women in Cali that didn't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of and I couldn't get them to join a marriage agency to save my life. If marrying a gringo and living in the U.S. was a goal of most of the women in Colombia there wouldn't be 3000-4000 women in the agencies in Cali but 30,000 to 40,000 women or more. I have even met some women that are in the agencies that after you talk to them you are wondering why the hell they are even there. They,re not all that motivated and or interested in coming to the U.S. IMHO.

[chevy]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. Bras..., posted by Calipro on Oct 24, 2003

So why are the women in the agencies? To get out of colombia? Or to find a decent guy? There has to be decent men in colmbia or there would be more women in the agencies.
So are they there looking for a way out of colombia or looking for real love.?

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Colombian women vs. ..., posted by chevy on Oct 24, 2003

No one answer. Some are there because they have very few options in Colombia (over 35 and or have children). Some got sold on the idea by friends that got married to gringos and still others have found out through travel or relatives what they are missing. There are a lot of different reasons why a women might want to move to the U.S.

It's my opinion that most of the women at agencies are looking for real love. It is hard for me to believe that a women would or could sleep and live with a man for over two years just to get a green card. Any women that could pull that off would already have to be prostitute IMHO.

So to answer your question directly, I think the women in agencies are looking for a way out of Colombia and hopeing for true love.

If you don't want one that is already pre-sold on the idea of living in the U.S.A. , you can always try and pick them up at the mall. How's your spanish??? But, then you'll have to sell her on the idea of leaving her family and friends. Shouldn't be to hard if she really loves you right?