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Author Topic: My E-mail and more  (Read 1314 times)
Pete E
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« on: October 01, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

My E-mail doesn't show in my profile.I intended it to but it doesn't.
Lots of guys have mailed me.Its peiguren@aol.com.
Put "personal" at least the start of the subject so I will be sure to read it.I get so many mails and spam I may miss mails sometimes.I would never intentionally ignore a personal mail to be but I could have missed some.
Also,at some point,probably after everything is totally over and settled I will do a detailed account of what I did and where I think I screwed up.There is a lesson here as well as a personal story.
I am going to try and shut up a little,but as you guys know thats hard for me to do.I will probably be answering more posts today.
As I said my wife hates when I post anything negative about us and mostly I have gone along with her wishes giving a very unbalenced picture.
Yeserday we had a big fight.She was ridiculing my posting and saying all kinds of stupidly insulting things that were not at all accurate.If she could just read some of the posts you guys have sent me with an open heart and mind she would come to a totally different conclusion.
But she does have a point.How much personal imformation should be posted?For her,none.For me,I am just a wide open guy who will tell the truth to about anybody that doesn't seem to want to use it to hurt me.
Part of the reason she has been so secretive I think is she is not willing to tell the truth since the truth would not be  pretty.I get almost no imformation out of her.I have to guess.I would tell her anything she wanted to know about me.
But is she thinks she can do what she has to me and nobody is going to know about it,she picked the wrong guy.Big time.Just like I picked the wrong girl for so many reasons.
Jim gave me what I thought at the time was good advice,to basically shut up about my relationship here.But I always intended to tell the whole story if it didn't work.And its definetly not working.But as I said below details will come much later after everything is settled.
What do you guys think? Is it appropriate or foolish to post so much personal imformation?You pissed at me Jim?
I think we should take alot of it off board from here.
Also,to my wifes friends that read this,I know you are loyal to her but I would like your imput.I'm not angry about it.I have nothing to hide except sometimes I would open my mouth and Rocio would be angry And I think I should not have said anything.But the cover up is over.I am guessing who is relaying things to her and the only person I know that I think reads the list is Liliana.Liliana,you seem like a level hesaded reasonable person.What do you think?Its also intersting,if I hadn't met Rocio you would not have met Mike.Strange sometimes how our lives are woven together.

Pete

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stefang
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« Reply #1 on: October 01, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to My E-mail and more, posted by Pete E on Oct 1, 2003

Hi Pete I am sorry for what is happening. I think Jim is just trying to protect you from an Aaron type that might try to use your situation for his personal pleasure. I know it is only an internet board but it takes guts to tell your personal story. Maybe this is how you will get rid of your fustrations being able to finally speak what you feel.
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Pete E
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« Reply #2 on: October 01, 2003, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Re: My E-mail and more, posted by stefang on Oct 1, 2003

Yeah,sometimes someone comes along and tries to kick someone when they are down,like Aaron did to Bruce.Its a risk I'm willing to take to tell the truth and have he support and friendship of people,most of whom I have never met.I bet Bruce would say the same thing,as unpleasant as it was for him.
And I feel for Aaron.I liked the guy.He just let the back and forth disagreement get him to a place where he was being a smaller person than he really is.Anger and resentment can be a killer,literally,as in when someone goes postal.
Its best to avoid the negative.It can be so ugly as in my yelling match with my wife the other night.Why not be bigger than that?It brings me peace to look at it that way.Peace of mind is a very important thing to have.One of my friends,when asked what was the most important thing in life put peace of mind in first place.Sex was number 2.Interesting guy.

Pete

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