... in response to So what gives?, posted by Confused on Aug 25, 2003I had this happen to me first hand. False expectations. The Cinderella complex I think they call it. I don't blame them for it we go there for the same thing diffrent resons.
A women who has it hard there, does not want to come here, give up all she knows and is familiar with to have it hard here. She can get hard at home and enjoy it more.
When I say hard I mean the struggle we all indore here in the states. We work very hard here in the states and though we earn more we earn it through education and hard work.
When you choose someone you must take into consideration her education, family and religious background to see how she may act in the future
