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[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: You're sounding ....., posted by lswote on Oct 5, 2003

Iswote

I described their figures as 10 year old GIRLS!!!!!

 NOT BOYS!!!!

I'm not obsessed with breasts like you are. It is just that the figures of fillipinas remind me of children thats all.

[lswote]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: You're sounding ....., posted by Calipro on Oct 5, 2003

Sorry, I couldn't find your original post so I was going from memory.  And while I agree that Asians don't do anything for me either, we have well respected posters on this board who are married to Asians and there is no need to insult Asians to make your point.

[Ralph]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: You're sounding ....., posted by lswote on Oct 5, 2003

If the Philipina doesn't have big enough breasts, you can just buy her new ones, get her a job at hooters, and brag about how she worked at a strip club;-)

Typical, junior high school type comment. I am sure a Colombiana is the best choice if her condom filled with coke doesn't burst on the flight from Bogota;-)

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to You're sounding ....., posted by Calipro on Oct 4, 2003

CaliPro

I like your taste in women, your digital camera, and your sense of humor.  

Steve

[cancunhound]

... in response to Re: You're sounding ....., posted by DallasSteve2 on Oct 4, 2003

[cancunhound]

... in response to Re: Woah!, posted by senge on Oct 4, 2003

senge you need to understand that not everyone here has used an agency.  If you don't have connections, well an agency is the easiest path from A to B.  I'm throwing my 2 cents in to try to help fellow gringos that would take this marraige dive, as I did years ago - without any assistance.  Before you do anything, check with your local Colombian, Asian, whatever group in your area - maybe you can get hooked up without all this MOB business.  If you don't have a passion for latinas - do not go south, simple as that.

[cancunhound]

... in response to Woah!, posted by DallasSteve2 on Oct 4, 2003

Not to raise an alarm here, but I have seen this scenario where the latina already has a boyfriend in the US - the gringo is just the vehicle to get her there.  I hope this is rare - but it was predetermined.  Other than that, you've gotta look 50/50 if the marriage doesn't float - whose fault that is.  senge I believe needs to step up to the plate and take a stab at AW before venturing to LA - latinas will tear him up.

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to decided to bolt, posted by cancunhound on Oct 4, 2003

I think the cases where the foreign bride already has another man in the US exist, but are a small minority of the failed marriages.  More often I think that they meet someone here after they arrive.

You wrote: "Other than that, you've gotta look 50/50 if the marriage doesn't float"

Do you still think it's 50/50 if the woman knew she really didn't want to spend her life with the man, but she married him because he was her best shot to get into the US so she went for it (and she didn't bother to reveal that detail to him before they married)?

Steve

[cancunhound]

... in response to 50/50 ?, posted by DallasSteve2 on Oct 4, 2003

Meant 50/50 after they get here - same as in any other marriage - you just never know.  I'll bow to our more experienced members here on this one - myself pushing 38 I'm a young buck and as such "I am not authorized to provide that information".  I tend to believe that nobody should head off to BFE for a couple of weeks with ring in hand expecting to bring back a bride.  Just go, have a good time -  meet some interesting people, see some neat places, and you just may meet the "one" - it'll be instantaneous and obvious.  Could take 1 day, could take 3 years?  Myself, I went through 2 pairs of well maintained military issue boots, and I wasn't even looking!

[lswote]

... in response to Re: Colombian Fantasy Chaser Responds, posted by senge on Oct 4, 2003

What did you base your idea that once you have been through a divorce you never really have the same respect for lifelong marriage?  I certainly don't agree with that.

I have been married before, but the failure of that marriage made me all the more determined to find someone I could spend the rest of my life with.  I think guys with Calipro's attitude are the exception, not the rule.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Colombian Fantasy Chaser Responds, posted by senge on Oct 4, 2003

for latin culture. Better go with the filipinas.